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for slave only.. - 3/28/2007 6:50:35 AM

MasterthePower

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Why do you been come a slave? Is your heart and soul tell you to serve? I like to know...

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RE: for slave only.. - 3/28/2007 12:00:29 PM

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Greetings..~smiles~

Pretty point blank question Sir..:)

I did not choose to feel empty and incomplete. I did choose to search for as long as it took to find what exactly filled that void. I chose to seek ownership from a Master because the search took me there, and everything involved with being a owned slave makes me complete.

I probably do not do many things differently than most women but what is always present is the ability to just let go of everything and fear nothing that has been, or ever will be asked of me by Master. For me this is probably my reasoning for being able to say that I have no limits with Master even if I may personally not like it, abore it, dispise it..Master has the ability over me to deal with that.

To me..that is true freedom in life

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RE: for slave only.. - 3/28/2007 12:00:48 PM

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LOL your new So Ill cut you some slack but I cant promise about others... You cant limit a thread to a sertain group on a PUBLIC board... It wont go over well... as for the OP well I dont really feel like answering that. Its personal!!

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RE: for slave only.. - 3/28/2007 12:06:16 PM

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Um..sure he can. Look at all the threads about or for submissives and no mention of slaves. Sorry but I'm not a submissive.

Have at it Sir and hopefully you'll get some good answers from all sides.

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RE: for slave only.. - 3/28/2007 12:22:41 PM

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I did not choose to become a slave, I met a Master as a submissive and it just happened. I have been with Doms who did not draw this out in me. Now at this point in my life I know I seek a Master who can bring it out again.

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RE: for slave only.. - 3/28/2007 12:23:55 PM

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LOL I ment he can aim it to who ever he wants but that isnt gunna stop others from answering

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RE: for slave only.. - 3/28/2007 12:45:53 PM

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Plain and simple, I did not become a slave and never conscienciously (sp) aimed to be one. When I was claimed by a Master, it was he who saw the slave within and brought it out.

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RE: for slave only.. - 3/28/2007 6:16:04 PM

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Being a slave is what makes me feel fulfilled. It is what makes me happy and how I identify myself. It is a simple as that.

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RE: for slave only.. - 3/28/2007 7:30:28 PM

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While i agree that what i feel inside and what makes me feel happy and fulfilled is a natural part of me, i did choose to become a slave. i found myself attracted to the slave life and sought out experiences to learn and make sure it was what i wanted before committing to a full contract and promise.

This has been a thought out, planned out and determined journey. When i signed my contract it had been years in the making.

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RE: for slave only.. - 3/31/2007 7:53:30 AM

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I began as Masters submissive but he saw something else inside of me that i was not aware of at that time. He began to change the way he handled my training in little ways , to see how i would react. Those reactions brought the slave out in me. I still learn and grow by little changes He chooses to make here and there. It has been a fantastic journey of self discovery, even the parts i may of not liked much (at the time).They were still things that i had to learn to be able to grow.

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RE: for slave only.. - 3/31/2007 11:51:18 AM

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it is something i am.....plain and simple!

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RE: for slave only.. - 3/31/2007 5:01:04 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterthePower

Why do you been come a slave? Is your heart and soul tell you to serve? I like to know...

I became a slave as time progressed between us, but we did not begin with that. I had asked to become his submissive several months into our relationship, and I became his slave as per our own definition of the term, which is rather unique, some time thereafter. I await eagerly the day during which I will recieve his full collar.

My heart and soul do not tell me to serve another- they tell me to rationally serve myself. My slavery is joyous and for my own satisfaction- in it's essence, selfish. I asked to submit to him, as it pleased me to do so- and in that way, I am serving myself as I serve him.
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RE: for slave only.. - 4/1/2007 10:58:12 AM

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I realized if I was to be true to myself then I needed to give everything over. Once I gave everything over, my inner angst was gone and I found peace.

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RE: for slave only.. - 4/1/2007 5:20:12 PM

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I am a slave because there is a part of me that enjoys the release of power. I yearn for a purer, old fashioned way. The man was originally created to be in charge, and I beleive that to fight this is unnatural. My Master is a gentle caring soul, and instead of resorting to intimidation to establish his position, (which would garner him no respect from me), he showed me that he was worthy of the highest honor I could offer.
I have been in a vanilla marriage for 25 years prior to this lifestyle. I did not spend the time yearning for something I did not have. I did not feel empty or depressed, instead when I divorced I decided to explore something that was deeply rooted inside me.
I beleive in his abilities, and trust his guidence. I know that I have needs that only he can satisfy. I am HIS slave, but not necessarily a slave by trade. I have not found many men here, or in the lifestyle that deserve the position that my Master fills.
There are too many girls out there who serve any without thought to themselves, or their self worth. I would say to them that this is not necessarily a place to be a doormat. If a Dom is self assured, confident in himself, he need not humiliate or degrade another to make himself seem more of a man. If you want humiliation, then good for you. But that is not what makes a man in my eyes. I look deeper to see the charactor of a person. Master is a "charactor" (Pun intended), but that said, he is not afraid to allow me my brain or voice. Knowing that I have this freedom makes me all the more cautious in how I use it.
A slave to him (and to me) is not some mindless sex slave who grovels before a tyrant. If you would impress a girl, try to first do so with your mind... and you will find your way to her heart Sir.
Good luck in your search.
Master's girl, joy

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RE: for slave only.. - 4/1/2007 7:14:48 PM

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it just was something that evolved in me. basically something was triggered in me while in college and it just has been snowballing ever since.

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RE: for slave only.. - 4/1/2007 7:21:25 PM

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ugh, i dont think i know what exactly turned me into a sub. i guess its just my nature. i love making others happy, i love doing all i can for that one person so they know how much i truely love them. its kinda a deeper emotion

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RE: for slave only.. - 4/2/2007 2:08:24 AM

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Yes it is in my heart and soul to serve but i had never identified myself as 'slave'. To me the difference between submission and slavery is the difference between submission and surrender. My Master is the one who sees the slave in me and is helping me learn the joy of surrender. As my trust and respect increase (as it does daily) my ability to surrender increases.

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RE: for slave only.. - 4/3/2007 5:11:04 AM

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It fits with me to feel surrendered to a force that chooses to take me.

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RE: for slave only.. - 6/28/2010 5:04:29 PM

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One becomes a slave to feel love, compansion, ownership and appreciation for being... One will devote her love to him and vica versa if it is so ment to be. To people who belong will try anything to be together when life brings them appart. To stay happy and stay married, to be one connected in a common bond, a common fantasy, a common interest is the intent of being slave to a good dom. Why become it, to submit and give up all power is to be one willing to learn all there is to learn about in allowing truth to touch them in ways no other can. To see what one may not otherwise see or hear what one may not otherwise hear. IN that of being all one can be living for the light, color.

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RE: for slave only.. - 6/28/2010 5:08:44 PM

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i've always known i was meant to be a slave - my whole life.

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