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So hard to find a partner - 4/13/2005 1:59:40 PM

daddyshomenow

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Hey,
I really love the daddy/daughter roleplay and am findng it difficult to find a partner... I'm hoping to meet with someone here but I'm finiding most members are into the bdsm or slave/master, both of which I'm not.
Where can I find women who truly love being the daughter in the daddy/daughter fantasy?
Any help for this newbie would be greatly appreciated..

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RE: So hard to find a partner - 4/13/2005 2:04:41 PM

siamsa24

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Well, you don't have a profile on the other side, that would be a good place to start.
Did you just join today? I was here for almost 2 years before meeting my partner. I'm not trying to discourage you, but trying to help you put some perspective on things.
If you would like me to read over your profile after you have it written I would be happy to. As a Daddy's girl I can give you feedback (if you are interested).

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RE: So hard to find a partner - 4/13/2005 2:31:07 PM

daddyshomenow

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Hi and thanks for your reply. Yes, I just joined today so I don't think my profile is approved or visable yet.. I would love your help in composing the best profile to find my "little girl". I'll tell you what my fantasy is if that helps... I love teaching my little girl how to have sex with her Daddy. I enjoy a girl who feels she's a slut.. love talking dirty and enjoy when my "daughter" says "thank you for letting me have sex with you". I'm not into pain or bdsm of scatological.
I love the "love" relationship and the naughty-ness of the situation. I think it'll be very important that my partner is slim or petite, good at acting like a little girl, and knows I'm not a stalker, predator, or into children. I'm succsessful, honest, and sincere.
so... will that help? Since you are a "little girl", I'd really appreciate your input.
Thanks!

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RE: So hard to find a partner - 4/13/2005 2:37:32 PM

siamsa24

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Well, when I looked it says "Profile not Found"
How about this, contact me on the other side and send me what you have written and I can help you out.

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RE: So hard to find a partner - 4/13/2005 2:50:31 PM

daddyshomenow

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Just found out it takes up to 72 hours to view profiles once they've been created.
I wrote:
Looking for my little girl! Daddy seeks petite girl for naughty daddy/daughter role play. I'm funny, successful, honet and sincere... seeking naughty daughter who wants to worship her Daddy and have sex with him. No bdsm or golden showers, just love and naughty sex!

How's that? Gimmie some pointers...
Thanks in advance

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RE: So hard to find a partner - 4/13/2005 2:56:59 PM

siamsa24

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I sent you a message on the other side

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RE: So hard to find a partner - 4/13/2005 2:57:00 PM

daddyshomenow

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Happy birthday!

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RE: So hard to find a partner - 4/13/2005 2:57:14 PM

siamsa24

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Thank you

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RE: So hard to find a partner - 4/13/2005 3:33:19 PM

perverseangelic

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I have to ask something 'cause I'm a bit confused.

Why do you equate BDSM with waste play? (golden shower and scat) It seems like you've allied those two things in several of your posts. Just curious as to why.

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RE: So hard to find a partner - 4/13/2005 4:57:49 PM

FelinePersuasion

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Waste play is something that does go on under bdsm and fetish play. All tho I am not saying they are linked nessisarily.

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RE: So hard to find a partner - 4/13/2005 9:15:30 PM

sarbonn

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Sometimes it's hard to find a partner, even when you don't have a specific fetish you are trying to achieve. Having a specific one makes it even harder.

I've historically had a hard time finding a partner, mainly because my type of lifestyle submission isn't generally that attractive to the majority of dominant women I've come across that tend to be more of a player mentality or fantasizing about ownership but not completely serious about it. And even after those hurdles are achieved, what usually happens is someone responds to me who is already in a relationship (just to let me know there are those out there).

Whenever I've been successful, it's usually happened by surprise. I can't figure it out. I never have. I'm a quantitative theorist, and for some reason the numbers never really seem to add up for me for when the variables DO work.

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RE: So hard to find a partner - 4/14/2005 10:21:12 AM

stormsfate

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There are a number of yahoo groups that cater to the daddy/little girl fetish. You might want to check them out as well. I met a girl locally who had such a list and she said there were lots of daddy types and not so many little girl types.

Best of luck in finding what you seek.

best regards,
fate

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RE: So hard to find a partner - 4/16/2005 6:24:32 AM

Manawyddan

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Most such lists won't show up in searches anymore. I recommend visiting http://www.kinkparty.com/katspdx/ for an excellent list I was a member of until recently.

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RE: So hard to find a partner - 4/16/2005 1:42:33 PM

slavedesires

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quote:

ORIGINAL: perverseangelic

I have to ask something 'cause I'm a bit confused.

Why do you equate BDSM with waste play? (golden shower and scat) It seems like you've allied those two things in several of your posts. Just curious as to why.

he said.........

quote:

I'm not into pain or bdsm of scatological.

i think he meant ...i am not into pain
nor am i into the scat part of bdsm....

not that he was equating but a weird way to giving his limits ....

???

~~shy

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RE: So hard to find a partner - 4/16/2005 1:45:10 PM

slavedesires

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quote:

ORIGINAL: daddyshomenow

Hi and thanks for your reply. Yes, I just joined today so I don't think my profile is approved or visable yet.. I would love your help in composing the best profile to find my "little girl". I'll tell you what my fantasy is if that helps... I love teaching my little girl how to have sex with her Daddy. I enjoy a girl who feels she's a slut.. love talking dirty and enjoy when my "daughter" says "thank you for letting me have sex with you". I'm not into pain or bdsm of scatological.
I love the "love" relationship and the naughty-ness of the situation. I think it'll be very important that my partner is slim or petite, good at acting like a little girl, and knows I'm not a stalker, predator, or into children. I'm succsessful, honest, and sincere.
so... will that help? Since you are a "little girl", I'd really appreciate your input.
Thanks!

whats the matter with putting this on ones profile ??

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