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BabyNyla -> RE: restrictions (4/2/2007 12:41:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross things like "OMG you mother fucker" will elicit laughter and deliciousness. Heh ... this is soooo something I would say or sometimes do say ... but I can't ever imagine saying it to my Daddy ...I would instantly know I was dead meat ... but just thinking about saying this to him is giving me a good laugh :)

MsKatHouston -> RE: restrictions (4/2/2007 12:49:07 PM)
I had to search long and hard for something my boy hated. Now he has various likes and tolerates some things but it took me awhile to find the one thing he really really dislikes. When I did it to him he burst out with OMG you fucking bbbbii...trailing off with a deer in the headlights look. I was laughing so hard and asking "I'm a what??" to which he responded "Nothing, I didn't say it...." It was such an immediate, off the cuff, honest reaction that amused the hell out of me. Now I tell him that my goal in finding extreme play is to elicit cuss words from him. Then I know I succeeded.

completenz -> RE: restrictions (4/2/2007 12:52:25 PM)
He places no restrictions on me when we 'touch'. He enjoys my reactions and i am encouraged to express myself at all times. hugs c

hisannabelle -> RE: restrictions (4/2/2007 3:12:36 PM)
greetings, i'm not allowed to beg ("please" usually earns a faceslap, and not the kind that give me yummy butterflies) or say "i don't know" (except in the very rare case). i'm also required to talk, a lot, about how i feel/what i'm thinking, etc. i shudder to think what would happen if i ever even considered blocking a blow. i'm allowed to close my eyes, but i'm not allowed to bow my head or lower my face. annabelle.

hisannabelle -> RE: restrictions (4/2/2007 3:14:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: topcat quote: ORIGINAL: mixielicous quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub quote: ORIGINAL: mixielicous does your Dom/me give you restrictions within a scene? i am not allowed to block, flinch [after the swat], or say "ow" talking, screaming, crying, laughing et al are all acceptable. When he feels like it. I'm rather chatty during sex (or as my ex once put it, I get real religious) how the hell does THIS work?? pray tell! i am a screamer too [:D] lol You know: "Oh God OhGodOHGODOHGOD!" i'm one of those, too. occasionally He reminds me that His name isn't actually god, but He's happy to be god every now and then, i think ;)

jauntyone -> RE: restrictions (4/2/2007 3:19:09 PM)
Greetings Master and I do not scene in the sense that you mean. However there are a few words that are not part of my vocabularly anymore No I don't think so and I will not do it Any of those spoken is sure to garner me a very painful punishment and a reminder of my place I wish you well melissa

spanklette -> RE: restrictions (4/2/2007 3:50:54 PM)
He doesn't have any permanent restrictions per se, but during specific scenes He will restrict certain movements just for my safety. For instance, a breast flogging or cropping will illicit a "head up" from Him, even though He keeps His hand under my chin just to make sure I don't get my face in the way. That's the only sort of restriction I can think of. And, telling Him "no" during a scene is like giving Him the green light and setting Him on a particular path. If I really don't want something to happen...I've learned to just shut up.[:D]

littleone35 -> RE: restrictions (4/2/2007 4:59:18 PM)
Blocking oh no!!! that would turn a displine into a punishment i have only gotton punished once in the 13 months we have been together and i do not want another. Blocking a blow would be denying him access to me and that is not allowed. Sometimes i don't know what to do with my hands so he tells them to put then over my head an keep them there It gives me something to do with them that also keeps them out of the way. As for crying yelling and the such that is allowed as a Matter of fact during displine i have to count the strokes. Even though Master hates to make me cry tears of pain (tears of pleasure are a whole different ball game). Matt's littleone

kyraofMists -> RE: restrictions (4/2/2007 5:10:03 PM)
The only rule that alandra, denika and I have in play is that we are not allowed to think or hold back. If I want to punch him, kick him, slap him, curse him, grab his toys, run away, etc. then I am to just do it. I am not allowed to think about it, I am to just react. What he doesn't like he will control. It makes for some incredibly fun and freeing experiences. For the most part alandra and I remain in strict control of our behaviors and emotions because that is what he expects. Play and sex is our chance to let go of that control and just react. Knight's kyra

smilingjaguar -> RE: restrictions (4/2/2007 5:25:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross Only if we're doing a specific scene and he wants to see me struggle or enjoys seeing the discipline. Generally we get off on the sincere immediate response- things like "OMG you mother fucker" will elicit laughter and deliciousness. That's delicious pillow talk for us...he knows he has me when "sick sadistic bastard" pops out of my mouth. :)

OsideGirl -> RE: restrictions (4/2/2007 6:21:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BabyNyla quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross things like "OMG you mother fucker" will elicit laughter and deliciousness. Heh ... this is soooo something I would say or sometimes do say ... but I can't ever imagine saying it to my Daddy ...I would instantly know I was dead meat ... but just thinking about saying this to him is giving me a good laugh :) I once blurted out, "You fucking bastard". His reply was, "No, I'm a fucking RAT bastard." And few really hard swings. He thought it was terribly funny and now teases me endlessly about it. It's not something that I would normally say, but he caught me off guard.

daddysliloneds -> RE: restrictions (4/2/2007 6:43:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mixielicous ...<snip> if i sit there saying "ow, ouch, ow" i think it makes Him feel some pity for me.. and well, ya know what happens then [scene ending, anyone? lol] didn't anyone ever tell him, ouch is not a safeword[;)]

arayofsunshine55 -> RE: restrictions (4/4/2007 8:00:03 PM)
Well he doesn't like no. Or me grabbing his hand to halt what he was planning to do. Thats about all that has come up that is clear doesn't work for him. We are not much for rules. I learn a lot by doing, so when I do something which doesnt' work for him I then know it doesn't. And we're pretty flexible so there isn't some heavy trip around this. Works for me, for us. Generally I am not bound and not gagged and any organic reaction works for him.

grlneedstolearn -> RE: restrictions (4/5/2007 7:46:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl Master loves reaction. He wants to know that he's getting to me. So, he actually loves when I'm trying to squirm away, flinching, swearing. Mines the same way. The more i squirm the better for him, why i'm still not sure [8\|]

mixielicous -> RE: restrictions (4/6/2007 8:52:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: daddysliloneds quote: ORIGINAL: mixielicous ...<snip> if i sit there saying "ow, ouch, ow" i think it makes Him feel some pity for me.. and well, ya know what happens then [scene ending, anyone? lol] didn't anyone ever tell him, ouch is not a safeword[;)] hehehe! i know, right?!

BoundDragon -> RE: restrictions (4/6/2007 11:06:47 AM)
There is nothing better than pure raw emotion and un-checked reactions. Sometimes if I wriggle to much he grabs me and holds me down with his own bare hands, it drives me wild!

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