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Trunks1056 -> What's the best way to prepare your ass for anal play? (3/23/2007 11:22:12 PM)

Hello. I'm new to ass play in general and sometime in the near future I plan to start practicing ass play on myself using an assortment of buttplugs and toys. Since through my reading I've neer found an answer to the following question of mine, I decided it would be a good idea to ask it here.

What is the best way to prepare your ass for anal play of any sort? I've heard of enema's as one solution, but is that all that one needs to doto make sure they're clean back there and ready? If  do use an enema, how long before the play starts should I do it, and how long will that keep my rear free of "obsticles"? Are there other ways to keep myself clean and ready back there?

Thanks for taking the time to read this.



imtempting -> RE: What's the best way to prepare your ass for anal play? (3/23/2007 11:50:07 PM)

You could try lube...



zindyslave -> RE: What's the best way to prepare your ass for anal play? (3/24/2007 12:02:36 AM)

You don't have to use an enema unless you want to. Things can be washed, and sometimes an enema is a sensual experience if you are into that sort of thing. I would suggest before doing an enema to look on the Health and safety board to see the posts about them. But as far as preparing your self do what you feel comfortable doing. And as the pervious poster said...try lube.



Aileen68 -> RE: What's the best way to prepare your ass for anal play? (3/24/2007 5:03:48 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: imtempting

You could try lube...


And a shot of tequila.



DianeB269 -> RE: What's the best way to prepare your ass for anal play? (3/24/2007 5:05:26 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

quote:

ORIGINAL: imtempting

You could try lube...


And a shot of tequila.



[sm=biggrin.gif]



MsSonnetMarwood -> RE: What's the best way to prepare your ass for anal play? (3/24/2007 5:11:05 AM)

Enemas aren't necessary if you're just going to be using plugs, but make using a strap on far more pleasant.  Regardless, if you use a condom over the insertable, it makes clean up much easier.  Keep a towel handy.  Buy and use only your own exclusive insertables. Make sure you ONLY use toys meant for anal play, that have a flared bottom so they don't get "lost".  Use lots of water-based lube (like KY, Astroglide).   Start small, and go slow. 



Badkitty0810 -> RE: What's the best way to prepare your ass for anal play? (3/24/2007 5:19:27 AM)

Start small, maybe using a small plug and gradually increase the size. Be patient, use lots of lube. Anal play should not be painful. If it is, then you are not allowing sufficient time for the sphincter muscles to relax. Don't try forcing a toy because it'll only feel painful. When done right, anal play can be very pleasurable. Unfortunately, I couldn't find a decent FAQ when I did a Google search.  Zindyslave had a good suggestion when she recommended the Health and Safety boards. Good luck. :)



Bearlee -> RE: What's the best way to prepare your ass for anal play? (3/24/2007 5:54:10 AM)

I have a hard time with enemas and cramping and worrying over ‘leaking’…but still want to ensure I’m clean.  I just use a ball-syringe thingy which is for anal use but only holds a cup or two of water.  And using plain water IS the easiest on your body; if you use a Fleet’s enema bottle, empty the contents and refill with just warm water.  If you understand you need only to clear the last 6-8” or so, you’ll realize there is no need (unless you enjoy them), to use quarts of liquid and an hour or two of your time every time you want to play anally. 
 
Flushing with one ‘ball’ full of very warm water, emptying immediately and repeating IF necessary keeps me clean and healthy; enemas aren’t something one should do regularly, as they will upset your body’s balance and ability to carry on ‘evacuation’ on it’s own.  Of course, every body is different, but I find that this routine will keep me ‘clear’ for a couple hours, anyway.  As quick and easy as this method is, you can repeat as needed without worry.
 
Past that, I agree with what others are saying; bag your toys and don’t share them with others.  Start small, go slow and use lube; LOTS and LOTS of lube.
 
I’m no LA, but here are some links I found right here on Cm.  Try searching for key words yourself…there’s a wealth of info here!

http://www.collarchat.com/m_72100/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm

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michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: What's the best way to prepare your ass for anal play? (3/24/2007 6:02:57 AM)

my answer to the question at hand is:

and iron chastity belt with a no entry sign



MsSonnetMarwood -> RE: What's the best way to prepare your ass for anal play? (3/24/2007 6:09:53 AM)

I'm just curious Michael - do you really have so many Dommes on CM beating down your doors to play with you that you need to repeat this at every possible opportunity?



DianeB269 -> RE: What's the best way to prepare your ass for anal play? (3/24/2007 6:11:45 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

my answer to the question at hand is:

and iron chastity belt with a no entry sign




Michael

You know, you would bend over me.





michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: What's the best way to prepare your ass for anal play? (3/24/2007 6:11:59 AM)

i wish



michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: What's the best way to prepare your ass for anal play? (3/24/2007 6:13:12 AM)

i don't bend that way...LOL



MsSonnetMarwood -> RE: What's the best way to prepare your ass for anal play? (3/24/2007 6:13:19 AM)

Then let the folks who do BDSM real time discuss things that they want to do without the negative comments about how you would never ever ever do anything, ok?



michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: What's the best way to prepare your ass for anal play? (3/24/2007 6:15:26 AM)

and here i thought this was an "open forum" for everyone

my mistake

LOL



Bearlee -> RE: What's the best way to prepare your ass for anal play? (3/24/2007 6:18:08 AM)

 


Perhaps he wants us to start the conversation regarding how suppressed his gayness is...again.



MsSonnetMarwood -> RE: What's the best way to prepare your ass for anal play? (3/24/2007 6:21:31 AM)

LOL  I should have put my coffee down before reading that.

Benji!  Here boy!



DianeB269 -> RE: What's the best way to prepare your ass for anal play? (3/24/2007 6:28:54 AM)

Trunks is a very nice guy. I've chatted with him a few times. If he was a little older, I might of
gave him a chance to become one my subs.



Bearlee -> RE: What's the best way to prepare your ass for anal play? (3/24/2007 7:53:20 AM)

 
 
I'm sure he is, Diane, an open, inquisitive mind...what's not to like?
 
Hopefully he got some answers...
 
b



DianeB269 -> RE: What's the best way to prepare your ass for anal play? (3/24/2007 8:04:00 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Bearlee

 
 
I'm sure he is, Diane, an open, inquisitive mind...what's not to like?
 
Hopefully he got some answers...
 
b



I really hope he finds a strapon mistress soon. Very down to earth guy for his age.





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