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losttreasure -> The Powerful Submissive... (3/25/2007 5:01:38 PM)

A powerful submissive?  Can this be?

Oh hell, yeah!  [;)] 

I'm a smart, sexy, and powerful woman.  I have a brain and a body and I know how to use them.  I am sex personified, wrapped in a shell of class.  I can light up a room with my presence, causing men to lust after me and women to want to be me.  I can charm crowds with clever wit and stylish grace... and stun the observant with rare insight and profound wisdom.

Does this make me less submissive? 

Not in the least. 

My submission is more valuable because of it.  I am not a common domestic breed - I am the magnificent wild kind that bows only to the elite.  I am his showpiece... to be displayed at his whim, or cherished for his sole pleasure.

Being a source of pride for FirmhandKY elates me, yet I am humbled at his feet.

Without pride in myself and abilities, I would have so much less to offer him.

Do you meld this type of dichotomy into your dynamic?




Bearlee -> RE: The Powerful Submissive... (3/25/2007 5:04:02 PM)

 

Wow...




MasterFireMaam -> RE: The Powerful Submissive... (3/25/2007 5:07:09 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: losttreasure

Do you meld this type of dichotomy into your dynamic?



Yes. You should meet my girl. That woman....shines.

Master Fire




windchymes -> RE: The Powerful Submissive... (3/25/2007 5:09:36 PM)

*yawn*   Been there, done that.

[:D]Just kidding!  I think you're awesome, and you're right, I do want to be like you.  Actually, I think I'm already pretty close.




FirmhandKY -> RE: The Powerful Submissive... (3/25/2007 5:14:05 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: losttreasure

A powerful submissive?  Can this be?

Oh hell, yeah!  [;)] 

I'm a smart, sexy, and powerful woman.  I have a brain and a body and I know how to use them.  I am sex personified, wrapped in a shell of class.  I can light up a room with my presence, causing men to lust after me and women to want to be me.  I can charm crowds with clever wit and stylish grace... and stun the observant with rare insight and profound wisdom.

Does this make me less submissive? 

Not in the least. 

My submission is more valuable because of it.  I am not a common domestic breed - I am the magnificent wild kind that bows only to the elite.  I am his showpiece... to be displayed at his whim, or cherished for his sole pleasure.

Being a source of pride for FirmhandKY elates me, yet I am humbled at his feet.

Without pride in myself and abilities, I would have so much less to offer him.

Do you meld this type of dichotomy into your dynamic?



I take it ... you had a good weekend?  [:D][:D]

FirmKY




losttreasure -> RE: The Powerful Submissive... (3/25/2007 5:16:07 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: FirmhandKY

I take it ... you had a good weekend?  [:D][:D]

FirmKY



*laughing*  You have a gift for understatement, my love.




losttreasure -> RE: The Powerful Submissive... (3/25/2007 5:19:45 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Bearlee



Wow...


And I see the same in you, Bearlee.  [;)]

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

Yes. You should meet my girl. That woman....shines.

Master Fire



What a wonderfully descriptive word... shines.  [:D]

quote:

ORIGINAL: windchymes

*yawn*   Been there, done that.

Just kidding!  I think you're awesome, and you're right, I do want to be like you.  Actually, I think I'm already pretty close.


*laughs*

Thank you, windchymes... I'd say you are already there.  [;)]




Devilslilsister -> RE: The Powerful Submissive... (3/25/2007 5:19:46 PM)

reminds me of the kajira's in the Gor books. 

to be a free woman was so......... common - but to be a kajira - now that was beauty.




losttreasure -> RE: The Powerful Submissive... (3/25/2007 5:24:35 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Devilslilsister

reminds me of the kajira's in the Gor books. 

to be a free woman was so......... common - but to be a kajira - now that was beauty.



Hmmm... Gor.  I can understand the similarity, but I'm not sure I've seen it practiced.




mstrjx -> RE: The Powerful Submissive... (3/25/2007 5:24:52 PM)

I do, but I have yet had the opportunity to start with so much.

I work a lot in the beginning with self-esteem and positions that exemplify pride and the understanding that my partner is an extension of myself and that she can be used in turn to judge me.

