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Vendaval -> RE: Bi-sexual? (4/13/2007 2:18:09 AM)
General reply - The Kinsey Institute has a wealth of research and information on human sexuality. Try these links for starters - http://www.kinseyinstitute.org/resources/sexlinks.html#SexOrient http://www.kinseyinstitute.org/resources/ak-hhscale.html

Domin8tingUrDrmz -> RE: Bi-sexual? (4/13/2007 2:46:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: yugla Even just talk of it when I was asked and replied ‘ Ahh well I guess if I was forced to at gunpoint” mooted two past relations of mine. Female Domme friends only I know who I have no desire towards other than friends have concurred that making their slave suck off another man was used as a reason to terminate their D/s relation. If they did then perhaps that equated to competition. He can enjoy sex with another man. If they didn’t the sub was labeled as disobedient and let go. It all came down to the mistress; she wanted the power of that head game for her enjoyment. Not all Dommes pose this as a reason to terminate a relationship. Personally, I find two guys together HOT! If I have the opportunity to have a sub comply with this request, I most certainly would NOT terminate the relationship, if anything, I would continue to enjoy the encounters. Communication is vital, correct? If you feel your Mistress is setting you up for failure (using this as an excuse to terminate a relationship), why not discuss this with her? Find out if that is indeed the case. Personally, if I wanted to end a relationship, I would not need an excuse to do so, I'd simply say "you are no longer needed".

subboi3382 -> RE: Bi-sexual? (4/13/2007 3:14:07 AM)
The Kinsey Scale is great, but a little limited, the Klein grid is a better http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Klein_Sexual_Orientation_Grid

Unrepentant1 -> RE: Bi-sexual? (4/13/2007 5:56:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Domin8tingUrDrmz quote: ORIGINAL: yugla Even just talk of it when I was asked and replied ‘ Ahh well I guess if I was forced to at gunpoint” mooted two past relations of mine. Female Domme friends only I know who I have no desire towards other than friends have concurred that making their slave suck off another man was used as a reason to terminate their D/s relation. If they did then perhaps that equated to competition. He can enjoy sex with another man. If they didn’t the sub was labeled as disobedient and let go. It all came down to the mistress; she wanted the power of that head game for her enjoyment. Not all Dommes pose this as a reason to terminate a relationship. Personally, I find two guys together HOT! If I have the opportunity to have a sub comply with this request, I most certainly would NOT terminate the relationship, if anything, I would continue to enjoy the encounters. Communication is vital, correct? If you feel your Mistress is setting you up for failure (using this as an excuse to terminate a relationship), why not discuss this with her? Find out if that is indeed the case. Personally, if I wanted to end a relationship, I would not need an excuse to do so, I'd simply say "you are no longer needed". there appear to be more and more Dommes who like to see men together so there should be no issue exploring this if it is something you desire.

sweetnurseBBW -> RE: Bi-sexual? (4/13/2007 6:29:02 AM)
I knew I was bi way before I knew I was a slave. I experimented with other women. I enjoyed it so I continue to do it. Being bisexual isnt just a BDSM thing. All walks of life, vanilla or otherwise have bi tendencies.

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Bi-sexual? (4/13/2007 11:59:12 AM)
i'm probably the straightest woman ever, Troll. sorry

myobedience -> RE: Bi-sexual? (4/13/2007 12:22:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: servilecat There does of course seem to be a pattern that Dominants seem to prefer their submissives to be bisexual...gee i wonder why [:D] quote: ORIGINAL: yugla I have a question to you. Is this something that your owner, mistress, GF etc wants you to do or do you ask of your own will? OP ~ I know you want men to respond. I would have to tell you my straight exdom did have plenty of fantasies about being sucked and deepthroated by a man. I know he would never have the guts to do it. While still owning me, he grabbed another girl, owned her and demanded she be bi. I do NOT know how anyone, male or female, can demand another be bi except by forcing them to be with same sex for their pleasure. When he opened this topic with me, I told him about my college years and my female lover. Would I consider myself bi? Not really. I loved, truly loved Linda in all the ways I would love a man. So of course my exdom had me find playmates for him and then for us. What many men who want this fantasy of making women be with women dont really understand, is that *some* of us women need to have a deep connection of a very emotional kind to even consider sex with another woman. Sex with a man is just a fuck to me but I cannot just fuck a woman. Tis why I do not consider myself bi. My present Sir knows all of the above. He truly understands my need for a connection to have sex with a woman. The intimacy is very different for me. He says I am not bi and never would present me as his bi submissive to anyone. If I was interestred in pursuing, he would say yes, I know. As to his sexual orientation?? [:)] Such a mystery !

