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Old fastion Vinilla - 4/3/2007 12:01:53 AM

Liiaa

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My wife of many years and i have now sensed that it is now the time to explore new ideas.
with this in mind , me being on the lagging side of the threads and learning what the new vocabulary is and reading many posts from all of you, is want i seek is information.

just a short summary of what and who we are.

She is a bussiness professional,i am machinist by trade (Retired)now working on our 10k sq ft home.

some questions that bother me after being married for almost 20 years.

i feel like i have lost track of time as in my eyes it really does not seem to have been that amont of years of love and partnership

we are looking for like minded people that can help us on our quest in life and freedom.
as i said before we are new to this board....well at least i am, so i seek advice from you, as a Master.

we have decussed many areas of BDSM and some things i cant see subjecting her to,but in all fairness if there are fantises that she needs live to continue,do i stand in her way as she is the sub and i as the master,she wants to be domminated.and knows in her mind that i am not the one for the task....at this time
but with that said we are still living in a fantisy world of sorts un till we each find the thrill's that we seek.

again i ask you as the Masters to be kind but yet gental as we seek information on a new life style,for the next 20 years of Bliss

Thank you for your time

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RE: Old fastion Vinilla - 4/3/2007 7:17:23 AM

hisannabelle

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greetings liiaa,

it depends. are you comfortable with her having partners outside of your marriage, or allowing other dominants to top her for these particular fantasies? if you are, and she is also comfortable with it, there's nothing wrong with that. it might be a good idea to find someone to train you to whatever activities you're unable to do now (whether that's bondage, etc.). overall, i applaud you for your openness, honesty, and willingness to make things work, in whatever way possible :)

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RE: Old fastion Vinilla - 4/3/2007 7:30:26 AM

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I know from personal experience that their was a lot of things that I was not comfortable doing with my first sub, then as time went and we continued to play, I found that by pushing her limits that I was broadening my own limits, I look back from time to time and think about what were my limits, and compare them to what they are now over 20 years later.
My advice it to talk to her, pick something that she wants, discuss it and see how close to actually doing what she wants you can get. I bet after some time you will be loking back and amazed at where you are.
Good Luck
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RE: Old fastion Vinilla - 4/3/2007 8:49:37 AM

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I recommend getting out into your local community. Go to google and search using BDSM and the name of your nearest city.

I also recommend reading. Here are some lists of books:

BDSM "How-to" Books

Ms Relationship Books

Master Fire

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RE: Old fastion Vinilla - 4/3/2007 9:34:39 AM

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