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Bearlee -> RE: Another episode of drunken conundrum (3/31/2007 8:40:08 AM)

 
LOL... told ya I could be sadistic!  That was mean, wasn't it?

Still, for all that, I'm submissive and don't have a Dominant bone in my body.  I was just trying to point out that people should find partners who enjoy similar interests...not partners with whom they must subjugate their own feelings PURELY for the other's pleasure. 
 
Like Jeff, I believe we all deserve ‘win/win’.
 
bearlee

Edited to add:

I saw your post before you edited it, thompson!  neener, neener, neener!!!
 
<huge grinz>
bear
 




Bearlee -> RE: Another episode of drunken conundrum (3/31/2007 9:28:29 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Rumtiger
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As for the whole liking to top but no dominant bone in her body...no..cant do it, I cant feel right if whoevers doing anything isent really into it at all, it would be like asking me to go and start flogging some girl..am I capable of doing it? I guess, sure, but..i'm not going to be into it or anything, i'm not going to like it. 


Sooooo, I'm just curious if you've taken another look at 'selfishness'?  Can you see...just like your last sentence here, that two people CAN and DO engage in D/s where BOTH of them get something out of it?  Like you said...who'd be into doing something if they're not ALSO getting somethiing out of it?  Yanno?
 
I'm just sayin...I like win/win.  I like being submissive, I like being beaten, too; it is NOT something I do just because the other person likes it; I LIKE IT.   Okay, a relationship is more than just that...but two people can come together in a way that gets both their wants met. 
 
So, I see 'selfish' not as a bad thing; but as a way to ensure things are win/win.  The person who 'endures' submission just to make another person happy is that door-mat we've been discussing.  And...what sadist doesn't love a bottom who throughly enjoys being 'abused'?  LOL
 
bearlee




thompsonx -> RE: Another episode of drunken conundrum (3/31/2007 10:24:52 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Bearlee


LOL... told ya I could be sadistic!  That was mean, wasn't it?

Still, for all that, I'm submissive and don't have a Dominant bone in my body.  I was just trying to point out that people should find partners who enjoy similar interests...not partners with whom they must subjugate their own feelings PURELY for the other's pleasure. 
 
Like Jeff, I believe we all deserve ‘win/win’.
 
bearlee

Edited to add:

I saw your post before you edited it, thompson!  neener, neener, neener!!!
Now I am really frightened....You really know how to pucker a guys asshole and make his knees go weak...It is probably a good thing you live so far away.[;)]
thompson
<huge grinz>
bear
 





Bearlee -> RE: Another episode of drunken conundrum (3/31/2007 10:38:38 AM)

 
Yeah, but I know where you arrreeeee!!!    I grew up in Northern CA...and spent time in Trona, WestEnd, Argus area.  I know where Barstow issssssssss!!!
 
Be afraid...be very afraid!!!
 
<cracks up>




Rumtiger -> RE: Another episode of drunken conundrum (3/31/2007 12:38:24 PM)

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ORIGINAL: thompsonx

Rumtiger:
Sucker punching some loudmouth does not make you a bad ass it just makes you a bully.  Having "skills" also entails responsibility. 


I dont sucker punch anybody, bit more honorable then that, I never said I was a bad ass (or think I am) nor did I ever brag about my "skills" so I dont know what quotations are needed.

I know about my responsibilities, and there have been many instances in the past where i've held back for that very reason, some have even come up on these boards, in this case I just...dident. As mama always said, some people sometimes just need a kick in the ass.

And your right, I guess it really all depends on what she and I decide I am...ugh...I'm always the one to complicate shit.




thompsonx -> RE: Another episode of drunken conundrum (3/31/2007 2:47:48 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Rumtiger

quote:

ORIGINAL: thompsonx

Rumtiger:
Sucker punching some loudmouth does not make you a bad ass it just makes you a bully.  Having "skills" also entails responsibility. 


I dont sucker punch anybody,
A throat punch is a moderately sophisticated move...to use it on someone of a lower skill level who is not expecting it is by definition a "sucker punch"

bit more honorable then that, I never said I was a bad ass (or think I am) nor did I ever brag about my "skills" so I dont know what quotations are needed.
In your two thousand plus posts there are numerous references to your martial skills, not the least of which is your signature.

I know about my responsibilities, and there have been many instances in the past where i've held back for that very reason,
Punching someone in the throat does not seem to me to be holding back.

some have even come up on these boards,
It is a little difficult to sucker punch someone through a computer screen.

in this case I just...dident. As mama always said, some people sometimes just need a kick in the ass.
A punch in the throat is somewhat different than a kick in the ass.  The former being life threatning the later being only ego threating.
thompson
And your right, I guess it really all depends on what she and I decide I am...ugh...I'm always the one to complicate shit.




Rumtiger -> RE: Another episode of drunken conundrum (3/31/2007 7:32:07 PM)

You werent there, how can you say what kind of strike or what the context of it was? As for my signature...do I look like Quentin Tarintino to you? If me being of a higher skill level is on any sort of trial here then the guy shoulda known better then to provoke someone like that, seeing as at the time it was pretty obvious visually and my disposition towards him before the incident wasent the most civil, I dont feel remorse or regret for what I did.

As for the other instances, i'm talking about other instances that where discussed on these boards, like me dealing with an ex boyfriend of one of my best friends ect.

And I know perfectly well what my mom means, god,  I always have to spell out everything whenever I talk to you.




thompsonx -> RE: Another episode of drunken conundrum (3/31/2007 9:09:22 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Rumtiger

You werent there, how can you say what kind of strike or what the context of it was?
I have only your description of the events which this whole discussion is based on.


As for my signature...do I look like Quentin Tarintino to you?
"Tiger ain't just a name" was the signature I was refering to...do you even read what you put on your post?

If me being of a higher skill level is on any sort of trial here then the guy shoulda known better then to provoke someone like that, seeing as at the time it was pretty obvious visually and my disposition towards him before the incident wasent the most civil, I dont feel remorse or regret for what I did.
I have never sugested that you should feel anything, remorse or otherwise...perhaps you may enjoy doing life on the installment plan having "no neck bubba" for a roommate.

As for the other instances, i'm talking about other instances that where discussed on these boards, like me dealing with an ex boyfriend of one of my best friends ect.

And I know perfectly well what my mom means, god,  I always have to spell out everything whenever I talk to you.
That could be a combination of your inability to communicate clearly(perhaps alcohol induced) and my inability to read minds.  I promise that if you use small words and speak real slow I will make every effort to keep up.
thompson




Rumtiger -> RE: Another episode of drunken conundrum (3/31/2007 9:15:10 PM)

The best you could do was a jailtime reference?

Seeing as this thread was created late last night your also making a pretty far reach to try saying i'm still drunk, your attempt at wit is foolish.

Forget it Tommy, I already know it's pretty much worthless to attempt to really talk to you.




ModeratorEleven -> RE: Another episode of drunken conundrum (3/31/2007 9:17:50 PM)

Ok, enough.

XI




Rumtiger -> RE: Another episode of drunken conundrum (3/31/2007 9:20:06 PM)

Understood ma'am.




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