myobedience -> RE: Bi-sexual? (4/13/2007 12:29:48 PM)
This is directly from one profile of a local domme I know~~ My Ideal Person: I am looking for a new subbie boy. He should be willing to truly serve me. I want him to suck a cock for me. He will have to do that for me. He will have to prove he did. Then he will serve me with his tongue and his cock. All of me. Yes, my hot, wet, waiting pussy, but also my ass. With his tongue and his cock. he will serve me from his knees, with a nice red butt. But first he will prove his value to me. Don't write unless you are willing to share a pic. Don't write unless you are willing to meet my special kink first. This woman is truly amazing ! Several big wigs in the city, some married, some not ~~ some as visible as the sun shine breaking through a cloudy in the city have bent to her demand.

Rose4Mistress -> RE: Bi-sexual? (4/13/2007 5:11:27 PM)
I consider myself a lesbian, but I truly believe that not one person is 100% straight or gay. I have kissed and messed around with men, I like to sleep with them (in the same bed, not sexually), and they make great cuddlers. Some probably could please me sexually. I find men interesting to look at, and some are very nice looking indeed. But for the most part, men don't interest me as more than friends. I prefer the look and touch of a woman, and don't have any real desire to be with a man. Do I have bi tendencies? Sure. Will I act on them? Someday, maybe. Or maybe not. I don't know. It is your decision if you will persue your curiousity, or simply leave it alone. I have "straight" female friends, who enjoy watching lesbian porn, reading lesbian erotica, and hanging out with lesbians. But they sleep with men, and have no real desire to ever sexually be with a woman.

slcsub -> RE: Bi-sexual? (4/13/2007 6:20:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: peterK50 I don't classify myself as bisexual, merely sexual. An interesting perspective if I may say so. I like it! Regards, - don

xethnkitten -> RE: Bi-sexual? (4/13/2007 10:50:51 PM)
my advice is to take it one experience at a time. Each experience is different. You learn little things about yourself and your likes and dislikes as time goes on.

ownedkitten -> RE: Bi-sexual? (4/13/2007 11:00:44 PM)
For me what matters in terms of the desire to be intimate is the person, not the gender of the person. I have been with men and women (seperately and together) and find that I enjoyed myself immensely. I happen to share my life with a man and a woman very happily. But that doesn't make it an absolute for everyone, you know? I think the bisexual aspect is present in all people.

servilecat -> RE: Bi-sexual? (4/13/2007 11:14:46 PM)
i have met Dommes that have expressed it as their view that forcing a male slave/sub to engage in bisexuality is an amazing control for Them. i can understand this thinking as possibly pushing some said hard or soft limit. i also truly believe there are people that can consider themselves simply sexual bisexuals just as much as there are people that consider themselves sexual Dominants or sexual submissives. A friend of mine that i had played with in the past refers to it as dogpile bisexuality...if a man was in the pile would it stop him? probably not. He says that if a Domme forced him to do something with a male then he would most likely do it simply for the sexual aspect and nothing more due to his oral fixations.

Vendaval -> RE: Bi-sexual? (4/14/2007 3:00:50 AM)
Thank you for that link, subboi. [:)]

subboi3382 -> RE: Bi-sexual? (4/16/2007 12:38:10 AM)
sure no prob. i would link it from bisexual.org but has been down a while

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