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RE: An observation from a newcomer... - 3/25/2007 11:18:57 PM

Smileyking1

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I haven't been at this site for too long, but it seems to me that alot of "masters" here must be very insecure. I see alot of subs that have blurbs along the lines of, 'I can play or talk to girls, but my master doesn't allow me to talk to men.' Such comments make me wonder... why is that? Is this "master" afraid that the sub will find someone better? Someone more capable? Stronger? How can a person call themself a Master with so little confidence?

What does that tell us about the condition of the "master" in the first place? If he is so afraid that he will be replaced, then why doesn't he work to improve himself instead of hiding his sub away in fear they might find someone better? Why doesn't he build himself to be stronger? Why is it that he has no faith, no confidence? Neither in himself, nor the loyalty of his sub... I read these things and laugh. What nonsense.

Anyone at all may speak to my slave. She may converse to whomever she choose. I know who I am, and I know where her loyalty is.

Absolutely inspirational, a very good point that I was beginning to notice myself. I think a lot of psychology is embedded in BDSM lifestyles and you have just scratched the surface. Is it possible that masters might be masters because they are insecure and feel the need therefore to control? maybe...sorry I sometimes go on like this...very curious...anyway good post thumbs up

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RE: An observation from a newcomer... - 3/26/2007 12:26:41 AM

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My slave can also speak to whomever she wishes to. I know where her loyalty lies as well. Nothing more needs to be said.

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RE: An observation from a newcomer... - 3/26/2007 2:14:55 AM

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Most of the people who write sex emails would not read the profile anyway.

Taking away liberties I find funny. Its a website. Only way people can get private information is if you tell them. So if one sub tells another dom their personal information on the intention to meet up then i'd be taking a serious look at the relationship. Something must be lacking.

I think it is more to do with insecruity and trust then dominating.

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RE: An observation from a newcomer... - 3/26/2007 2:49:29 AM

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ORIGINAL: imtempting

Most of the people who write sex emails would not read the profile anyway.

Taking away liberties I find funny. Its a website. Only way people can get private information is if you tell them. So if one sub tells another dom their personal information on the intention to meet up then i'd be taking a serious look at the relationship. Something must be lacking.

I think it is more to do with insecruity and trust then dominating.

Yes...welcome to the band-wagon...

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RE: An observation from a newcomer... - 3/26/2007 4:36:27 AM

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Most of the people who write sex emails would not read the profile anyway.

Taking away liberties I find funny. Its a website. Only way people can get private information is if you tell them. So if one sub tells another dom their personal information on the intention to meet up then i'd be taking a serious look at the relationship. Something must be lacking.

I think it is more to do with insecruity and trust then dominating.

Yes...welcome to the band-wagon...

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RE: An observation from a newcomer... - 3/26/2007 6:31:33 AM

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Typical example. I just received an email from a "daddy dom" in which he told me that if I gave him a chance I would never have to work again, I would be completely babied and protected from everything. It plainly states on my profile that I would rather these sorts NOT email me. So I wrote back that he could send his offer to my Daddy at "Sinergy". They never email him

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RE: An observation from a newcomer... - 3/26/2007 8:22:26 AM

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I must be a real unlikeable ass because I never get emails like that. In fact I rarely get emails from men at all. Once about a year ago I got one from a dominant who wanted to swap slaves with my Master for a cam show. My Master told him to display his girl on cam for him (Master) and I, and we would decide if she was good enough for such a swap. I never heard back (which was kind of the point). But that's the only one I can remember getting.

I think my ID is effective, lol.

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RE: An observation from a newcomer... - 3/26/2007 8:59:47 AM

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Wolf while a small percentage of profiles with this type of thing will be about d/s, another aspect of control, placing limitations on their freedoms, etc, a measured and calculated action as part of a greater plan, and small percentage again will be in place as a way to deal with the random uber-dominate (spelling intentional) or masterbating male sub spam, giving their sub permission if you will, to refer to their Master's (or Mistress's) desires they not speak to anyone of a particular gender as a way of dealing with the mail... a great many more will be exactly as you call it...

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