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over seas relationships - 4/5/2007 1:30:12 PM

daejannaO

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i was wondering if overseas relationships ever work.
i have found this Mistress. She and i have found ourselves to be very
compatible except for the distance between us. i live in the USA and she lives in the UK. i have children to think of too.
can anyone help me? i will do all that i can for her.

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RE: over seas relationships - 4/5/2007 1:47:47 PM

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If you're into online cyber relationships then I'd say go for it.
If you plan on traveling there to see her or her to come see you go for it.
If you don't think you want online only and neither you or the lady plan on traveling you have to consider what that means to you both.
God luck with your choices and decisions.
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RE: over seas relationships - 4/5/2007 1:55:11 PM

daejannaO

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thank you so much. we talked in the chatroom and hit it off so well.
i had sent Her a message and haven't heard back from her yet. i believe She
is offline now. i will wait. She called me Her pet and said i was beautiful.
i believe she meant that i was beautiful inside my heart and She wants to remain close friends.

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RE: over seas relationships - 4/5/2007 2:05:00 PM

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There is so much more to consider than compatibility when it comes to attempting, sustaining & moving forward with a relationship over seas.

I attempted it once & it failed but I was able to maintain a friendship that lasts to this day. We had a real time relationship during the time that he was here in the states but he had no intent of ever moving here full time... at least not until after his parents were both deceased. The commitment to his family was something I very much admired but at the same time this prevented us from being able to move forward. I spent this last Thanksgiving with him at his home he has here in Florida with my current partner & children. We had a very wonderful visit & a lot of fun at the Disney Parks.

On the flip side... a very close friend of mine had a relationship with a woman from England. She made a trip over a couple times & eventually she came over with her kids & they got married. I don't think they fully considered the expense & all of the legalities of getting her fully immigrated so that she was able to work. (or considering what has happened she may have planned it all along)He fully supports her, her children & his own. After a short time of marriage marriage she got into that bored housewife syndrome & began screwing around on him while he was hard at work. Because he bonded with the children he can't bring himself to divorcing her & finds himself stuck in a marriage with a openly cheating wife that he financially supports.

Is this the case with every over seas relationship? NO, but this story as well as the one I shared about myself points out that there is so much more to consider than attraction & compatibility.

Homeland security has toughened up. You may want to educate yourself on this before you go too far in the relationship.

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RE: over seas relationships - 4/5/2007 2:36:10 PM

daejannaO

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thank You so much MistressPassion.
i honor Your thoughts.

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RE: over seas relationships - 4/5/2007 3:31:08 PM

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If your looking for a real relationship and can not relocate , forget it! If your into online fantasy you can get your kicks from anyone.

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RE: over seas relationships - 4/6/2007 12:53:04 PM

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All relationships take hard work and commitment, with or without the D/s!

If Y/you two are serious, please make a go of it.

If not, be honest and open with each O/other!

Very sincerely,
Ms. Psyche

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RE: over seas relationships - 4/6/2007 1:09:07 PM

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I think that all really depends upon what your expectations are and if they are congruent with what hers are. If both of you are satisfied with a LDR online, or have the financial wherewithall to deal with intercontinental travel, then go for it.

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