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OceanSlave -> Does anyone do TOTAL chastity? (4/8/2005 9:13:56 PM)

Do any slaves live in TOTAL chastity? I have some questions:

- Does anyone actually live in complete chastity, going the rest of their life without orgasm?

- If so, are they "milked", and how often?

- Are some slaves in chastity but allowed occasional masturbation privileges, instead of milking?

- Are any slaves in chastity with no release - no milking, no orgasm?

- Is milking medically necessary, or does the body naturally release the semen as necessary (such as through wet dreams)?

Thank you so much!!!!




unbrokenhouseboy -> RE: Does anyone do TOTAL chastity? (4/8/2005 10:57:31 PM)

1
is anyone in complete chastity?
if you mean by devices or such,..no i am not...but read on please.
2
milked?
no i am not..read on yet.
3
is milking necessary?
by MY doctor,...NO!

the male body, through the urine tract, as urine is passed out, if you look for it, you WILL see old unused semen leaked out into the bowl. what the body does not use, it disposes of. milking is not needed.
now, MY story? i am self celebate,,no sex since 2001...at all, with another human being.
masturbation?...maybe once a month, IF i feel like it. and seldom do.
so no i am not in a device,...but it wouldnt matter if i was...i have almost zero desires.

i suppose now you may say i didnt help. but i had hope i was close to a good answer for you.

thanks
houseboy




onceburned -> RE: Does anyone do TOTAL chastity? (4/9/2005 3:27:09 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: unbrokenhouseboy
the male body, through the urine tract, as urine is passed out, if you look for it, you WILL see old unused semen leaked out into the bowl. .


um... I don't think so!

Semen isn't going to appear in urine unless a person has ejaculated or had seminal release such as via a wet dream or milking. The prostate doesn't ooze seminal fluid continously. And the sphincters which control seminal fluid and urine are totally separate. The only way that urine and semen mix is if there are some "left-overs" in the penis that get flushed out together.

In the absence of ejaculation, wet dreams or milking there will be a build up of seminal fluid in the prostate. This will need to be relieved. On four occasions, when I hadn't had release through other means for quite some time, I found that mild stimulation of the penis (less than required in masturbation) was enough to 'open the gate' so that seminal fluid would ooze forth from the slightly engorged but otherwise flaccid penis. It was mildly pleasant but a bit unnerving because it seemed like it wouldn't stop flowing. But it did - presumably once the pressure was relieved inside the prostate.

Now, the question with enforced chastity is whether a device which encloses the penis will prevent stimulation so that wet dreams and the release I described do not occur. I do not know what would happen, but I guess that is one reason why milking is practiced.





RealTimePrincess -> RE: Does anyone do TOTAL chastity? (4/9/2005 11:12:52 AM)

I insist on total, permanent chastity. Cock-cage 24/7. Once a week, I'll remove it and put it in the dishwasher while he's tied up, and put it back on before I untie him. No orgasm, EVER. If he wants to milk himself, fine, but it won't be by my hand. And it definitely won't be orgasm, never.




perverseangelic -> RE: Does anyone do TOTAL chastity? (4/9/2005 12:38:34 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: RealTimePrincess

I insist on total, permanent chastity. Cock-cage 24/7. Once a week, I'll remove it and put it in the dishwasher while he's tied up, and put it back on before I untie him. No orgasm, EVER. If he wants to milk himself, fine, but it won't be by my hand. And it definitely won't be orgasm, never.



(no judgement, no nothing. Honest curiosity)

Why? What does this do for you? What do you forsee it doing for your partner?



(yes, I know, threadjack, but I don't want to satart a new one just to ask this)




onceburned -> RE: Does anyone do TOTAL chastity? (4/9/2005 1:29:28 PM)

quote:

Why? What does this do for you? What do you forsee it doing for your partner?


It's not a threadjack at all. [:)]

I wanted to ask RealTimePrincess if she has ever done chastity on her partner?

If so then for how long, and what were the results? (how well was the device tolerated, how well did the sub hold up, were there any untoward side effects.... that kind of thing)




sweetpettjenny -> RE: Does anyone do TOTAL chastity? (4/9/2005 2:44:25 PM)

see i actually have been in chastity when not with my owner, in the past. Although i am female , i find my desires are not the same unless he was with me.




unbrokenhouseboy -> RE: Does anyone do TOTAL chastity? (4/9/2005 7:25:33 PM)

quote:


um... I don't think so!

Semen isn't going to appear in urine unless a person has ejaculated or had seminal release such as via a wet dream or milking. The prostate doesn't ooze seminal fluid continously. And the sphincters which control seminal fluid and urine are totally separate. The only way that urine and semen mix is if there are some "left-overs" in the penis that get flushed out together.

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i will not.........hurt your feelings here......nor attempt to be a know it all.......but i DO know,........my body,.......i watch myself very closely,......and i know "I" see semen leak out before i go pee.......sometimes after....."I" have not had a wet dream since i was about 12 years old. and i seldom ever masturbate......seldom ever......maybe once a month if i care enough..

but okay.
anyway.....

take care.
houseboy




OceanSlave -> RE: Does anyone do TOTAL chastity? (4/9/2005 7:31:44 PM)

You only have one orgasm a month, seriously? Do you just have no sex drive? And if so, have you ever consulted a physician or psychologist?




sarbonn -> RE: Does anyone do TOTAL chastity? (4/9/2005 8:15:35 PM)

Having lived a submissive lifestyle, it sort of bothers me that I never actually experienced this on a continuous basis. It just never seemed to happen for me. So, that's still one thing I'd like to find. I've been required to maintain self-control, but it certainly doesn't seem as wonderful as her-control.




