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Perfume Protocol - 4/4/2007 3:20:55 PM   
MstrTiger


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Do any of you ladies issue rules on what fragrances a slave is allowed to wear when entering your company for the first time? Or do you make them wear a specific aftershave you like? perhaps you tell them they are not allowed to wear any? I have left this to chance up until recently and not had a problem with it though I can see how it could be an issue if a slave came wearing a strong aftershave that I do not like, how do you all deal with the issue? Or is it something you don’t really see as being important enough to make rules about?.
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RE: Perfume Protocol - 4/4/2007 3:30:12 PM   
DianeB269


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Status: offline 		Anything is all right with me as long as you don't smell like B/O.


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RE: Perfume Protocol - 4/4/2007 3:30:37 PM   
t3nth0usandv0lts


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Status: offline 		We work together to come up with a scent I like that the slave can stand. That way they're pleasing to me while not wearing a scent they absolutely hate. :]

Same with other personal grooming products, and the wardrobe as well.

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RE: Perfume Protocol - 4/4/2007 3:30:58 PM   
EvilKitty


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Status: offline 		Hmmmpphh, good question. I'm only sensitive to a few fragrances like rose perfume. I like My boys to smell good; one of the factors in deciding to meet more than once is their smell. If their smell is right, then as long as they're clean & wearing non-perfumed deodorant, they're good to go! I have noticed men's colognes occasionally & either ordered them not to use it when seeing Me; or that I like it & they may wear it in My presence as long as they don't slather themselves in it.
Damn, sounds like a confusing answer! But it makes more sense than just saying, "Well, it depends".

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RE: Perfume Protocol - 4/4/2007 3:31:46 PM   
LadyHugs


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Status: offline 		Dear MstrTiger, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
In my mind's eyes when slaves are off dungeon/scene/serving premises they may wear a scent.  I do have my favorites but, until they are in my ownership I don't dictate their scent until afterwards.
 
In scenes, service and or dungeon areas, I do not allow slaves to use any scented soap, deodorant and or perfume of any sort.  This masks the natural body's primal scents to which changes as they scene.  Fear scents, pleasure, sexual excitement and the stages to its ending all would be masked if a scent would be introduced.  I am old fashioned and follow the Old School philosophies of using your 'nose' and training it like a perfumer would, as to aid in guiding the slave in any direction by their natural odors 'telling' what words cannot.
 
After a scene--a good shower/bath can be had and enjoy the scents in addition to man made scents.
 
For those scent sensitive -- A perfumer's tool is pure wool.  Three deep breaths through wool can help filter out smoke and other scents that may trigger reactions of those with sensitivities.
 
Perfumes come in many different varieties.  Placing them on the body's pulse points--the perfume will change in it's scent depending where on the pulse points they are; just as temperature changes from body's trunk to limbs change.
 
Just some thoughts.

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RE: Perfume Protocol - 4/4/2007 3:35:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		If the sub currently wears a particular cologne or aftershave, it is usually fine with me.  If I find out that I don't care for that particular scent, we will jointly pick out something else that I do like and that he can live with.
 
If he doesn't use an aftershave or cologne, I'm okay with that, too, but he had better use deodorant, LOL.
 
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RE: Perfume Protocol - 4/4/2007 3:46:31 PM   
FelinePersuasion


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Status: offline 		Not all men need deoderant. My x never did. Oddly enough he never had body oder except bad breath and well he smelled like sex if we fucked, but never needed deoderants or smelled.
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If the sub currently wears a particular cologne or aftershave, it is usually fine with me.  If I find out that I don't care for that particular scent, we will jointly pick out something else that I do like and that he can live with.
 
If he doesn't use an aftershave or cologne, I'm okay with that, too, but he had better use deodorant, LOL.
 
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RE: Perfume Protocol - 4/4/2007 3:47:49 PM   
hereyesruponyou


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Status: offline 		i am sensitive to almost all scents and i have forgotten to mention that to someone upon arranging a meeting and then ended up sniffling and with a splitting headache throughout the encounter. NOT a good first impression, lol.  Besides my favorite scent is Male....nice clean man.  sometimes sweaty man....or men.....yum.  i don't need a cologne messing with the natural chemistry

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RE: Perfume Protocol - 4/4/2007 3:51:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		I am very picky about scents. There are some that would just totally turn me off immediately and in that list is many heavy perfumes. Especially the musky or fruity ones as they almost make me ill. Very light flowery scents usually are okay. And don't EVEN get anywhere near me with an Avon perfume!

