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Dom Males with sub males - 4/8/2007 8:56:49 AM   
iwearpanties


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Status: offline 		may i ask do any of you Male Doms here every take on a sub male or a sub couple ????
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RE: Dom Males with sub males - 4/8/2007 9:06:34 AM   
Domin8uNY


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Status: offline 		No, in the history of BDSM and collarme, no dominant male has ever had a sub male or couple.


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RE: Dom Males with sub males - 4/8/2007 2:30:06 PM   
Celeste43


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Status: offline 		Actually, that's often the first recommendation if a monogamous dom is with someone who can't play hard enough. By having a straight dom play with male subs, it is guaranteed not to be sexual, and not to involve risking the emotional intimacy of the primary pair. It is just about the play within prearranged limits.

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RE: Dom Males with sub males - 4/8/2007 3:27:27 PM   
SimplyMichael


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Status: offline 		If I found the right man, I would love to take on a male submissive on a service/training basis.  He would have to be intelligent, not sissy nor the other extreme of the muscle bound jock  Something along the lines of a valet.

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RE: Dom Males with sub males - 4/8/2007 3:32:35 PM   
BOUNTYHUNTER


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Status: offline 		A sub couple yes and a male slave if he fits both our needs..bounty

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RE: Dom Males with sub males - 4/8/2007 3:32:41 PM   
houseslave


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Status: offline 		as a sub male searing for a situation with a Dom Straight Male i can attest that it's very hard to find...

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RE: Dom Males with sub males - 4/8/2007 10:44:34 PM   
Elorin


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From: San Antonio, TX
Status: offline 		Daddy would be willing to share a male with me, but BDSM is very sexual for Daddy, so he isn't interested in owning a male on his own. He does, however, play with boys at parties. I like to watch, as it's just a different facet I don't get to see very often. Sir becomes very focused and it is very intently about sadism and experience, and much less playful than when he plays with women.

On the other hand, we met a lovely male-male couple this weekend at a memorial. Now, they were gay, which really is not what I think the OP is asking about, but I do know LOTS of male male couples.

~E

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RE: Dom Males with sub males - 4/9/2007 2:10:52 AM   
iwearpanties


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Status: offline 		thank you all for your responces ... and as a str8 male yes i was thinking in trems of no sex but serving as sub for spankings ,verbal and bondage .  and yes its very very tuff too find any who will play witha sub couple as well .. maybe were looking in the wrong place...

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RE: Dom Males with sub males - 4/9/2007 4:40:19 AM   
Elorin


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Status: offline 		I had a couple contact me and was delighted to work with a sub couple. They were not at all interested in playing with Sir, but they met him and enjoyed the thought of him showing techniques on my body (so they could both watch at the same time) before either of them felt it.

I think Sir and I would enjoy working with a sub couple, no matter the gender combinations, but the couple would have to accept Sir and I as a Dom/Domme couple for primary roles, and still be able to handle watching me submit and serve. Couples have a lot of potential. ~smiles~

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RE: Dom Males with sub males - 4/9/2007 4:50:22 PM   
iwearpanties


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Status: offline 		Elorin   

you sound like a funn person too be with .. if you had a sub couplre do you have any ideas on how to handle them??   i guess im asking would they be equals as subs or would the female be high on the sub food chain then the male ?????

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RE: Dom Males with sub males - 4/9/2007 5:30:21 PM   
BRNaughtyAngel


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Status: offline 		Your profile says you are a male slave, so if you are really a sub couple, you should do one that indicates that.  There are dominants who may seek a sub/sub couple, but not a male slave.


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RE: Dom Males with sub males - 4/9/2007 7:18:58 PM   
Elorin


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quote:

ORIGINAL: iwearpanties
you sound like a funn person too be with .. if you had a sub couplre do you have any ideas on how to handle them??   i guess im asking would they be equals as subs or would the female be high on the sub food chain then the male ?????

I have lots of ideas on how to handle a sub couple. Whether the subs would be treated as equals or in a heirarchy would depend upon how their relationship worked at home, and how well they worked with Sir and I.
For instance, the couple I'm going to be training, she is a bottom and wants to be a student, I'm mentoring her, but to him, she is all Domme. He is a sub and wants me to show him new play things, and show her how to do things to him. So in the heirarchy, she will defer to me, and he will defer to us both. His obedience will be to his wife first (the longer lasting relationship) and me second, except in situations where I have stated that I need to be the first voice obeyed.

~E

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RE: Dom Males with sub males - 4/10/2007 1:39:16 PM   
peterK50


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Status: offline 		I enjoy serving male Doms & Dom-Domme couples. It happens quite a bit.

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RE: Dom Males with sub males - 4/10/2007 2:00:51 PM   
LadyIce


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Status: offline 		I am sure being bisexual is a big plug, I meant plus also.

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RE: Dom Males with sub males - 4/10/2007 2:11:59 PM   
peterK50


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Status: offline 		Not as much as being obedient LadyIce Ma'am

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RE: Dom Males with sub males - 4/10/2007 6:05:10 PM   
Suleiman


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Status: offline 		I have, but as I understand it, it's pretty rare on this site. I used to get one or two HNGs a week until I rearranged my profile a little. Several folks complained to me that there were never enough gay or bi men here. Normally, I'd offer up a link to someplace a little more germain, but since guys aren't my first preference, I'm afraid I haven't got any handy links. Sorry.

(Post-edit) that's what I get for not reading further down. Hmmm... Het-on-het is probably even less common, but you have to keep in mind that the majority of domini with a profile here wouldn't know what to do with a sub if one bit them on the ass (or even politely asked to bite them). You've got a long weary search in front of you, but that'd be true no matter what your preference or orientation.

< Message edited by Suleiman -- 4/10/2007 6:10:19 PM >

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RE: Dom Males with sub males - 4/10/2007 6:54:17 PM   
HoustonDave


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Status: offline 		I am starting my own thread, and I would appreciate any Doms that would be willing to share experiences and advice with me.
Thanks

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