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LadyHugs -> RE: kept in a box (3/24/2007 3:31:32 PM)
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Dear subtexxxt, Ladies and Gentlemen;
In my mind's eyes I see, the Mistress of yours will have to do nothing shy of being a guard, a baby-sitter, "pet owner," sole provider and have others come into the relationship as to maintain the expectations of the "box" idea. As a Dominant approached with this wish by a submissive would be; "What do I get out of it in return."
Relationships come in all shapes and sizes and the both of you will have to work it out.
The concerns would be forcing the Mistress to be working in service to you, as to be in a box and having to ask others to manage you when she is unable. No matter how much the ideals may be of 24/7 monitoring, it is impossible. People need to work, need to sleep, get out running errands, such as getting food and or supplies.
I would also talk to those who have been prisoner of war, kidnapped and those who have been confined in long periods. In talking with slaves who have been a bit big to be crated/caged over night on a daily basis are having physical problems now. Stress on joints and unable to sleep to discomfort. A lot of times what isn't seen immediately are the long term affects/effects This is where I would hope research was done. Perhaps then due to age and present health and the risks one can come to a better conclusion.
As for me, a slave isn't a possession that is boxed and stored. I want to be able to access them always.
Another question in my mind's eyes would be with such a request by a submissive, as to the 'intent' behind it. Is it due to the lack of desire of doing physical work as to be part of my household and a help to me by being a servant. So many profiles that do have 24/7 chained to dungeon requests and or similiar requests, often 'seemingly' are just looking for a means of someone else towing their freight in exchange of limited returns, such as submission. It then becomes so labor intensive that it would be easier to put the submissive/slave to the curb and hire a maid to clean the house. It becomes a mental, emotional and physical relief then, to have a paid maid to just come in and out. It boils down to people's expectations and being honest in identifying what expectations each person has.
Respectfully submitted for considerations,
Lady Hugs
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