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Vendaval -> RE: Why does a male feel the need to submit? (4/13/2007 2:47:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CuriousLord You should feel it sometime. The certainty of action. The feeling of unyielding strength. I love the feel of a rock-hard cock pulsing in my hand. The man begging for release. [X(] The deep feeling of hatred. The tendancy to grow annoyed with even typically-negliable sleights. Have you ever been at a buy one pair get the other pair free shoe sale? Same emotions apply there. [:@] This hormone does not force one to be violent. However, when it rushes like this, I, who typically enjoys a great deal of peace, have a deep seeded desire to fight. Like when you get tunnel vision and everything in your line of sight looks blood red? Oh yeah, I know that feeling. [sm=evil.gif] It's passion. It's rage. It's hatred. At times, it's inspiration. It is the inner beast let out to play and torment. [sm=crop.gif] EDIT: It also kills your focus. And your grammar. This is examplified above. That is fine. I don't need to having anyone thinking about spelling and grammar unless they are taking notes. [8\|] Which is not likely during a Scene or a bedroom romp! [sm=trident.gif]

grillo -> RE: Why does a male feel the need to submit? (4/14/2007 9:23:46 AM)
SOARING ON MY KNEES Why i feel the need to submit? i have asked myself this very question for many years. i think the heart of the matter is, for me, that i have always had an innate desire to serve, to please others, often at my own expense. Yet i do not choose to see this as a weakness, as i've known others to do. For me, the joy is in giving, in bringing pleasure and delight to others and doing so with a loving heart. And, i think, i have always gravitated towards serving women since i am male, and the desire to please them is a part of my primal nature. i have had a thrill from this for as long as i can recall, even before i was aware of my sexuality, which means that my submissive nature goes deeper by far. Truly being male does not mean we are big brutes, banging on our chests and watching sports while we guzzle ridiculous amounts of beer! If that was all it meant to be male i would be ashamed to be so. This is an unfortunate stereotype that does not begin to explain the complicated male psyche. i think many of us men have lost touch with what the masculine role is really all about. Some of the greatest poets, composers, dancers, inventors, musicians, playrights, and leaders have been men. We are every bit as passionate as women, we simply deal with those emotions differently. We need to remember that we are emotional beings too and we need connections just as much as women do. At least i know that is true for me at any rate. In completely surrendering control of my universe to Mistress, i find myself gloriously free:) i am free to experience the most intimate of relationships, to be who i truly am in the presence of someone i know values and respects me as i respect and value Her . W/we share our similarities, and explore O/our differences, and together W/we both bring O/one another pleasure and learn. It is, perhaps, the most loving way to be. To see each O/other truly, and to cherish and empower U/us in a way that is more than just non judgemental, it is celebrating the beauty and uniqueness in each of U/us. i think my submission is more about offering my whole being, making a gift of myself. And it is a gift, the most powerful and precious one i can offer. Only by giving myself completely, trusting in Mistress to cherish my heart, am i truly free to be myself, and to see Her for who She is as well. Ultimately it is not about sex, it is about Love. Thank You Mistress for teaching Your boy. Every day i learn from You and i grow in ways i never imagined. i love You Mistress Karamel . My submission is Yours now and always:D Your devoted submissive and loving boy, grillo

newport348 -> RE: Why does a male feel the need to submit? (4/14/2007 4:22:00 PM)
What works for me is this. In taking one step backward by submitting to a dominant female allows ample room for two steps forward in my life. The emotional roller coaster ride is to die for in some session.Society does frown upon a male who is submissive/weak. Yet I find in me the strength and courage to go down that path and still come out on the end of it, all the better for the experience. Newport348 [sm=cool.gif]

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