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kinkntwist -> Tag Team! (4/4/2007 4:38:26 PM)

I lost a bet, and now have to find 3 (at least somewhat) dominant men to use my submissive, while I direct them...

this is not easy... swingers suck.. Doms do not take directions too well... what is a good approach to find people for this?

Should I find submissive men instead?

many questions...







spanklette -> RE: Tag Team! (4/4/2007 4:39:31 PM)

Um...next time hedge your bet.




domiguy -> RE: Tag Team! (4/4/2007 4:54:52 PM)

Some sort of prison work release program.




spanklette -> RE: Tag Team! (4/4/2007 4:58:57 PM)

Just make sure she doesn't have an aversion to the orange jumpsuits.




mstrjx -> RE: Tag Team! (4/4/2007 5:27:10 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: kinkntwist

Doms do not take directions too well...



I've been in that position before, playing the part of an extra.  The decent ones take direction well enough.  Be choosy.

Jeff




PlayfulOne -> RE: Tag Team! (4/4/2007 5:30:54 PM)

Who said we can't take direction?  You just have to picik the right ones.

K




Griswold -> RE: Tag Team! (4/4/2007 6:20:13 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: kinkntwist

I lost a bet, and now have to find 3 (at least somewhat) dominant men to use my submissive, while I direct them...

this is not easy... swingers suck.. Doms do not take directions too well... what is a good approach to find people for this?

Should I find submissive men instead?

many questions...



Shut the fuck up and get on your knees.

(Said of course, in the most submissive of ways).




MagiksSlave -> RE: Tag Team! (4/4/2007 7:28:46 PM)

WOW you bet your sub.....
that is rather disgusting
I have nothing more to say!!!


Magik's slave




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Tag Team! (4/4/2007 8:28:18 PM)

Doms and tops co-team all the time.

They just might not find it appealing to be used as your pawns in a a wager you couldn't handle.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_579761/mpage_1/key_tops/tm.htm#580009
More than one dom working a scene- can it work?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_452473/mpage_1/key_tops/tm.htm#453338
Two tops colliding




michaels4evr -> RE: Tag Team! (4/4/2007 8:44:55 PM)

If you don't have three friends you trust, I suggest you start by developing some relationships with others. Is there some kind of time constraint on when this must take place? I would think it is your responsibility to ensure the safety of your partner, therefore, take your time and get to know some folks who would respect the parameters of the negotiation. Doms negotiate with each other in co-Topping scenarios as well. I wonder if Michael would make such a bet with me? Naw, I would just ask Him if we could have three Doms join us for a scene if that is what I wanted. Much simpler that way. I could be assuming incorrectly though, that the bet was between you and your submissive...




Devilslilsister -> RE: Tag Team! (4/4/2007 9:42:02 PM)

i think its pretty amusing..  Its got to be humiliating in its own right. 

Nothing like losing a bet......... careful next time you could lose the deed to your house.. your car... and heck... it'd be fun to watch you explain to your sub why she now has a "new" Master. 

Though, it might be better of for her.  Master's running around losing bets.... sheesh.  DEFINETLY a hard limit... ha ha ha ha ha




kinkntwist -> RE: Tag Team! (4/5/2007 3:22:16 AM)

It is all in good fun... exploration and testing limits... no rush ..and far from disgusting cause we are both hot and very horny..
thanks for the input so far..

ohh and  griswold - I would make you her toilet bitch and clean up boy for that crack ..haha




nookie -> RE: Tag Team! (4/5/2007 3:41:14 AM)

What would have happened if you had won?

quote:

ORIGINAL: kinkntwist

I lost a bet, and now have to find 3 (at least somewhat) dominant men to use my submissive, while I direct them...

this is not easy... swingers suck.. Doms do not take directions too well... what is a good approach to find people for this?

Should I find submissive men instead?

many questions...










Elorin -> RE: Tag Team! (4/5/2007 3:58:12 AM)

Find Doms you can trust, and set limits. Since it's all about consensuality, it shouldn't be too horribly difficult.




Dnomyar -> RE: Tag Team! (4/5/2007 4:09:48 AM)

Put her on the street corner. She may as well make some money out of it.




kinkntwist -> RE: Tag Team! (4/5/2007 4:33:20 AM)

Where is a good place to find other "good" doms? We only meet with our group twice a year and our group is nothing short of a big soap opera, where everybody is way too interested in other people's private affairs?

:)




Dnomyar -> RE: Tag Team! (4/5/2007 4:55:43 AM)

kinkntwist in case you havent noticed this whole place is one big soap opera. Someone should write a country song about CM




Mercnbeth -> RE: Tag Team! (4/5/2007 7:12:06 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: kinkntwist
I lost a bet, and now have to find 3 (at least somewhat) dominant men to use my submissive, while I direct them...
this is not easy... swingers suck.. Doms do not take directions too well... what is a good approach to find people for this?
Should I find submissive men instead?
many questions..


You're in Duchess County? Take a road trip weekend to NYC and attend any munch that regularly attends public club functions. You'll be able to arrange 3 or 30 ready willing and able Doms willing to help you out. Start with TES.




onestandingstill -> RE: Tag Team! (4/5/2007 7:56:22 AM)

Get out in your local community.
Find Doms you seem to like in community events & ask them to participate.
If you could go to a dungeon or play party you may find enough you like enough that are willing to play right there at the event.
Lots of Doms you approach will be willing to play with your sub.
Get out and find some men face to face you like enough to offer your sub to IMO would be the best way.

I'd also say next time before you bet something you don't have the ability to do already that you should consider making good on your bet and having the things lined up before it's on the line.
It's like betting money. If you only have five dollars why would you offer to wager fifty if you have no viable means to produce it?
suzanne




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