ScooterTrash -> RE: Does anyone do TOTAL chastity? (4/9/2005 8:22:21 PM)

Just as a footnote, unbrokenhouseboy is fairly correct on the discharge of extra "something" through the urinary tract. Anyone who has had a vacectomy can substantiate that, the extra sperm has to go somewhere after the plumbing is disconnected. So from that part of the puzzle, no, deprivation wouldn't be harmful. Not sure what effect that has on the prostate however as this is different fluids and plumbing and I'm not experienced in that deprivation experiment, won't be any time soon either..lol.





SweetDommes -> RE: Does anyone do TOTAL chastity? (4/9/2005 9:05:12 PM)

The body will eventually get rid of the buildup - however, onceburned was also correct in his statement that the sphincters that control the releases are separate. Going from what I have learned in the last 5 years (4 in school and 1 as a practicing nurse) it's healthier for the prostate to not have to drain itself. If your owner doesn't want you to orgasm, then milking is an exceptable alternative, but something needs to happen to release the buildup of seminal fluids.

There is no research about how often it needs to be done, but since the first line treatment for prostate enlargement (which causes urinary tract constriction - and trust me, you do NOT want to have to go through urethra enlargement if it gets pinched off by your prostate - and has been shown to lead to prostate cancer) is more frequent orgasms, it makes sense that regular orgasm would help to prevent enlargement and the problems associated with it.




onceburned -> RE: Does anyone do TOTAL chastity? (4/9/2005 10:26:18 PM)

quote:

Anyone who has had a vacectomy can substantiate that, the extra sperm has to go somewhere after the plumbing is disconnected.


I looked this up because I was curious. According to the Planned Parenthood website - admittedly not the most medically prestigious of sources - vasectomy cuts both of the vas deferentia so that sperm can not join the seminal fluid. Instead the sperm is simply reabsorbed by the testicles.

But wait! There's more! <g>

I guess prostate fluid only makes up about 1/3 of seminal fluid. Most of the fluid comes from the seminal vesicles, with a small additional amount from the Cowper's gland (the source of pre-cum). But I have never heard of any problems relating to chastity and the seminal vesicles or Cowper's gland. So maybe their fluids are reabsorbed too if they aren't drained periodically. (I think milking only releases prostate fluid, but I may be wrong)




sunmoon888 -> RE: Does anyone do TOTAL chastity? (4/10/2005 5:46:46 AM)

I am currently in chastity and have been for a week and will be for several more weeks. It is amazing not to be able to feel my penis at all. My mistress has the keys and I have a lengthy assignment to complete before I can see her again. She may not take the device off then anyway, so I am prepared to be in here a while.




ShiftedJewel -> RE: Does anyone do TOTAL chastity? (4/10/2005 7:12:04 AM)

quote:

and i seldom ever masturbate......seldom ever......maybe once a month if i care enough..


I have a question... now I'm serious here. I really and honestly do not understand absolute chastity. To me it seems that getting physically excited is as natural as breathing, ok so you want to supress it and that's fine, but what happens if you supress it over long periods of time? And I don't mean as far as prostrate health goes. If you are successful in completely "taming" the raging hardon, don't you also eventually succeed in "killing" the desire all together? Would there come a point where impotence would be a serious issue?

Jewel





AAkasha -> RE: Does anyone do TOTAL chastity? (4/10/2005 9:26:52 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: OceanSlave

Do any slaves live in TOTAL chastity? I have some questions:

- Does anyone actually live in complete chastity, going the rest of their life without orgasm?

- If so, are they "milked", and how often?

- Are some slaves in chastity but allowed occasional masturbation privileges, instead of milking?

- Are any slaves in chastity with no release - no milking, no orgasm?

- Is milking medically necessary, or does the body naturally release the semen as necessary (such as through wet dreams)?

Thank you so much!!!!


Why don't you email "LifeLongChastity".

Oh wait, that's *YOU*!

Akasha




LadyAngelika -> RE: Does anyone do TOTAL chastity? (4/10/2005 9:28:46 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: RealTimePrincess

I insist on total, permanent chastity. Cock-cage 24/7. Once a week, I'll remove it and put it in the dishwasher while he's tied up, and put it back on before I untie him. No orgasm, EVER. If he wants to milk himself, fine, but it won't be by my hand. And it definitely won't be orgasm, never.


Wow. It's too bad Perverta, WisestWoman or QueenBitch aren't around to agree with you. Wait, if you look deep down into yourself you might just find them ;)

- LA




onceburned -> RE: Does anyone do TOTAL chastity? (4/10/2005 9:39:43 AM)

Unbrokenhouseboy, did you use the name "garylee" in the past? Your writing style is very similar and I noticed that his profile is gone.




GoddessDustyGold -> RE: Does anyone do TOTAL chastity? (4/10/2005 12:34:26 PM)

Ya know, this is an interesting question to Me. I believe it has been addressed before in other manners on these boards.
I am amazed at how many boys list chastity and permanent orgasm suppression in their list of interests. Why do you do that??? This is a sincere question.
I do not consider it healthy, both physically and psychologically and emotionally. And yes, I feel it is medically necessary to be milked or have regular orgasms. I admit I do not like to milk. It is just so clinical (to ME, folks!). So I use masturbation at My feet on a regular basis. Good for the boy, and fun for Me!




MistressGitana -> RE: Does anyone do TOTAL chastity? (9/22/2007 8:23:18 PM)

No orgasms, ever. Anything accidental warrants a beating. I prefer permanent chastity and using a rotation of devices- some painful and some not. It's worked for years.




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