I don't often show my 'prize' in public, but as I mentioned, I have not always had much to work with in that regard.  If I were to go to an event, I would want there to be a visible difference between the behavior of my property and some dime-store wannabe who claims 10 years with the same (pretender) Dom.

Even in the vanilla world, I like for my partner to be noticed.  It makes me proud, and it usually gives her more of what I'm grooming her for.

I want all of the men to 'want' her, and all of the women to want to 'be' her.

And I know how to bring that out.

Jeff




windchymes -> RE: The Powerful Submissive... (3/25/2007 5:27:14 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: losttreasure


quote:

ORIGINAL: windchymes

*yawn*   Been there, done that.

Just kidding!  I think you're awesome, and you're right, I do want to be like you.  Actually, I think I'm already pretty close.


*laughs*

Thank you, windchymes... I'd say you are already there.  [;)]



Noooooooo...you wear that tight white dress WAY better than I would! [;)]




Aileen68 -> RE: The Powerful Submissive... (3/25/2007 5:27:41 PM)

I am fucking powerful.
It's just who I am. 
It has nothing to do with whether or not I'm submissive or not.




sambamanslilgirl -> RE: The Powerful Submissive... (3/25/2007 5:31:03 PM)

already way ahead of you in this department




losttreasure -> RE: The Powerful Submissive... (3/25/2007 5:32:01 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

I am fucking powerful.
It's just who I am. 
It has nothing to do with whether or not I'm submissive or not.


Exactly.  [;)]

quote:

ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

already way ahead of you in this department


Good for you!  Makes life so much more fun, doesn't it?  [:D]




Sinergy -> RE: The Powerful Submissive... (3/25/2007 5:32:13 PM)

One of my jobs involves the empowerment of women.

I dont see a disagreement.

A powerful, intelligent, self-assured woman who is submissive to me is priceless.

Sinergy




curiouslyseeking -> RE: The Powerful Submissive... (3/25/2007 5:32:55 PM)

I have no qualms about being a powerful woman/slave.....
 
Just more to give to my Master[;)]
 
mmmmmmm...did I say electrifying? <sizzle>




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: The Powerful Submissive... (3/25/2007 5:43:34 PM)

Powerful people make powerful relationships.

But the fact is that plenty of people, both males and females, doms and subs, willingly and even actively try to proliferate the notion that subs are not powerful or strong.

Once we finally eradicate statements such as "Subs shouldn't..." and the concept of the "protector" then we'll know real progress has been made.




losttreasure -> RE: The Powerful Submissive... (3/25/2007 5:44:28 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mstrjx

And I know how to bring that out.


Helping someone build self-confidence isn't an easy task... they have to have the capability within them to begin with.  But from what I've read of your posts, I'm sure you do.    [;)]

quote:

ORIGINAL: Sinergy

One of my jobs involves the empowerment of women.

I dont see a disagreement.

A powerful, intelligent, self-assured woman who is submissive to me is priceless.

Sinergy


And being valued as priceless can serve to strengthen that submission. 

My hat is off to you for helping women to find that power within themselves.

quote:

ORIGINAL: curiouslyseeking

I have no qualms about being a powerful woman/slave.....
 
Just more to give to my Master
 
mmmmmmm...did I say electrifying? <sizzle>


[:D]  Oh, I like that word "electrifying", too!

quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Powerful people make powerful relationships.



Truer words have never been spoken. [;)]




Sinergy -> RE: The Powerful Submissive... (3/25/2007 5:51:59 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: losttreasure

My hat is off to you for helping women to find that power within themselves.



I was asked today what sorts of things I say to women to empower them by a guy I work with on the docks today.

I responded "On your knees, bitch, and smile like a donut."

I then pointed out that the appropriate response to that is usually a full-power knee kick to my groin.

A unique blending of cause and effect, resulting in amazing outcomes for the adrenalized student.

Sinergy




KnightofMists -> RE: The Powerful Submissive... (3/25/2007 5:57:11 PM)

This is the typical  Rebel against the "Submissives are Weak" BS.

Powerful indivduals are Dominant or Submissive...  Powerful individuals are nice to be around particularly when they express such power with grace and humility as compared to boorish and egotistical




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