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ansfrid -> Ottawa dom...no, switch...no, dom...whatever (4/15/2005 7:23:47 PM)
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Hi, I hail from Ottawa Canada, 32 year old, mostly straight, mostly dom, polyamourous male (how many more titles can we cram in)
I say mostly dom, as I find I really like the idea of being tied up, or restrained, and then see if another domme can quell the dom in me (I'll resist a lot before that). Not to close any doors on the matter, but it's the only scenario in which I like to switch down. If I am not tied up, I am not sure I could keep the sub mindset. I am 6'6", and north of 260 lbs., though it sounds cocky, I generally get my way in life. I can't grasp the sub mindset in general, but rope me up, and use me when I can't fight back, does sound like a tasty adventure.
I am not so much into pain games, or corporal punishment, except as an exception, the rare slap to establish dominance...however, I am a bit of a sensation slut on my back. I love getting my back worked over, but there is nothing sexual about it. It's a whole different area of sensations.
As a dom, I fancy domination/power play, restraint, and occasionaly some conscensual rape scenarios.
My wife does play with me, but only lightly. She is into the more easy going aspects, light bondage, and a bit of good natures role playing. I have had past girlfriends who have been more deeply involved with it though, including a few visits to play clubs. As such, my experience is real, but still somewhat comparatively fresh.
ok...good enough. Hi all.
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