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SirDiscipliner69 -> RE: The breakdown of communication resulted in the breakdown of the relationship. (4/6/2007 8:08:53 AM)
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02/14/1998
kim,
I did find that you wrote a satisfactory reply and would want you to continue in doing so.
I also enjoyed talking to you and I feel there is quite a bit of chemistry already and I am sure you do too.
I can resend this to your hotmail account as I did save this offline.
I am not collecting submissives but I am looking for a serious relationship if it develops into that. The chemistry obviously must be there.
your exploration of your submisssion to Me is a journey.
I am glad you see it that way.
I have no problem taking control and have you do exactly as I say.
I am not necessarilly looking for experience but your willingness to safely and slowly explore with Me kim...
Let Us go slowly at first...
Would you care to tell Me a bit more about the submissive you?
I would also like to know did anything I mention appeal to you and what did you like about it now that you have thought about it kim?
What has aroused your interest and how does it make you feel?
As I told you earlier kim please do not confuse My directness with crudeness .I know it is direct but quite honestly it breaks the ice and cuts through the games that many seem to play... I like to play other games... :)
My directness should be a relief to you in a world of hidden agendas...
I not looking for experience kim but your willingness to safely
and slowly explore is important...I am looking for a compliant submissive female perhaps you, who wishes to experience the joys of servitude as My submissive.
If you choose to be My submissive you will do My bidding and I will require complete obedience alway kim. Is that understood?
your tasks and requirements will be carried out in a prompt and timely manner as I instruct you..
Yes, I will guide you, cherrish you, soothe you and help you...
I will also ride you very, very, very hard both figuratively and literally...both physically, mentally, pschcologically and spiritually...
It is what you need kim and what I want...
I require initially four things all which are paramount:
discretion , I am and I demand it from you, honesty ,trust and safety.
* DISCRETION - What we do is to be between the two of us. No details are to be communicated in any form with anyone one else unless I give you permission. If I want to make My private side public I will take out a billboard. Violation of this will not be tolerated. I have encountered some submissives who are deceptive by nature and they seem to have this need to feel accepted by others and they brag and tell what they have done. If you are one of these mouth runners, stop reading this and throw this away. If you are deceptive by nature and feel the need to "get one over" then this is not for you.
* HONESTY - I require and expect this. Period. " I don't want that,
Sir." does not mean kim "tie me up and make me do it". I don't wish to hear " thank you, Sir. May I have another?" when it should be " Thank you Sir. I Deserve another." Ultimately I will decide if you get another. I do not tolerate manipulation by you as a submissive.
* TRUST - This is something that will come with time kim and must be
earned. I will demonstrate it with the care and time I spend with you. You will have to prove yourself to Me as My worthy submissive by doing and completing things I require of you and your overall attitude and approach to serving Me. There will be limits to be discussed and set.
* SAFETY - I demand this of Myself through My constant awareness and ability to follow and read your every bit of body language. I will know your body better than you do kim. My equipment meets My very high standards of safety. I test everything to exceed two to three times the expected safety level. If you are to be suspended then the equipment will take three times your body weight. If I am to use a new belt on you I have taken the time to sand the edges as to not make them sharp so the will cut or break the skin. There is much, much more that I will impart to you over a period of time as My submissive. kim, you need to have the desire to serve Me as My submissive.
In all future communications kim you shall always begin by referring to Me as "Sir" when addressing Me. when you write to Me you should endeavor to appeal to Me by your enthusiasm and approach to serve as My submissive is very important as My time is very valuable.
Care to tell Me a bit more about the submissive you?
I am 6'3", 200 lbs., handsome, intelligent, very immaginative, witty and very sensual. I appreciate the female form as a work of art and have enjoyed all of the pleasures that might be partaken. In the past I have always considered myself average but have been told numerous times that I was much more than average when it came to my physical
attributes, sexual appetite and stamina.
I have a several decades of experience in B&D and S&M but find myself always finding some new nuance or twist to what I know or may have experienced. I do not consider myself the end all authority yet just another traveler on the road of life who wishes to experience some of the finer things it has to offer.
What might happen? It might be something like the following. Perhaps you might wish to tell Me what you would like it to be like.
