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RE: For Sadistic Ladies and their subs... - 4/8/2007 4:20:14 PM

LadyPact

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Predictable, yes, but I'd have to say My single tail. I have almost a love affair with that beautiful weapon.

Had to come back and post this one, since I just came back from doing a scene with My play partner. One of the reasons it's My favorite is that it gets the boy to know his real limits every time. So far, no one has been a match for it.

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RE: For Sadistic Ladies and their subs... - 4/9/2007 11:17:16 AM

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i wanna be you slave

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RE: For Sadistic Ladies and their subs... - 4/9/2007 11:24:43 AM

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If you really want to hurt your sub then ignore him, it will be torture! The mental scars cut much deeper.

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RE: For Sadistic Ladies and their subs... - 4/9/2007 11:24:57 AM

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plz make me your slave. i am a good looking male sub

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RE: For Sadistic Ladies and their subs... - 4/9/2007 5:27:04 PM

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Thanks everyone for your juicy replies!

I agree with you Unrepentant1...when I ignore the boy it kills him. That is the only true way to really hurt him as he is a masochist. I reserve that punishment for when he's been REALLY bad.

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RE: For Sadistic Ladies and their subs... - 4/9/2007 5:36:45 PM

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My fingernails. For both my subhub and myself, the intimacy of inflicting pain with my own body is head and shoulders above any other toy.

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RE: For Sadistic Ladies and their subs... - 4/10/2007 12:16:49 PM

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i find most people cant live without a mind, but i have have met a few with no brain cells! sorry if this offends anyone but it just struck me as odd

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RE: For Sadistic Ladies and their subs... - 4/10/2007 12:54:07 PM

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I cannot live without my Mistress.

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RE: For Sadistic Ladies and their subs... - 4/10/2007 2:13:50 PM

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One of my favorite toys is called a "heater" - I'm not sure the guy I got it off of makes toys anymore. It's an oak handle with a thick leather strap about 8 inches by 1 1/2 inches riveted into it. (I also have a version made with heavy rubber). It doesn't look like much but it is NASTY in a really great way.

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RE: For Sadistic Ladies and their subs... - 4/10/2007 4:34:57 PM

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Regarding whips, if you don't mind my input. First thing I suggest is always using a leather hood or mask on your "victim." So many Dom's don't use one and it only takes one mistake, which you'll have many of, to put out an eye for life. Don't forget, that whip is traveling at the speed of sound if you hear it crack. Besides, it looks so cool whipping someone in a mask or hood, chained with arms up over their head. Then I suggest, in the beginning to have them wear a leather thong. Of course at some point you probably don't want to miss a little genital whipping but at first while learning how hard to whip you would protect those precious jewels. And, a leather collar protects the throat. Everything else is an open target. If you first just start throwing the whip in a light wrapping fashion you will find how delicious it is to hear the popper smack the skin as it circles say the waist or chest and thighs. If you just take your time and relax it is quite easy to begin like that. I much prefer seeing a 10 foot bullwhip wrap twice all the way around a chest, thighs, waist and leave a lovely long mark than to see the little "flick" marks from straight on whipping. But that's my personal turn on, long sexy marks. As you get better and more accurate you can increase the force behind the whip and 5 to 10 well placed severe throws is all it takes to be walking in the clouds, if you know what I mean

Of course always, always be SSC. Whips are not in the same league as anything else. And, the longer they are, the less it hurts....contrary to what people would think. There's a longer amount of time for the energy behind it to dissipate as it circles around in a wrap. The short little mother's are the meanest. I could talk about whips all night. Ms Bee...

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RE: For Sadistic Ladies and their subs... - 4/10/2007 4:54:55 PM

MissDiscipline

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MsBee , I agree. Hoods are a very good at protecting eyes.

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RE: For Sadistic Ladies and their subs... - 4/16/2007 4:16:40 PM

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Thanks for your input...

But that is one of the reasons why I don't use whips! An uncontrolled hand or one with lack of practice can lay in damage that can not be repaired. Plus I hate em... the idea of a whip just conjures up all sorts of bad images for Me. I'd rather use a flogger/paddle/cane. Just My preference - I'm totally not flaming!!

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RE: For Sadistic Ladies and their subs... - 4/16/2007 4:34:39 PM

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Woah...

After reading this thread, I think I'll be avoiding play with any self-described sadists.

To the ladies who posted here, do you use the above tools/techniques for play or only for punishment? If for play, I should hate to think what a punishment would be like.

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RE: For Sadistic Ladies and their subs... - 4/16/2007 4:39:40 PM

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I use them for play. The boy is a masochist so the pain translates to pleasure for him...MOST of the time.

He absolutey hates it when I drive a mack truck over his balls tho.

Mwuahahahahahahaa!
~Kara

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RE: For Sadistic Ladies and their subs... - 4/16/2007 11:21:21 PM

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Nope, I've never whipped anyone for punishment. My best whipping scenes are only done with those who understand the passion behind it and seek that.

Ms B ~

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RE: For Sadistic Ladies and their subs... - 4/16/2007 11:49:10 PM

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I have so many toys I love but the first would be My mind. The next I would have to say is My voice. While physically there may be a bit of discomfort perhaps even pain from various items I use but the psychological effects from My whispers within the scene are wonderful. Oh yes a wonderful mind fuck. Of course since we are speaking of a physical item I would have to say My bondage gear. More than I item I know but I just can't pick one item. MsPatty

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RE: For Sadistic Ladies and their subs... - 4/17/2007 12:10:54 AM

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I would have to go with my sick and twisted brain. As long as I have that then any handy item can become an instrument of torture.

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RE: For Sadistic Ladies and their subs... - 4/17/2007 1:31:21 AM

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If you really want to hurt your sub then ignore him, it will be torture! The mental scars cut much deeper.

On a personal, softer note..... Never do. When I have a boy, he's too importatnt to Me. I may get angry, and not speak to him until that passes, but if he's really Mine, he's always with Me in some form.

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RE: For Sadistic Ladies and their subs... - 4/17/2007 8:06:25 AM

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My unbreakable canes...heavy flogger....

OHHH and alligator clips...use them for CBT...the little tiny mean ones...

You punish a masochist by saying NO I WON"T PLAY YOU...

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RE: For Sadistic Ladies and their subs... - 4/17/2007 10:04:36 AM

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My masochist!

Apart from that it would be in this order

1. single tail snake
2. medical kit
3.suspension rig
4. shark hooks

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