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DaddyDom - MotherSub - 3/26/2007 11:36:07 AM

JekylHyde

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Hi,
i think that everyone knows about the bdsm "DaddyDom" relashionship ...
i have a question about a similar but different type of relashionship - MotherSub. in this relashionship the female is well aware of who she is & about her need to take care to her man, but she also knows to respect him & obey her dom. she will express her protective mother instincts & combine it with her need to submit to her man.
to actually be his mother from one side, but a woman sub from the other.

A. what do you think about this kind of a relashionship ?
B. am i the first one who ever came up with that kind of a relashionship ?

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RE: DaddyDom - MotherSub - 3/26/2007 11:40:32 AM

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ORIGINAL: JekylHyde
A. what do you think about this kind of a relashionship ?
B. am i the first one who ever came up with that kind of a relashionship ?

People don't usually label it directly as such, but it's fairly common.

And no.

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RE: DaddyDom - MotherSub - 3/26/2007 11:56:07 AM

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http://www.subspace.cc/daddy.html

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RE: DaddyDom - MotherSub - 3/26/2007 12:24:41 PM

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I think part of a sub's job is to take care of your Dom.
Sometimes this can be ministering to him when ill, reminding him to take medicines, cooking healthy meals, taking care of his personal hygene (ie manacures etc..), handeling his scheduling etc...
I'm not under the impression this makes me his mother. I think it makes me his dutiful caring sub.
I guess I could see how some may consider it a mothering behavior too, so if you enjoy the title more power to you.
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RE: DaddyDom - MotherSub - 3/26/2007 12:27:17 PM

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Jekyl/hyde

My Master and I have a very unique relationship. He is a switch. So am I. For the most part I am a collared slave to him. He is both my Master and my Daddy. But when I am feeling dominant and he is feeling submissive he CDs for me and I take on the role of Mommy/Mistress. Its his way of destressing, of walking away from the daily grind of being dominant at work and Master/Daddy at home.

So yes, this relationship does work when you get the right people together. It can take a little while to work out the "who gets to be on top when" senario, but with patience and a really creative kinky mind, it is very rewarding when it works.

(Edit, addition) I wanted to address something I thought of just as I initially posted this. As a slave I do most of the care of the house and the little one. I'm in charge of making sure the house is clean, meals are cooked, the little ones are taken care of, and that all our submissives and slaves are emotionally and physically cared for as well. Some of our playtoys often refer to me as Mommy because of my innate ability/need to take care of all of those that are part of our "family" Even Master will say to our girl - "go get mommy a drink, tell mommy to come here." So even when I am entirely submissive to Master, or have all my "family" of submissives at the house at the same time, combined with my little tyke, I am always in "mommy mode" one way or another.

Hope that addition helps (and made sense)

Good luck to you
(**wavies at Lady Albatross***)

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RE: DaddyDom - MotherSub - 3/26/2007 12:44:09 PM

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No, you're not the first one to come up with this.

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B. am i the first one who ever came up with that kind of a relashionship ?

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RE: DaddyDom - MotherSub - 3/26/2007 1:07:08 PM

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:) Hola

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RE: DaddyDom - MotherSub - 3/26/2007 1:35:20 PM

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i have a question about a similar but different type of relashionship - MotherSub. in this relashionship the female is well aware of who she is & about her need to take care to her man, but she also knows to respect him & obey her dom. she will express her protective mother instincts & combine it with her need to submit to her man.
to actually be his mother from one side, but a woman sub from the other.

Does this situation remind anyone of the normal vanilla relationship that a woman had with her man in the 50's, or is it just me?

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