I have you bound lying on your stomach to the point where you can not move. you are stretched over one of the bed benches at the hotel and secured tightly with a rope. There is a pillow rolled up and placed under your stomach to raise your ass high in the air. Wearing the collar you so truly miss, you are blindfolded, and gagged. you tremble in anticipation of what is to come. you sense Me walk around the room and feel the cool breezes each time I pass by you. you feel a quick swat on your ass from My hand then feel extreme pleasure as My fingers begin to explore the inside of your pussy. you are quickly intoxicated by My touch and overcome by the intense feelings of pleasure I am providing you. you feel truly privileged to have Me touch you like this. your pussy is hot and wet... you can feel the intensity and passion rise and fall as I vary the stroke and tempo. you are instructed to remain perfectly quiet and not to make a sound... you try hard to remain quiet, but My touch feels soooo good.
The silence is broken by a soft moan when My touch just about pushes
you over the edge to a glorious orgasm. I immediately stop and remove
My fingers from your pussy. I begin to scold you for not following
directions as I make My way in front of you, and roughly remove the
gag from your mouth. you immediately begin to apologize for disappointing Me. you open your mouth to speak but you are silenced as I thrust My cock deep into your throat. I grab the back of your hair and pull hard as I push Myself into you. you try to take all of My hard cock but cannot as it is being thrusted in and out of your mouth fast and hard. you can tell this excites Me. After a few more moments I stop and quickly replace your empty mouth with the gag. This time, I push it deeper into your mouth and tighten it. you can feel Me move behind you and you instinctively know what to expect. you can hear the whip as it rushes through the air, then the echo of a loud crack as it makes contact with your ass. you are startled by the act but enjoy the pain I provide to you. "Lets try this again"
I say... Once again you are instructed to remain silent. you feel the whip making contact with your ass over and over again... each swat is harder than the one before.. after a few moments I am whipping you hard. you try to move but cannot as the rope has you tied tightly in place. you can feel the hot contact the whip has with your legs, ass and back. After which seems like eternity... I stop and lean over and wrap My fingers around the hair at the base of your neck. I pull your head up and whisper sweet reminders to you that you belong to Me and that you really should follow directions. you are dizzy with passion and want so desperately to thank Me for reminding you on how to properly serve Me. you will prperly serve Me kim. Period.
you may wish to answer this offline is a program such as
Microsoft Word then attach it as a document...this way you
can think about the answers and answer them without being
bumped from the internet and losing all your work...
Below is a list of D/s activities kim that you may find
helpful in guiding your servitude. This is a list meant to be
filled out by you, the submissive, for My use.
For each item, you need to provide two answers:
For experience, write YES or NO next to each item to indicate if
you have ever DONE that activity. Mark N/A if it does not
apply to your gender.
For willingness, indicate for each item how you feel about
DOING that activity by rating it on a scale of NO or 0 to 5.
"?" means you don't understand what the item is
attempting to describe.
NO means you will NOT do that item under any
circumstances (a hard limit).
0 (zero) indicates you have utterly no desire to do that
activity and don't like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and
would ordinarily object to doing it, but you would permit
the Dominant to do it if it they really wanted it.
(sometimes called a "soft limit").
1 means you don't want to do or like to do this activity,
but wouldn't object if it was asked of you.
2 means you are willing to do this activity, but it has no
special appeal for you.
3 means you usually like doing this activity, at least on an
irregular/ occasional basis.
4 means you like doing this activity, and would like to
experience it on a regular basis.
5 means the activity is a wild turn-on for you, and you
would like it as often as possible.
Mark with an asterisk (*) those items which you are
willing to do only with your current sex partner(s), but not
with casual play-partners.
Note any additional information or nuances which might
be important for your Dom to know in the margin to the
right. For example under diapers you might wish to
distinguish between "wetting" and "soiling".
There is intentionally some overlap between categories. Unless
otherwise stated, you are the recipient/target of the activity.
Experience, Willingness Notes & Nuances
yes/no, NO or 0-5
What is your age?
What are your measurements? - -
What is your height?
What is your weight?
where are you located?
what is your phone number?
do you have a photo you can send Me?
