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dovemagic -> How do I list this (4/17/2005 8:22:49 AM)

I am not sure how to put it in a profile and doesn't seem to fit in all the different things I have filled out but I happen to adore felattio. I actually joined the scene as a Domme just because I liked that aspect; but found I hate being in charge and am really not good at it. I do like men's cocks, but there is no listing for cockworship. CBT gives the wrong impression and this is part of my services, not eben the main one and I am not looking to do it with every male that comes along, this is for MY Dom, when I get one; but I would like him to know it will be there.



BobcatsLilMinx -> RE: How do I list this (4/17/2005 9:01:00 AM)

I would just write it in the written part of your profile, sort of like that: that you love it, but there is no listing for cockworship.

Anyone who reads this post now may go seek out your profile, of course :) So thats a potential solution!

Or you could just leave it as an extremely pleasant surprise for your new Master... *winks*

Minx



Focus50 -> RE: How do I list this (4/17/2005 3:53:20 PM)

Highlighting such a personal activity in your profile can send the wrong message to the wrong people. As you say, this is for *your* Dom so why not wait until you meet someone with that potential first?

If the subs I've known are any guide then most subs enjoy what I refer to as oral service - you are not alone on this. From a Dominant's perspective, I'd say giving one's naked, bound and kneeling sub a thorough oral "rogering" is arguably the most physically dominant act one can do to/with a submissive. And from the feedback I've had, they'd agree. I refer to it as "oral service" because it's not always a sexual act - ie cumming is not the purpose, the reinforcement of our respective Dominant-submissive station is.

IMO, you should do things in the right order - find YOUR Dominant first, then get into personal intimacies. Otherwise, you're just gonna attract even more Net geeks than the average fem/sub already does....

Focus50.



BlkTallFullfig -> RE: How do I list this (4/17/2005 8:21:29 PM)

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ORIGINAL: dovemagic
I happen to adore felattio. I actually joined the scene as a Domme just because I liked that aspect; but found I hate being in charge and am really not good at it. I do like men's cocks, but there is no listing for cockworship.

I'm going to go out on a limb and say it's probably not even necessary to list, because any Dom you contact who is at all interested in sex will love fellatio, so you as a sub better love it too or learn to... So you could put it on profile, but... In fact I don't gamble, but here I would.

I haven't met all men, and am not talking about submissive men (since they have tended to surprise me sometimes), but I've never heard of or talked to a man who didn't like cock worship... LMAO... Only on these boards. M



Kinkypupper -> RE: How do I list this (4/17/2005 9:59:53 PM)

Just be yourself..
As far as that "particular" talent you will find its not uncommon at all and I suggest you do not worry about it.



Chilli -> RE: How do I list this (4/18/2005 10:58:37 PM)

Agreed. I am certain this is a highly desirable attribute and not one to be hidden behind labels



chainedgirl -> RE: How do I list this (4/19/2005 3:46:27 AM)

Dove,

you don't need to mention it at all. Any Dom that you get involved with in a sexual capacity will expect to be serviced this way anyway, so why go to all the bother of stating the obvious?



BeachMystress -> RE: How do I list this (4/19/2005 7:42:11 AM)


*grins* you now have all the "blowjob dom" as my sub friend calls them, on the way to your profile. A blowjob dom is someone (she says) who only wants you to suck their cock. They'll maybe swat your butt a few times, but their main focus is to get their cock sucked.. usually because the wife won't do it at home. Unless you're not interested in other forms of D/s as well, putting this bit of information in your profile might lead to you getting tons of mail from those blow job dom. If you just want to give blow jobs, there are easier places to look for partners.

Maybe add cock worship to the text part your profile if you really feel the need to list something? It is a tiny bit less likely to incite massive troll rush since most of them aren't quite sure what it means.

You definitely don't want to list CBT on your profile if you hope to attract a Dom. Most of them wince, cross their legs and move away when someone says that acronym.



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