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How to please? - 4/13/2005 9:25:12 AM

blygpojke

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Hello, I'm very new to this, and I'm 18 years old. I very recently found an online mistress. But even though I found pleasure in pleasing her wishes I still feel that I barely can handle the situation. I don't really know how to approach her. I would like very much to come in contact with a mistress ready to teach this boy a little lesson, anything would be great :P

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RE: How to please? - 4/13/2005 9:41:25 AM

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So you found a mistress and you want more mistresses?

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RE: How to please? - 4/13/2005 10:16:39 AM

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But even though I found pleasure in pleasing her wishes I still feel that I barely can handle the situation. I don't really know how to approach her.

Perhaps you might like to clarify this a bit more.

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RE: How to please? - 4/13/2005 10:38:09 AM

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Might feel more confident if you find one in Real Life.

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RE: How to please? - 4/13/2005 10:48:08 AM

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I'm sure I would be more confident in real life, but then it's the problem that I'm so damn shy, I think I need establish a relation over the internet to begin with.

Uhmm, I don't think I would want another mistress though one in the "real world" in time would be great. I just meant that I need tips.

"But even though I found pleasure in pleasing her wishes I still feel that I barely can handle the situation. I don't really know how to approach her." It's all kinda awkward I know in vague terms what I want, but I don't know how I can express this wishes to my dom. I really don't know what terms I should use either.

Sorry if this is stupid nonsense, perhaps it's better I try to learn by reading information pages.

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RE: How to please? - 4/13/2005 2:03:49 PM

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No, it isn't stupid. Part of this journey, in my opinion, is getting to know yourself on a deeper level than you can probably even imagine at this point. Another part is learning how to communicate openly and honestly.

As for how to approach her, simply ask her if you can speak with her about what you are feeling. If she has much experience at all, she will be able to help you learn to communicate with her and guide you to your own answers with regard to what needs you have inside.

I do agree that you would likely do better sticking to real life relationships, but nothing wrong with using the internet as a medium to meet others who enjoy this lifestyle in the real world.

Good luck to you...

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RE: How to please? - 4/13/2005 9:11:53 PM

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My only piece of advice is that if you have a Mistress, learn from her how to please her. I have NEVER been in a real relationship where a dominant woman wasn't willing to offer instruction on how to please her properly (in whatever function). I certainly wouldn't be looking for "other" women in hopes of learning to how please a Mistress, especially if I was seeing one already.

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