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Suleiman -> RE: Really looking or just there? (4/6/2007 6:50:18 PM)
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ORIGINAL: whisperedsighs
Reading your profile would lead any sub to think that you are looking for instant meet up and relationship. Your profile also implies, ( in my opinion ), "don't waste my time", so by not answering your email, maybe they just don't want to waste their time. You say you won't play phone tag or internet tag, but I know for a fact that many subs use the time spent in email/IM conversations, and phone conversations to get to know someone a little before meeting them in person. Perhaps you should revamp your profile a little. I know the first thing I do when I get an email is look at the person's profile, if they are not a match, depending on how many I have I may or may not answer.
The bit in there towards the end, "If I take the time to write you, please at least have the courtesy to reply, even if it's a "no thank you", keeps bothering me. If I saw that in the profile of someone who had sent an introductory Email to me, I'd probably brush them off too. It's subtle, but it smacks faintly of the "gods gift to submissives" attitude that a lot of dominants seem to suffer from. Oh lordy lordy, massa has come sent me a e-mail! I's better get to replyin real quick now! Seriously - you claim to have seven years real experience. What are you doing whining about lack of responses on a site like this? Go to an event! Go to a munch! Ask one of your friends to hook you up with someone new. If you're that desperate for attention, it does lead one to wonder why you can't get a date in your own town.
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