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Aileen68 -> Blowjobs (4/5/2007 3:39:22 AM)
I very rarely post in this section. I just wondered about something and did a quick search and came up with nothing, so apologies if this has been covered. Do Dommes give blowjobs to their subs? Is it a normal aspect of your relationship? Is it a reward for good behavior? Thanks in advance Ladies.

ClandestinedOne -> RE: Blowjobs (4/5/2007 3:45:02 AM)
Well, just letting everyone know I'm a sub, so if you want to ignore this go right ahead, but... On one of my deeper online relationships (Over a year), my mistress has given me the pleasure of oral sex as a reward. It does usually involve equal reciprocation though.

Aileen68 -> RE: Blowjobs (4/5/2007 3:50:15 AM)
Ooops...I posted this without any morning coffee. Of course anyone can respond. I assumed that "equal reciprocation" was a given based on the dynamics of the relationship. [:)] edited for spelling

ClandestinedOne -> RE: Blowjobs (4/5/2007 3:59:39 AM)
Well, equal reciprocation is not always possible. If I penetrate her vaginally, I don't expect her to screw my urethra. I hope to God she never does that...[:D]

Aileen68 -> RE: Blowjobs (4/5/2007 4:04:25 AM)
By equal reciprocation I meant oral sex...male subs going down on their Dommes.

ClandestinedOne -> RE: Blowjobs (4/5/2007 4:05:40 AM)
I know, I was just trying to be funny. Guess it didn't work to well...heh...

Aileen68 -> RE: Blowjobs (4/5/2007 4:08:55 AM)
lol...see what happens when I don't have any coffee.

ClandestinedOne -> RE: Blowjobs (4/5/2007 4:11:26 AM)
Ooh! I just made some if you want it? What's the fastest UPS can send coffee? (Sorry if I'm being too crazy or off topic here, just so glad to have someone online the same time as me)

solvr70 -> RE: Blowjobs (4/5/2007 6:20:58 AM)
quote: Aileen68 i would think most certainly yes. but as with most things, "it depends" being the key thing. with a gf, that has after the relationship is going, shows a great interest in being Dominant, that would be something i would think would happen. let's not forget that with a blowjob, comes a mouthful of cum, and the opportunity to kiss one's sub and pass the cum back to him...[:)] that was my first exposure to the taste of cum [;)]

petdave -> RE: Blowjobs (4/5/2007 6:37:29 AM)
i can only speak for my own relationship, but the answers would be no, no, and... no [8\|]

Solaise -> RE: Blowjobs (4/5/2007 7:00:24 AM)
He might not want to hold his breath for this one.

SweetDommes -> RE: Blowjobs (4/5/2007 7:07:16 AM)
I do sometimes - but rarely. I will only do it when I want to (of course) and I don't often want to.

thetammyjo -> RE: Blowjobs (4/5/2007 7:09:02 AM)
If I feel like doing oral sex, then I do it. If I feel like getting oral sex, then I do. I don't use sex as a reward because I see that as reinforcing the stereotypes that men are only interested in the sex. I have sex with a slave when we are that close and attracted to each other in a sexual way. I always get orgasms, part of the privilege of being the dom you might say and I always make the decisions about when, where, how and how long.

DianeB269 -> RE: Blowjobs (4/5/2007 7:09:58 AM)
I only give a blowjob to my sub when I'm fisting him or if one of my G/Fs is visiting and using a strapon on him I'll blow him at the sametime. Diane

MstrssPassion -> RE: Blowjobs (4/5/2007 7:21:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen68 I very rarely post in this section. I just wondered about something and did a quick search and came up with nothing, so apologies if this has been covered. Do Dommes give blowjobs to their subs? Is it a normal aspect of your relationship? Is it a reward for good behavior? Thanks in advance Ladies. It has been discussed many times but the keywords used to find these previous discussions pull up many other topics. Here are some links to a couple of threads I found. http://www.collarchat.com/m_70067/mpage_1/key_oral%2Csex/tm.htm http://www.collarchat.com/m_722658/mpage_1/key_Oral+sex+on+a+Sub/tm.htm http://www.collarchat.com/m_533633/mpage_1/key_Oral+sex+on+a+Sub/tm.htm#533707 I'm sure these threads will offer more links to others threads...

MsCfromMelbourne -> RE: Blowjobs (4/5/2007 7:27:02 AM)
I have in the past, but my current submissive does not really enjoy the experience and never has. It is a bit of a myth that men prefer oral to conventional sex (IME with submissive men).

tiserve -> RE: Blowjobs (4/5/2007 7:34:03 AM)
Probably fits in somewhere else, but the ultimate for my fantasy would be having to give one to a male who has just finished having vanilla sex, BB and giving the BJ the same way. Being present, blindfolded, so i would hear, but not see and doing clean-up duty to a second cum would be humiliating and the second cum would take longer so the scene would last longer...

LadyJulieAnn -> RE: Blowjobs (4/5/2007 7:38:40 AM)
I enjoy giving my sub blowjobs. If I choose to, I can use it to tease him or reward him. Be well, Julie

thetammyjo -> RE: Blowjobs (4/5/2007 8:00:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsCfromMelbourne I have in the past, but my current submissive does not really enjoy the experience and never has. It is a bit of a myth that men prefer oral to conventional sex (IME with submissive men). In general there are a lot of myths about male sexuality. Not all men like intercourse. Not all men like oral sex. Not all men like to be the penetrater/inserter during sex. Not all men like hand jobs. Not all men think about sex a lot. Not all men are primarily visually stimulated. I find that anything which just makes a claim about a group can be proven incorrect simply because it is highly unlikely that everyone person in that general group will fit into claim. Human beings are too individual and unique I think.

MsKatHouston -> RE: Blowjobs (4/5/2007 8:02:39 AM)
I do it when I want to. I do not use it as a reward, just when we are having sex or if I'm teasing I'll do it.

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