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Are There Too Many Widowers? - 4/7/2007 2:48:08 PM   
pinksugarsub


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Status: offline 		Maybe it's just me but lately it seems i'm inundated with profiles and emails from Men who claim to widowers or to have lost Their subbie/slave in death.  This strains credulity and if it is not true, it seems to me to be sleazy thing to do.
 
A/anyone have an opinion?

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RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? - 4/7/2007 2:51:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		We see alot of subs/slaves who have lost their Dom/Masters to death. It seems that BDSM is cursed anyone who is interested in the lifestyle is DOOMED!!! lol I wonder where they all come from all of these people who have lost their Dom or sub?

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RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? - 4/7/2007 2:51:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		I get a lot of messages from men 20+ years my senior. Now if you are getting messages from men 20+ years your senior then i can see that the chances are just from age that they may well be widowers.

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RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? - 4/7/2007 2:55:45 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		I believe in what has been told to me, until it is proven false, or their stories become too inconsistent..One can not maintain a lie for long especially if you are establishing a relationship. Usually if lying, it cannot be maintained, no matter how long, it will eventually come out..When it is the truth you do not have to ever remember what has been said, for you have lived it, experienced it, and the facts will never change.When a lie, then ultimately the story in one way or another does change and hence raises a red flag or ones suspicions...That is why it is always best to simply lay your cards out on the table and await the ultimate verdict of pass or continue..:0)..Tempting

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RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? - 4/7/2007 2:57:17 PM   
TxBlkMistress


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ORIGINAL: bayboundse

We see alot of subs/slaves who have lost their Dom/Masters to death. It seems that BDSM is cursed anyone who is interested in the lifestyle is DOOMED!!! lol I wonder where they all come from all of these people who have lost their Dom or sub?


I totally agree.  I've noticed this, but I thought it was just my imagination.  I've talked to a lot of young men (late 20's , 30's, etc) and their Dommes have usually died.  Now me being an avid watcher of America's Most Wanted starts to get a little leery....did they bump these people off?.....LOL

Mainly, I think they are just worried that you will ask for some kind of reference from their last Domme, and, well, you can't talk to the dead...not without a Oujia board any way...lol

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RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? - 4/7/2007 2:57:40 PM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		Well heck, I am older too, and still alive.  Statistically women outlive men, but I too have noticed that many of the men contacting me have lost their subs to death.
Should I be nervous? 
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RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? - 4/7/2007 3:02:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		I wonder if they are the same ones who write to me & say it was their Mistress that died?

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RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? - 4/7/2007 3:04:44 PM   
MstrssPassion


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ORIGINAL: bayboundse

We see alot of subs/slaves who have lost their Dom/Masters to death. It seems that BDSM is cursed anyone who is interested in the lifestyle is DOOMED!!! lol I wonder where they all come from all of these people who have lost their Dom or sub?


I wonder if they will start denying us access to health &/or life insurance if they are aware that we are kinky doms & subs...??

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RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? - 4/7/2007 3:09:25 PM   
curvyslavegirl


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Status: offline 		 This is a trend i've noticed too. Perhaps some "Masters" just can't handle the idea of saying "i once had a slave and it didn't work out so she left me".

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RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? - 4/7/2007 3:13:12 PM   
bayboundse


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Status: offline 		Imagine filling out Insurance questionaires 1) are you in the BDSM lifestyle?

if you answered yes then you are denied!!

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RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? - 4/7/2007 3:17:41 PM   
pinksugarsub


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Status: offline 		Personally i think for Every Dom or Master (or subby or slave) who claims T/they lost T/their O/one in death, about 90% are married and this is T/their best lie.  i still think it's onna the most repugnant lies a Man (or woman) can tell.
 
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RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? - 4/7/2007 3:31:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		this is a interesting observation, i have to say i have noticed this too, now some forlks are older, and that does make sense sinse many folks get involved in thier forties and fifties, and a lot of dominant have motorcycles and i know that they are dangerous, but i wounder if maybe more then a small number of them are poof subs, and no one wants to admit it?

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RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? - 4/7/2007 3:33:26 PM   
dawntreader


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ORIGINAL: TxBlkMistress


I totally agree.  I've noticed this, but I thought it was just my imagination.  I've talked to a lot of young men (late 20's , 30's, etc) and their Dommes have usually died.  Now me being an avid watcher of America's Most Wanted starts to get a little leery....did they bump these people off?.....LOL

Mainly, I think they are just worried that you will ask for some kind of reference from their last Domme, and, well, you can't talk to the dead...not without a Oujia board any way...lol


ROFL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i agree though - i would start getting leary and wonder if a certain "activity" might have been the cause of death!!

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RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? - 4/7/2007 3:41:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		Just a question- are you a new incarnation of:

candystripper
pink20nails
shyster
fillepink
pinkpleasures
deliciouspink

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RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? - 4/7/2007 3:49:38 PM   
KnightofMists


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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Just a question- are you a new incarnation of:

candystripper
pink20nails
shyster
fillepink
pinkpleasures
deliciouspink


I am sure that there will be another nick in the near future... especially with being inundated with these sleazy widowers

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RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? - 4/7/2007 4:22:59 PM   
MstrssPassion


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Status: offline 		kind of obvious since she once insisted on using this very same writing style when the majority said it was rather taxing on the eyes

{edited to add} just looked at the profile... doesn't look like the other gal

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RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? - 4/7/2007 4:40:07 PM   
happypervert


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KnightofMists
quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Just a question- are you a new incarnation of:

candystripper
pink20nails
shyster
fillepink
pinkpleasures
deliciouspink


I am sure that there will be another nick in the near future... especially with being inundated with these sleazy widowers

I'm hoping the next nick is pinkpeptobismolsub -- it will remind me to get something like that to settle my stomach after I see that font.


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RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? - 4/7/2007 4:49:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: happypervert

it will remind me to get something like that to settle my stomach after I see that font.


it's usually the words that do me in

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RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? - 4/7/2007 5:57:56 PM   
kc692


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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Just a question- are you a new incarnation of:

candystripper
pink20nails
shyster
fillepink
pinkpleasures
deliciouspink


Did the font give it away?

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RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? - 4/7/2007 6:26:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		i have not run into a great deal of them.

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