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Femdoms, Femsubs, strapons and anal - 4/7/2007 4:04:11 PM   
Aubre


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From a curious person - the dynamic of a Femdom taking a femsub with a strap-on anally is interesting. There is no prostate to be massaged - no direct physical genital stimulation for the Femdom unless she's using a Nexus/Feeldoe or something else I don't know about. This scenario seems to be all about submission and power. Does it occur often in this type of play dynamic? How do the participants feel about it?

From a strictly voyeuristic standpoint, I find it hot.
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RE: Femdoms, Femsubs, strapons and anal - 4/7/2007 4:04:57 PM   
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are you male?

ok, I checked your profile... you are.

You are thinking of sex from a male's perspective.

Lesbian sex is something you will most likely never comprehend simply because you are male. The best way I can describe this would be that woman tend to share more with women emotionally & mentally. This isn't saying that we don't enjoy the physical.

But I have told men over & over & over again that men are actually better designed to receive pleasurable stimulus from anal penetration. (glad to see you actually understand this) When women respond to a males during anal it is not necessarily a physical response. She is most likely responding to many more factors because she simply doesn't have the same receptors there that men have.

Now as to whether this happens often or how many women engage in anal sex with each other.... hmmm I can't say that there has ever been a strong urge on my part to do this. I have two other holes that I can fill & those seem to be just fine & have them respond in desirable ways. I suppose if she told me that she wanted to have her ass f*cked then it would happen.

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RE: Femdoms, Femsubs, strapons and anal - 4/7/2007 4:26:44 PM   
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quote:

From a curious person - the dynamic of a Femdom taking a femsub with a strap-on anally is interesting. There is no prostate to be massaged - no direct physical genital stimulation for the Femdom unless she's using a Nexus/Feeldoe or something else I don't know about. This scenario seems to be all about submission and power. Does it occur often in this type of play dynamic? How do the participants feel about it?

From a strictly voyeuristic standpoint, I find it hot.


spoken like a dude....

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RE: Femdoms, Femsubs, strapons and anal - 4/7/2007 4:29:14 PM   
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lol

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RE: Femdoms, Femsubs, strapons and anal - 4/7/2007 4:44:25 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MstrssPassion

Lesbian sex is something you will most likely never comprehend simply because you are male. The best way I can describe this would be that woman tend to share more with women emotionally & mentally. This isn't saying that we don't enjoy the physical.

But I have told men over & over & over again that men are actually better designed to receive pleasurable stimulus from anal penetration. (glad to see you actually understand this) When women respond to a males during anal it is not necessarily a physical response. She is most likely responding to many more factors because she simply doesn't have the same receptors there that men have.

Now as to whether this happens often or how many women engage in anal sex with each other.... hmmm I can't say that there has ever been a strong urge on my part to do this. I have two other holes that I can fill & those seem to be just fine & have them respond in desirable ways. I suppose if she told me that she wanted to have her ass f*cked then it would happen.


Speaking strictly for myself, i derive a great deal of physical pleasure from anal sex.  Having had both sexes as partners in the past, i have not noticed a great deal of difference in the physical aspects of it (read: i have had tremendous orgasms from anal sex with partners of both sexes).  How i respond to a Dominant has more to do with the Dominant in question and not whether the dominant is female or male or which orifice they happen to be using.

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RE: Femdoms, Femsubs, strapons and anal - 4/7/2007 4:48:53 PM   
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Well - I never said I wasn't a dude :P

I never claimed to understand it, I just wanted to learn about it. Even though it isn't something that I would participate in because of my gender, I wanted to broaden my horizons and knowledge.

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RE: Femdoms, Femsubs, strapons and anal - 4/7/2007 4:53:43 PM   
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     I have no need to analyze this activity by any scientific measure, though I have no objection to getting a closer look.  It's HOT!!!  That's enough.

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RE: Femdoms, Femsubs, strapons and anal - 4/7/2007 5:20:31 PM   
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ORIGINAL: glycerine
Speaking strictly for myself, i derive a great deal of physical pleasure from anal sex.  Having had both sexes as partners in the past, i have not noticed a great deal of difference in the physical aspects of it (read: i have had tremendous orgasms from anal sex with partners of both sexes).  How i respond to a Dominant has more to do with the Dominant in question and not whether the dominant is female or male or which orifice they happen to be using.


maybe you perceive it as strictly physical when in fact it is a combination of physical, mental & emotional.... often it is really hard to determine what exactly is responsible for creating a woman's rapture... there are so many contributing factors going on all at once.

it is a fact that woman lack the one thing that is attributed to the pleasurable anal experience.... the prostate... the woman's g-spot is located in/near the vagina

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RE: Femdoms, Femsubs, strapons and anal - 4/7/2007 5:39:07 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MstrssPassion

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ORIGINAL: glycerine
Speaking strictly for myself, i derive a great deal of physical pleasure from anal sex.  Having had both sexes as partners in the past, i have not noticed a great deal of difference in the physical aspects of it (read: i have had tremendous orgasms from anal sex with partners of both sexes).  How i respond to a Dominant has more to do with the Dominant in question and not whether the dominant is female or male or which orifice they happen to be using.


maybe you perceive it as strictly physical when in fact it is a combination of physical, mental & emotional.... often it is really hard to determine what exactly is responsible for creating a woman's rapture... there are so many contributing factors going on all at once.

it is a fact that woman lack the one thing that is attributed to the pleasurable anal experience.... the prostate... the woman's g-spot is located in/near the vagina


Um, no...no, it just feels really REALLY good on its own...prostate or no! lol  There's a tremendous amount of nerve endings in that area, no special gland required.  If you dont think so, perhaps you arent doing it quite right?  Or maybe everyone is just different.

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RE: Femdoms, Femsubs, strapons and anal - 4/7/2007 5:53:40 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mythi

Um, no...no, it just feels really REALLY good on its own...prostate or no! lol  There's a tremendous amount of nerve endings in that area, no special gland required.  If you dont think so, perhaps you arent doing it quite right?  Or maybe everyone is just different.


lol, i agree.  Just because i lack a prostate does not mean that anal sex is not pleasurable.  Yes my g-spot is in my vagina, but as mythi says there are so many nerve endings around my perianal area that i don't really need the prostate to enjoy anal sex. 

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RE: Femdoms, Femsubs, strapons and anal - 4/7/2007 8:03:23 PM   
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Doctors point to a pink colored chart on the wall and "discover" the prostate, and "discover" the Gspot and apparently need both hands to "discover" their own asses.

Meanwhile people (and other primates) have been enjoying fucking each other up the ass for a million years without the benefit of medical terminology. Just this dudes unscientific impromptu survey with admittedly flawed sampling but I know some women PERSONALLY who orgasm from anal penetration.

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