I honestly prefer the smell of soap, deodorant, shampoo and toothpaste.

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RE: Perfume Protocol - 4/4/2007 3:54:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		We actually prefer that they not wear cologne or aftershave - most smell strong enough to throw my allergies into near-crisis and can trigger migraines in Holly.  Clean is good enough for us.

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RE: Perfume Protocol - 4/4/2007 3:59:11 PM   
mp072004


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Status: offline 		No, I don't direct bathing or grooming practices, including scents, of people who haven't entered my service--and when I have my introductory meeting with someone I've met online, I haven't accepted that person's service. Why don't I? There's the principle of not commanding people with whom you haven't negotiated an agreement of obedience, for starters. But there are practical reasons, too: different scents smell different on different people, and while I have scents I like, those scents might smell noxious on someone whose body chemistry didn't complement them. Additionally, the ways people choose to groom and scent themselves offer me clues about them--for this reason, I also don't direct manner of dress. I have asked people to tell me what they intend to wear, but that's for recognition, not evaluation and certainly not for obedience.

But if someone has agreed to obey me, then yes, I'll direct scents and other grooming choices, at least for when the person is in my presence.

Monica

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RE: Perfume Protocol - 4/4/2007 6:10:36 PM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		I give him a few to pick from or if he happens to wear one that I like great. Otherwise he will wear one of the ones that I find pleasing.

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RE: Perfume Protocol - 4/4/2007 6:19:56 PM   
thetammyjo


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Status: offline 		Other than general grooming issues, I don't specify scents.

However, I did get Fox two large bottles of scent from a store years ago -- you chose the types of components you want and they make up an original fragrance for you. I based the scents I selected for him from ones I like for myself -- one common element then something unique for him.

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RE: Perfume Protocol - 4/4/2007 6:39:49 PM   
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Status: offline 		I dont specify scents. I like to be surprised (pleasantly) If they wear a particular one I like, however, I will tell them to wear it again. As long as its not an overbearing scent, or applied too liberally, most mens colognes are okay by me. Just keep it under control!! I don't need to smell ya from 10 feet away!

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RE: Perfume Protocol - 4/4/2007 7:00:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		I am alergic to most perfumes.  I prefer they be clean and beer/smoke free.  I will voice concerns if the perfume is too strong, but we have been together enough to know that I am alergic.

Regards,  MissSCD

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RE: Perfume Protocol - 4/4/2007 7:27:04 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lorelei115

I dont specify scents. I like to be surprised (pleasantly) If they wear a particular one I like, however, I will tell them to wear it again. As long as its not an overbearing scent, or applied too liberally, most mens colognes are okay by me. Just keep it under control!! I don't need to smell ya from 10 feet away!


I like "some" cologne....but I prefer they wear the same one all the time.  What happens is that I associate that scent with them, and it's actually quite a turn on for me - particularly if they're not around and I happen to catch a whiff of that scent.  Mmmmmm....

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RE: Perfume Protocol - 4/4/2007 7:36:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't initially restrict it, no. But if they do show up wearing something that is overpowering or just not pleasent to Me, I will tell them to correct it at the moment by showering, and to no longer wear it in My presence.

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RE: Perfume Protocol - 4/4/2007 8:21:04 PM   
DommeChains


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Status: offline 		Only if the aftershave or cologne contains sandalwood which I am violently allergic to.  Damned difficult to be in charge when I am wheezing and my nose is runny.

Now I love the natural scent of a clean man....or woman.  If they also have a complimentary perfume on then it makes it that much sexier to me.  And the scent can trigger fond memories if I catch a whiff on a passerby.

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RE: Perfume Protocol - 4/4/2007 9:34:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		I prefer none at all.  Freshly showered and cleanly shaven.  No odors, natural or otherwise, that could potentially create an allergic reaction or worse, create a total negative distraction that would end the meeting.  This includes garlic, perfumes, colognes, aftershaves, excessive hair product, etc.  I recall someone writing about a fellow showing up somewhere stinking like curry, like it was coming out of his pores.  That's offensive in a bad way, eh?

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RE: Perfume Protocol - 4/4/2007 10:39:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		OMG I so much miss a man wearing a nice, manly scent. My husband never, ever wore any, even though I occasionally asked him to do it, and neither did my Ex-Dominant. And I just love a good, manly cologne. I realize not all appreciate it, but I just find it to be So sexy.
 
- Susan 

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