Abrasion :
Age play :
Anal sex :
Anal plugs (small) :
Anal plugs (large) :
Anal plug (public, under clothes):
Animal roles :
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders) :
Aromas :
Asphyxiation :
Auctioned for charity :
Ball stretching :
Bathroom use control :
Beastiality :
Beating (soft) :
Beating (hard) :
Blindfolds :
Being serviced (sexual) :
Being bitten :
Breast/chest bondage :
Breath control :
Branding :
Boot worship :
Bondage (light) :
Bondage (heavy) :
Bondage (multi-day) :
Bondage (public, under clothing) :
Breast whipping :
Brown showers (scat) :
Cages (locked inside of) :
Caning :
Castration fantasy :
Catheterization :
Cattle prod (electrical toy) :
Cells/Closets (locked inside of) :
Chains :
Chamber-pot use :
Chastity belts :
Chauffeuring :
Choking :
Chores (domestic service) :
Clothespins :
Cock rings/straps :
Cock worship :
Collars (worn in private) :
Collars (worn in public) :
Competitions (with other Subs) :
Corsets (wearing casually) :
Corsets (trained waist reduction):
Cuffs (leather) :
Cuffs (metal) :
Cutting :
Diapers (wearing) :
Diapers (wetting) :
Diapers (soiling) :
Dilation :
Dildoes :
Double penetration :
Electricity :
Enemas (for cleansing) :
Eenmas (retention/punishment) :
Enforced chastity :
Erotic dance (for audience) :
Examinations (physical) :
Exercise (forced/required) :
Exhibitionism (friends) :
Exhibitionism (strangers) :
Eye contact restrictions :
Face slapping :
Fantasy abandonment :
Fantasy rape :
Fantasy gang-rape :
Fear (being scared) :
Fisting (anal) :
Fisting (vaginal) :
Flame play :
Following orders :
Foot worship :
Forced bedwetting :
Forced dressing :
Forced eating :
Forced homosexuality :
Forced heterosexuality :
Forced masturbation :
Forced nudity (private) :
Forced nudity (around others) :
Forced servitude :
Forced smoking :
Full head hoods :
Gags (cloth) :
Gags (inflatible) :
Gags (phallic) :
Gags (rubber) :
Gags (tape) :
Gas masks :
Gates of Hell (male) :
Genital sex :
Given away to another Dom (temp) :
Given away to another Dom (perm) :
Golden showers :
Gun play :
Hairbrush spankings :
Hair pulling :
Hand jobs (giving) :
Hand jobs (receiving) :
Harems (serving w/other subs) :
Harnessing (leather) :
Harnessing (rope) :
Having food chosen for you :
Having clothing chosen for you :
Head (give fellatio/cunnilingus) :
Head (rcv fellatio/cunnilingus) :
High heel wearing :
High heel worship :
Homage with tongue (non-sexual) :
Hoods :
Hot oils (on genitals) :
Hot waxing :
Housework (doing) :
Human puppy dog :
Humiliation (private) :
Humiliation (public) :
Hypnotism :
Ice cubes :
Immobilization :
Infantilism :
Initiation rites :
Injections :
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage:
Interrogations :
Kidnapping :
Kneeling :
Knife play :
Leather clothing :
Leather restraints :
Lectures for misbehavior :
Licking (non-sexual) :
Lingerie (wearing) :
Manacles & Irons :
Manicures (giving) :
Massage (giving) :
Massage (receiving) :
Medical scenes :
Modeling for erotic photos :
Mouth bits :
Mummification :
Name change (for scene) :
Name change (legal, permanant) :
Nipple clamps :
Nipple rings (piercings) :
Nipple play/"torture" :
Nipple weights :
Oral/anal play (rimming) :
Over-the-knee spanking :
Orgasm denial :
Orgasm control :
Outdoor scenes :
Outdoor sex :
Pain (severe) :
Pain (mild) :
Persona training (in scene) :
Personality modification (RL) :
Phone sex (serving Dom) :
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends):
Phone sex (commercial provider) :
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce):
Piercing (permanent) :
Plastic surgery :
Prison scenes :
Prostitution (public pretense) :
Prostitution (actual) :
Pony slave :
Public exposure :
Punishment Scene :
Pussy/cock whipping :
Pussy worship :
Riding crops :
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.):
Rituals :
Religious scenes :
Restrictive rules on behavior :
Rubber/latex clothing :
Rope body harness :
Saran wrapping :
Scarification :
Scratching - getting :
Scratching - giving :
Sensory deprivation :
Serving :
Serving as art :
Serving as ashtray :
Serving as furniture :
Serving as a maid :
Serving as toilet (urine) :
Serving as toilet (feces) :
Serving as waitress/waiter :
Serving orally (sexual) :
Serving other doms (supervised) :
Serving other doms (unsupervised):
Sexual deprivation (short term) :
Sexual deprivation (long term) :
Shaving (body hair) :
Shaving (head hair) :
Skinny-dipping :
Sleep deprivation :
Sleepsacks :
Slutty clothing (private) :
Slutty clothing (public) :
Spandex clothing :
Spanking :
Speech restrictions (when, what) :
Speculums (Anal) :
Speculums (vaginal) :
Spitting :
Spreader bars :
Standing in corner :
Stocks :
Straight jackets :
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on) :
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by) :
Strap-on-dildos (wearing) :
Strapping (full body beating) :
Suspension (upright) :
Suspension (inverted) :
Suspension (horizontal) :
Supplying new partners for Dom :
Swallowing feces :
Swallowing semen :
Swallowing urine :
Swapping (with one other couple) :
Swinging (multiple couples) :
Tampon Training (in ass) :
Tattooing :
Teasing :
TENS Unit (electrical toy) :
Thumbcuffs (metal) :
Tickling :
Triple penetration :
Urethral Sounds (metal rods) :
Uniforms :
Including others :
Vaginal dildo :
Verbal humiliation :
Vibrator on genitals :
Violet Wand (electricial toy) :
Voyeurism (watching others) :
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others) :
Video (watching others) :
Video (recordings of you) :
Water torture :
Waxing (hair removal) :
Wearing symbolic jewelery :
Weight gain (forced) :
Weight loss (forced) :
Whipping :
Wooden paddles :
Wrestling :
Willingness quick-key:
?
