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Do Dommes need after care

yes

92% (12)

0% (0)

yes, but... (explain)

7% (1)

no, but... (explain)

0% (0)

Total Votes : 13

(last vote on : 6/30/2013 8:31:33 AM)
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Do Dommes need after care - 5/22/2004 11:20:05 AM

iwillserveu

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Sorry guys but I've never given after care to a Dom. It may be relevant, but I don't know for sure. Maybe there is a Macho thing "After care? After care? We don't need no stinkin' after care!

) Seriously, there may be a gender difference. I'll post a variation for Doms.

I feel it is my responsibility to make my Domme feel good about herself. Granted I might be busy either with pain or dealing with the trauma of being picked last in third grade or something.

Still, as soon as possible, there is another human being in the scene that may feel like the must be a horrible human being after they did what they did. (C'mon, this has got to mess up a person's mind a bit.)

Am I alone in how I feel?

Please F/m only. M/f on another poll.

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RE: Do Dommes need after care - 5/23/2004 2:09:21 AM

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I'm bumping this one up since the M/f one got hit by a Domme

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RE: Do Dommes need after care - 5/23/2004 4:00:19 PM

GoddessMarissa

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I had a very intense session last night and it ended abruptly because my sub didn't realize he had to be on a flight in about an hour. We called a cab and they came in about 10 min. That wasn't enough time

I felt really bad that I couldn't have that after time with him. I still feel bad as well as my sub. Aftercare is very important for subs and Dom/Dommes.

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