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MissCrystalBlade -> RE: please, how can sissy get a mistress to sissy baby her? (4/17/2005 11:51:28 PM)
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As a Mistress with a sissy baby at home, this thread caught my interest very quickly and distressed me a little. I am all too aware of the extra effort that a sissy baby requires over that of other subs. My advice to diaperedsissy would be to not simply focus on your needs to be a sissy baby and as was suggested, think about what you are offering. While my sissy baby has her needs fulfilled at times, the dynamic of our relationship is such that my needs still come first. I have learned that, at times, I need to let the softer, maternal side of me out and her needs allow me to let that side out. Part of what makes our relationship work is that I can tailor our scenes to my mood. Her role as a sissy baby is very adaptable to a great many scenes including medical play, spankings, and canes. If I choose to indulge in more extreme scenes I simply get her into the headspace of a schoolgirl or young teen. In my case, she isn't a true masochist but her desire to please lets her take a GREAT deal of pain. If you truly want a Mistress and not a Mommy, you have to be willing to adapt yourself and understand that very few Mistresses, especially those who have real children, are going to take a sub who is solely focused on being a sissy baby. As to the assertion that diaperedsissy is attempting to top from the bottom, I think that is an oversimplification. He is failiing to state his desires and needs completely (or I would hope so) and instead focusing on one particular need. Saying that he is topping from the bottom is like saying a pain slut is doing so by posting that they want to get beaten. It is simply that he is not including what the Mistress has to gain by taking him as a sub. I may have misunderstood one post but to say that sissy baby slaves are more kink than D/s is really a misunderstanding of what a sissy baby is and the dynamic between a Mistress and a sissy baby.
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