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finding the edge - 4/8/2007 4:41:01 PM   
goodandplenty


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Status: offline 		Greetings-Tal to all,  while I am being to think one must be a masocist to ask a question on here I press forward my battle to learn.   The difference between a session being magic, a bore or a nightmare is really in the details as we all know.  I am interested in that finest of details, where many subs seem most to want to have pushed streched or a dozen other adverbs but not broken thier edge.  Seek any and all opinions doms subs and especially swithches views on the very edge of life sessions to please give their insights. Thank you
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RE: finding the edge - 4/8/2007 4:45:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		Many do feel that way. Personally, for me, take me over that edge. Just be there for me afterwards so that I can find my way back to safe ground again. Once over the edge, it's not an edge anymore. It's not the edge that bothers me so much as someone not being there once he's taken me over it to deal with the consequences of the edge. Thankfully, I have someone in my life who manages it all.

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RE: finding the edge - 4/8/2007 5:08:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		I agree with Juliet, take me over the edge.  He's always there on the other side, it's just that sometimes he waits, to see with I do with where I am.  That's where my growth occurs.

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RE: finding the edge - 4/8/2007 5:28:13 PM   
goodandplenty


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Status: offline 		I like to know as much detail a possible was there begging? pleading? eroticcomatosecognation? lenght of session, relationship< strange invioronment  bound< unbound, details finest of points.

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RE: finding the edge - 4/8/2007 5:30:52 PM   
Celeste43


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Status: offline 		It's about communication, him knowing where I am, how well grounded I am that day. And him paying total attention to me so he can sense in a nanosecond if things are going bad. His focus is essential.

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RE: finding the edge - 4/8/2007 6:10:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm actually not sure if I'm following what the question is....

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RE: finding the edge - 4/8/2007 6:19:22 PM   
ownedgirlie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

I'm actually not sure if I'm following what the question is....

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I think she is saying that many people have been pushed or stretched, but have not ventured over what they would consider their edge.  And she's wanting to know who has, and all the details surrounding it.

I have said that I have gone over the edge for him, and have grown from it.  But I won't post details to such intimate interactions with him; that's not something for a message board.

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RE: finding the edge - 4/8/2007 6:37:41 PM   
MasterFireMaam


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

I'm actually not sure if I'm following what the question is....

Master Fire



I think she is saying that many people have been pushed or stretched, but have not ventured over what they would consider their edge.  And she's wanting to know who has, and all the details surrounding it.

I have said that I have gone over the edge for him, and have grown from it.  But I won't post details to such intimate interactions with him; that's not something for a message board.


Oh! Ha! Orgasms that make me have visions and speak in tongues. That would be over the edge. *chuckle* The way I usually get there are several (hopefully lots) of small orgasms from different stimulation...then "the big one" from g-spot (their fingers usually) + clitoral (my fingers usually)...and not stopping until the orgasm is totally over (which can take several minutes)...then removing their fingers VERY slowly...and continuing to touch me when the energy orgasms hit.

Those kinds of details? LOL

Damn, seems like a whole hell of a lot of people should know how to do me by now...so how come I haven't gotten any in like a week??? *grumble*

Master Fire

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RE: finding the edge - 4/8/2007 7:39:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		Aren't you the sub that took a few extra whacks after saying your safe word? I believe you are.... Is that what you are referencing as far as pushing the edge?


So how is Fusion?

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RE: finding the edge - 4/8/2007 8:11:52 PM   
MasterFireMaam


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ORIGINAL: domiguy

Aren't you the sub that took a few extra whacks after saying your safe word? I believe you are.... Is that what you are referencing as far as pushing the edge?


So how is Fusion?


Ummm...I assume this wasn't to me?

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RE: finding the edge - 4/8/2007 8:29:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		Oh I don't know, if I owned a slave I might make her clean up the house once in a while.  Really impresses the other big kids.

As for edge play, what makes it hot or not is the ability to fucking terrify her or drive her insane with lust or whatever all while ensuring there is enough light in the darkness and enough darkness in the light.

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RE: finding the edge - 4/8/2007 8:59:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		i am guessing that the edge you speak is orgasm related....and yes there are a plethora of tools and techniques that can make me have a wall-melter....but the secret ingredient for the penultimate bleeding edge, if you ask me, is intimacy...in to me see.

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RE: finding the edge - 4/8/2007 10:03:47 PM   
WhiplashSmile


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Status: offline 		I would assume the edge here is an extreme in a scene.  Any extreme be it prolonged orgasm, use or whatever.  The masochist it may be how long then can endure pain, or pehaps the intensity of pain.  For the sadist inside folks it may be how much pain/torment they feel comfortable in giving.  Orgasm control can be an edge.  So many things can be an edge.  Even in how extreme how words can become or used.  Hell, lets take simple paper clip and explore the edge of what one can really do with it.   Acting out a rape/forced sex scene, how extreme can one go with this.   Playing with TENS units, how extreme or what edges can be pushed there as well.   Some people do activities in a light weight manner, and slowly push or work up to the edges.  Sooner or later everbody explores the edge. The thing is what happens when one reaches the edge, the mental and physical challenges they are faced with. 

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RE: finding the edge - 4/8/2007 10:50:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		I can say in my own experience, when we're talking healthy positive play, I've never gone over the edge alone- on either side of the slash.

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RE: finding the edge - 4/9/2007 5:32:19 AM   
justinedoll


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Status: offline 		In my opinion sub and maso people have some levels of limists and edges.
form easy just causing feeling ashamed and little discomfort until some unbrakable.
Some broken can cause depression or need medical intervention. Sexaul and emotional extasy, alcohol, and drugs,  during session can strech and change how we look at our limits.


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