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MissSCD -> Training Certificates? (3/28/2007 3:01:25 PM)

I knew when I put toilet training in my profile, I was opening up a can of worms, but I did not know excatly what type of worms it would be.
I just got an email from a slave in Canada wanting to know if I offered training certificates for toilet training. LOL
I only  put this in there because we are seriously looking for people in my local area to have a dungeon.  We are putting the players into place.
I had to laugh.
Training certificates?  What is next dipolomas and degrees in Master/Mistress orientation.  That would be cool, huh?
Dr. MissSCD.  Has a nice ring to it.   

Regards,  MissSCD




DiurnalVampire -> RE: Training Certificates? (3/28/2007 3:03:30 PM)

You know, for certain things, it might be funny to demand to see someones credentials.  That might bea good way to get rid of a troll, demand to see their certification! What, your an expect at oral?  Who trained you?  Is she accredited? 

*chuckling to herself*
DV




MsSonnetMarwood -> RE: Training Certificates? (3/28/2007 3:04:42 PM)

All you have to do is ask for references...suddenly all their former play partners either died or moved cross country never to be heard from again.





thetammyjo -> RE: Training Certificates? (3/28/2007 3:51:38 PM)

Actually when someone has finished my training program I do give them this little cerfiticate that says that I trained them, lists the dates of the training and that I think they now have a firmer grasp of BDSM is all about.

It was just my way of making them feel good because I do require a lot of work.

Funny thing is that a few of the folks I've trained in the past have said mentioning my training did get them a few things -- like into a dungeon or play party.




Calandra -> RE: Training Certificates? (3/28/2007 4:17:26 PM)

I have actually given a letter of reference along with My contact information when I have successfully trained someone. I think that if they are going to receive My time, they should be able to count on My continued support.




DianeB269 -> RE: Training Certificates? (3/28/2007 4:23:22 PM)

hahaha, What will they come up with next?




MissSCD -> RE: Training Certificates? (3/28/2007 6:16:30 PM)

I agree with the letters of training and references for some things; however, toilet training is not something that can be done like this especially when the person is in another country.  See where I am going with it? 

Regards, MissSCD




LadyHugs -> RE: Training Certificates? (3/29/2007 6:36:12 PM)

Dear MissSCD, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
In Master Taino's Training Academy there are certificates given out, stating they have completed the weekend training for slave or Master.
 
At one time, if memory serves me correctly, Black Rose Organization had given out certificates when individuals passed their classes for CPR or Dungeon Monitors. 
 
I will say though, as I am getting older and people are dying around me at different ages for different reasons; all the way from age to auto accidents and the like; it isn't impossible to loose a good many references. 
 
I have personally introduced some of my old connections to current connections as to keep the line going, as far as references go.  If push comes to shove, the people I introduced those who invested me with leather and the title of Master years prior to involving myself with Black Rose and before that PEP DC;  will be able to recall meeting those who were a part of my history in the lifestyle.  Now, some of those old connections have passed on.  Current connections that can remember 'the war stories' per se still exist.  But, it isn't impossible that they could all be wiped out in one swipe, such as in a crash or something.
 
That said, there will be some who create a grand story indeed. I've seen these people move on and get real, dropping their phony connections and by their own merit become creditable.  Some are big names now but, I remember when they were full of bull pies.  And, I still maintain it is largely due to the way novices and 'wanting to be' are treated, which forces people to do things just to be accepted and given a chance.
 
Training Certificates can be 'created' as easily as phony creditials.  With computers and graphic programs-- amazing with PCs can do.
 
The summary of concern I do have is, that no matter the paper trail of certificates, creditials and who knows who and who knows what-- The main focus should just be on individuals themselves and judge for yourselves.  Use your gut instincts.  Being 'yourself' is priceless.  Being 'yourself' is not how many awards you have, how many groups you belong to or have formed and or how many people you know.  Its being yourself which is the true measure of quality.  As we can see in Congressional politics -- one can have creditials up the place where the sun never shines but, its the person who either is honest or not to themselves that reveal their true natures.  I much rather have a pauper who is humble and true to their nature, then a rich man who is not true to their nature and boasts about their arm length of certificates, awards and creditials.
 
Just some thoughts.
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs
 
 




DianeB269 -> RE: Training Certificates? (3/29/2007 6:44:54 PM)

I think I'll start giving out certificates to guys for strapon size.

5 to 6"= 1 star
6 to 7"= 2 stars
7 to 8"= 3 stars
etc,etc...You know what I mean.




SDFemDom4cuck -> RE: Training Certificates? (3/29/2007 9:50:17 PM)

quote:

All you have to do is ask for references...suddenly all their former play partners either died or moved cross country never to be heard from again.



or Europe, or they don't have email, or they have gone vanilla. Oh the list goes on and on doesn't it??




subfever -> RE: Training Certificates? (3/29/2007 10:49:15 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MsSonnetMarwood

All you have to do is ask for references...suddenly all their former play partners either died or moved cross country never to be heard from again.


My dog ate her telephone number.




pixelslave -> RE: Training Certificates? (3/30/2007 11:39:34 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHugs

The summary of concern I do have is, that no matter the paper trail of certificates, creditials and who knows who and who knows what-- The main focus should just be on individuals themselves and judge for yourselves.  Use your gut instincts.  Being 'yourself' is priceless.  Being 'yourself' is not how many awards you have, how many groups you belong to or have formed and or how many people you know.  Its being yourself which is the true measure of quality.  As we can see in Congressional politics -- one can have creditials up the place where the sun never shines but, its the person who either is honest or not to themselves that reveal their true natures.  I much rather have a pauper who is humble and true to their nature, then a rich man who is not true to their nature and boasts about their arm length of certificates, awards and creditials.
 



 
As always, your wisdom is priceless LadyHugs.  Nothing seems more important to me than what one experiences personally when in the presence of another.  We all seem to respond and experience others differently as our point of view and perception will vary from others who are also experiencing the same situation. 
 
 - pixel




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