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azzmaster -> all these subs conned into looking 4 other subs (3/23/2007 9:11:25 PM)

i was leafing thru some profiles and as always surprised to see how many subs are advertising 4 other slaves or subs to join their master... pimpin for their master... it reminds me alot of pimps who get their top woman to recruit other potential hookers... well its JUST like that... i let women know i m not monagamous and they will either deal with that or not be with me... but somehow to me it seems lowdown to mindfuck ur sub so much she is out recruiting for u... i can find my own chix, thanks, LOL... oh yeah... people will talk about the subtle beauty of poly relationships... but u will never convince me any woman who really loves her man wants to share him. nope... azzmaster knows women. i might get em to just understand thats the deal but i won't manipulate them to say they like it



AquaticSub -> RE: all these subs conned into looking 4 other subs (3/23/2007 9:12:41 PM)

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ORIGINAL: azzmaster

i was leafing thru some profiles and as always surprised to see how many subs are advertising 4 other slaves or subs to join their master... pimpin for their master... it reminds me alot of pimps who get their top woman to recruit other potential hookers... well its JUST like that... i let women know i m not monagamous and they will either deal with that or not be with me... but somehow to me it seems lowdown to mindfuck ur sub so much she is out recruiting for u... i can find my own chix, thanks, LOL... oh yeah... people will talk about the subtle beauty of poly relationships... but u will never convince me any woman who really loves her man wants to share him. nope... azzmaster knows women. i might get em to just understand thats the deal but i won't manipulate them to say they like it


Didn't you already post about this and a bunch of us told you that we wanted to help look for the other woman to join the group?



ownedgirlie -> RE: all these subs conned into looking 4 other subs (3/23/2007 9:13:56 PM)

Girls usually contact my Master on their own...or he contacts them. I put a mild blurb in my profile so that should someone look at it, they would know they could talk to me about it.

No big deal really.  I'm his to use as a pimp if he wanted...but he doesn't.



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: all these subs conned into looking 4 other subs (3/23/2007 9:14:55 PM)

Everyone knows I'm my own whore :)



AquaticSub -> RE: all these subs conned into looking 4 other subs (3/23/2007 9:15:25 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Everyone knows I'm my own whore :)


I don't know why but this phrase made me really happy. Thank you.



azzmaster -> RE: all these subs conned into looking 4 other subs (3/23/2007 9:17:07 PM)

ur absolutely right aqua, i did post on this b4, but i just thought of it again since i was leafing thru profiles... as i said tho...i don't believe it... i think its either being brainwashed or trying to be in some sort of i want to be the worlds best sub contest



mnottertail -> RE: all these subs conned into looking 4 other subs (3/23/2007 9:19:49 PM)

everybody knows what a dick looks like, but they are the ones gonna be snuffing the pussy so it is important they can try to get along.  There really ain't a whole lot to say here about this.

Ron 



hisannabelle -> RE: all these subs conned into looking 4 other subs (3/23/2007 9:22:56 PM)

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ORIGINAL: azzmaster

ur absolutely right aqua, i did post on this b4, but i just thought of it again since i was leafing thru profiles... as i said tho...i don't believe it... i think its either being brainwashed or trying to be in some sort of i want to be the worlds best sub contest


i'm not out looking for submissives for Him, cause He doesn't want anymore. i'm out looking for partners for myself and for us both. even if i was, i wouldn't consider it pimping on His part.

to assume that people have to be brainwashed or weak or stupid or whatever to do this is pretty insulting, imho. most of us have a brain. personally, i could see this as a good method in a lot of cases because in this way, the present submissive/slave gets to know the new guy/girl first, and that connection will probably be the most important to maintaining harmony in the relationship.

yes, there are people who do use it as a pimping service, and yes there are cases where it is a bad thing, but i doubt that's the majority of cases.



FukinTroll -> RE: all these subs conned into looking 4 other subs (3/23/2007 9:23:51 PM)

*cracks nuckles and considers a rubber stamp*

The sub/slave is the one that will be dealing with the new one, blah blah blah, and he/she is the one that has to be comfortable, blah blah blah, get it?



MasterFireMaam -> RE: all these subs conned into looking 4 other subs (3/23/2007 9:24:07 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Everyone knows I'm my own whore :)


With and EASY button! And, you're not cheap.

LOL

Master Fire



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: all these subs conned into looking 4 other subs (3/23/2007 9:25:44 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam
With and EASY button! And, you're not cheap.

LOL

Master Fire



ROFLMAO YES!  You are so aweomse.

Thanks Aqua- just sounded right to me.



azzmaster -> RE: all these subs conned into looking 4 other subs (3/23/2007 9:26:41 PM)

sigh.... predictable knee jerk book of BDSM responses... just what i expected...no one can just be honest



juliaoceania -> RE: all these subs conned into looking 4 other subs (3/23/2007 9:29:48 PM)

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Didn't you already post about this and a bunch of us told you that we wanted to help look for the other woman to join the group?


It is not my thing, finding playmates for Daddy. It is not his thing either, but if it were someday to be something that we wanted to explore for just a sexual thrill it would be me that sought it and it would not be online... too many troubles that I could imagine if I did seek a playmate online.

I think that it seems more natural to let the submissive that would have to live with and interact with the other girl screen for the dom... it would help with the process of adding another girl.

I guess I see the sense inherent in this logic as a mother. If I had many UMs I would try to involve the UMs that already existed in the process of bringing new baby UMs into the household. It makes wee ones feel more a part of the process and causes less resentment. At least that is how I would think a wise dominant would approach it.

As far as it being unnatural, women in other cultures often love being in poly marriages and men often take sister wives to ease relations between wives and the children that come into the poly marriage. Polygamous marriage is rather a common concept globally.