Don't understand this item.
*
I will do with current sex partner only.
NO
I WILL NOT DO that item under ANY circumstances (a hard
limit).
0
No desire, don't like, will permit if special to Dom (a soft limit).
1
Don't want to do, but will.
2
Willing to do, but has no special appeal.
3
Usually LIKE doing, on an irregular/ occasional basis.
4
LIKE doing, would like it on a regular basis.
5
WILD TURN-ON, would like it as often as possible.
> On a scale of 1-10 (1 being vanilla, 10 being anything goes),
how heavy do you get with the right partner?_______.
For you, the turn on of S&M is mostly
a. Visual b.Psychological c. Aural (sound)
d. Sensory-intense e.Emotional d. Sensual-erotic
What positions have the highest erotic value for you?
a.Standing Bondage b.Lying--on back c. Lying--face down
d.Kneeling e.Hands & Knees f. Other___________
What toys/tools have the highest erotic value for you?
a. Whips k. Dildos
b. Ropes l. Vibrators
c. Chains m. Butt Plugs
d. Leather Restraints n. Gags
e. Wax o. Handcuffs
f. Knives p. Blindfolds
g. Tit Clamps q. Belts
h. Paddles r. Harnesses and slings
i. Uniforms s. Boots/chaps/clothing
How important do you consider orgasm to be in sex?
a. Not at all important
b. Somewhat important
c. Very important
e. Essential
Which of the following do you consider major turn-ons?
a. Vaginal penetration o. Dildo Fucking
b. Anal penetration p. Oral Sex
c. Bondage q. Anal Fisting
d. Light Whipping r. Vaginal Fisting
e. Heavy Whipping s. Menstruating Woman
f. Nipple Torture t. Spanking
g. Psychological Humiliation u. Cuddling
h. Cutting v. Branding or Tattooing
i. Piercing w. Golden Showers
j. Group Sex x. Scat (feces)
k. Enemas y. Voyeurism
l. Exhibitionism z. Uniforms
m. Food aa. Blindfolds
n. Costume Scenes bb. Gags
Other____________
Which of the following do you consider major turn-offs:
am> a. Vaginal penetration o. Dildo Fucking
b. Anal penetration p. Oral Sex
c. Bondage q. Anal Fisting
d. Light Whipping r. Vaginal Fisting
e. Heavy Whipping s. Menstruating Woman
f. Nipple Torture t. Spanking
g. Psychological Humiliation u. Cuddling
h. Cutting v. Branding or Tattooing
i. Piercing w. Golden Showers
j. Group Sex x. Scat (feces)
k. Enemas y. Voyeurism
l. Exhibitionism z. Uniforms
m. Food aa. Blindfolds
n. Costume Scenes bb. Gags
Other____________
Do you prefer:
a. Single partners b. 2 or 3 partners c. Group scenes
Safe Words:
="Stop! I'm having trouble!"
="Lighten up physically."
="Lighten up psychologically.
List some non verbal signals you would use for the above
="Stop! I'm having trouble!"
="Lighten up physically."
="Lighten up psychologically."
Particular areas of the body you would like attention paid to:
Particular taboos or off-limits activities:
Physical illnesses or limitations that could be a factor:
Write down a fantasy you would like to act out:
Ross
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