AAkasha -> RE: The body and face behind the cock (4/5/2007 3:43:42 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Kismet817 Mine are always nameless and faceless. I'm thinking more about the act itself and doing it for her. It seems that many sub men really have this kind of nameless, faceless concept of the cock they would be sucking. I wonder if this vague visualization means that in real life, it came down to it, and there was a living, breathing, visible, possibly NOT attractive (even say the guy is hot - but not to the guy who is about to suck cock), manly smelling MAN there that the sub would back out because it's not what he wanted. There are certainly fantasies that are just that - fantasies - and if push came to shove, doing it in real life would be impossible. So if a femdom starts to go through the motions to make it happen, and that "nameless, faceless" person in the fantasies starts to become real, the fantasy loses its flair and the sub decides it's not what he thought he was signing up for. I mean even if you start to solidify the details to the sub with the nameless, faceless fantasy, I wonder if the fantasy loses the appeal: "The guy is 47, he's in reasonably good shape, his name is Roger, he has a beard, he smokes occassionally, he is fairly masculine, he wears cologne, he has a lot of body hair" -- now that you know that information, rather than "nameless, faceless" and being driven by the feminine, gorgeous femdom -- does it lose the appeal? Akasha
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