AquaticSub -> RE: all these subs conned into looking 4 other subs (3/23/2007 9:32:23 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: azzmaster

ur absolutely right aqua, i did post on this b4, but i just thought of it again since i was leafing thru profiles... as i said tho...i don't believe it... i think its either being brainwashed or trying to be in some sort of i want to be the worlds best sub contest


So... you ask a question and bunch of submissives reply and you don't believe us? Why waste our time asking again? It's just rude.

Like I said before, if Valyraen wanted to bring in another member to our relationships I wouldn't consent to it unless I could screen them. You can think that's brainwashing all you like. It's a flawed opinion, but you are certainly welcome to it.



hisannabelle -> RE: all these subs conned into looking 4 other subs (3/23/2007 9:34:18 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: azzmaster

sigh.... predictable knee jerk book of BDSM responses... just what i expected...no one can just be honest


no, we're just not willing to be cynical about everything. cynicism is usually the answer, but not always.

and hell, why do you care? i mean, i realize that we all have our beliefs about how ethical this is and all of that, but there are a hundred other examples of things people do/say/put in their profiles that indicate that they could be dysfunctional idiots doing shit we find unethical, yet people pick on this one so much. if you have a problem with it, don't answer the ad. we sit around condoning other things that happen between consensual adults, yet people pick on this like it's so terrible - hey, guys, people still have brains and the ability to make decisions FOR THEMSELVES, and the fact that you are picking on it to me insults -that- (would you want someone telling you all about how you're terrible for seeking other submissives even though you already have one?).

you want to hear a specific kind of response, and you and the other people who have posted these kinds of threads don't get that response because the majority of people responding have either had good/neutral experiences with this, or just don't care and think it's the business of the people involved. to me, the continued posting about it indicates that people are just pissed that they are not getting yes-men responses, so therefore everyone responding must be bullshitting.



AquaticSub -> RE: all these subs conned into looking 4 other subs (3/23/2007 9:34:58 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: azzmaster

sigh.... predictable knee jerk book of BDSM responses... just what i expected...no one can just be honest


Bullshit!

I'm being completely honest with you and so are many of the others. I think you just don't want to believe it because it doesn't agree with your pigonholed idea of how you think a "master" should act. And you will probably keep asking the same question, trying to get the answer you want.



hisannabelle -> RE: all these subs conned into looking 4 other subs (3/23/2007 9:35:36 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

quote:

ORIGINAL: azzmaster

ur absolutely right aqua, i did post on this b4, but i just thought of it again since i was leafing thru profiles... as i said tho...i don't believe it... i think its either being brainwashed or trying to be in some sort of i want to be the worlds best sub contest


So... you ask a question and bunch of submissives reply and you don't believe us? Why waste our time asking again? It's just rude.

Like I said before, if Valyraen wanted to bring in another member to our relationships I wouldn't consent to it unless I could screen them. You can think that's brainwashing all you like. It's a flawed opinion, but you are certainly welcome to it.


amen.



DiurnalVampire -> RE: all these subs conned into looking 4 other subs (3/23/2007 9:36:47 PM)

Sorry azz, but some women are perfectly happy sharing. And being shared. And many recruit becasue they WANT a partner to serve with them, a sister to keep them company as wel as to share their Master. I am perfectly happy being poly, when I go that route. My partners have had other women, and I didnt mind.  I met some of them and they were perfectly nice people.  I would never want them to share my home, but they werent selected becasue they were compattible with ME.  Thats where a sub advertizing comes in. If someone is looking to add a second or more girl to their house, dont you think the existing one would want to know whos coming in and have a say about it?  Seriously, if I am going to be sharing my time AND my lover with someone, I better know I can get along with that person without killing them. I will expect Angel to be involved if I want to bring a second in should it be for a livein position.  I wont have him adveritse for me, because I wont be advertising.  If he wanted to, Id not stop him.
The only thing I dont uderstand about sub women advertising for their men is that the majority of available sub females arent going to be reading the profiles of other sub females.  The seeker should advertise on their own profiles, since those are the ones that would be coming up in a search. But thats a completely different line of logic. 

My 2 cents
DV



MasterNdorei -> RE: all these subs conned into looking 4 other subs (3/23/2007 9:40:17 PM)

It is possible.... that's why i recruit my best friend every chance i get. i would freaking love to find someone like her to live with us full time.

Master likes the energy between us when she is with us, and knows i am more inclined to find someone with that potential than He is, so i was the one to seek when we were using CM as a tool to search.

i think you have an important point in that many girls are seeking only to be obedient. But there are some who are not.

Master's dorei



KnightofMists -> RE: all these subs conned into looking 4 other subs (3/23/2007 9:43:15 PM)

You know I just don't understand what the problem is with a Dominant's sub going out looking for other subs for the Dominant.

I am a busy man... Takes alot of time and work to leaf thru all the interested applicants.  Interview them and find ones that meet my standards.  If I am busy with this process, it will only take away time from actually enjoying these precious toys.

SOOOOOOOOOO......  My girls are going to spend their time finding me more toys.  I stop wasting time in the search and spend my time in the manner that pleases me.

NOWWWWW... another great thing about this... as my girls find me more toys... the toys can spend time finding me more toys.... and before long instead of dealing with a backlog of applicants to interview.. I will instead have a backlog of toys to play with.

SOOOOOOO...  To eliminate that problem I will have to lend my toys out to my friends.   Intially, the number of my friends will be sufficient to take care of the immediate backlog.

BUTTTTTTTTTT.... over time the number of current friends will not be able to use the toys sufficiently as the number of toys will still be increasing and backlog will start to grow again.

SOOOOOOOOOO.... does anyone want to be my friend?



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