Self masochistic behavior

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moki1984 -> Self masochistic behavior (3/27/2007 9:30:46 AM)
I do not have a master...my husband who I already in many regards hold as my master is in korea and debating if he wishes to jump into this lifestyle with me or not. I am not allowed to see another man for the purpose of being his sub/slave (husbands orders) so I am left a bit alone and wanting... Lately I have been using my clamps and clothespins on myself......I want something a bit..more. I remember watching a movie where someone self whipped themself...at the time i thought it was a bit weird but now...well i would do it. What type of whip would be sufficient for that? Im imagining something...short maybe. Any suggestions on toys I can buy to further my self experimentation? I just got a whartenburg wheel too...gotta love those sensations.

onestandingstill -> RE: Self masochistic behavior (3/27/2007 9:35:35 AM)
Often I heard monks used a cat o nine tails for self flaggelation. Maybe a flogger would be a good place to start. If you have a creative mind maybe figure out how to attach paddles to a drill mounted in a vice and it could spank you as it turned if you put your butt up close enough to it. Good luck & I'm sorry you're sort of isolated in your desire to persue this lifestyle right now. I bet that's very frustrating. suzanne

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Self masochistic behavior (3/27/2007 9:36:03 AM)
Needles tend to give you the most bang for your buck with least effort.

moki1984 -> RE: Self masochistic behavior (3/27/2007 9:36:58 AM)
frustrating yes...but makes me want my husband to learn of it even more. He is letting me go to a fetish ball though...never expected that I was given strict rules on what I am allowed to do their and basically..its going to be a giant tease lol. I think he is doing that to meon purpose lol

missturbation -> RE: Self masochistic behavior (3/27/2007 9:38:35 AM)
I use all sorts of things including clamps, paddles etc in masturbation. I wouldnt really reccomend a whip as i used a cat o nine tails and whipped myself in the eye due to not having much control over it as my mind went into horny and floaty. [:)]

hawkwolf7 -> RE: Self masochistic behavior (3/27/2007 2:45:10 PM)
Just a few comments from someone who's been there done that. (It's part of the Old Guard code to try everything out on yourself before you try it on anyone else.) Flogger's are great; throw over your shoulder for your back, around your hip for your butt. Single tails are okay, but you won't get a crack out of it. The trick is to shorten where you hold it so that the cracker hits the desired spot. Sunglasses may be a good idea too. Needles, especially in the thigh are easy, and provide a nice endorphin hit with little effort. Do the homework so you can do it safely. An even stronger endorphin hit can be gotten through Devil's Fire. This consists of heating a metal probe (ideally red hot), and pricking yourself. Holding it on your skin too long will give you second and third degree burns, so be careful! This has many of the same safety issues as needles, so do your homework here too. Enjoy!

moki1984 -> RE: Self masochistic behavior (3/27/2007 6:08:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hawkwolf7 Just a few comments from someone who's been there done that. (It's part of the Old Guard code to try everything out on yourself before you try it on anyone else.) Flogger's are great; throw over your shoulder for your back, around your hip for your butt. Single tails are okay, but you won't get a crack out of it. The trick is to shorten where you hold it so that the cracker hits the desired spot. Sunglasses may be a good idea too. Needles, especially in the thigh are easy, and provide a nice endorphin hit with little effort. Do the homework so you can do it safely. An even stronger endorphin hit can be gotten through Devil's Fire. This consists of heating a metal probe (ideally red hot), and pricking yourself. Holding it on your skin too long will give you second and third degree burns, so be careful! This has many of the same safety issues as needles, so do your homework here too. Enjoy! mm i love your replies thank you. i agree one should try it on himself first

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