canupleaseme
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Mzmia Apology accepted. It is sometimes hard to choose the right words to describe things on here becasue people interpret things so differently.
My boy had done everything for me in the time we are playing. I am certainly so proud and happy of how he did as he was told and so obviously gave it his best. I have him in chastity all the time he isnt with me, orgasm denial is one of our favourite pastimes :) so at the end of the session when I did allow him a realise it was becasue at that moment in time it felt the perfect thing to do next. I only let him have free reign of MY cock on public bank holidays  !! So I am happy with how he kept himself in check the whole time, and it hasnt really been about him actually cumming more his behaviour after.
I think the reason it crashed down for me so quickly is becasue well as Jasmyn pointed out it was a poor excuse. I am well aware that when men cum they may get tired etc but to say its because they feel less submissive is just silly. And to be honest i think it hurt me because it doesnt just stop becasue he suddenly doesnt feel submissive. I am his mistress and it finishes when I say it finishes!! lol
I am thinking if it happens again though I will charge him as a session it might make him think twice about his behaviour after.
Jasmyn Thankyou so much for your lovely comment 
I am so commited to making my relationship work with this dynamic a big part of it. I have learnt so much about myself and my boy by taking everything so slowly and carefully. When something like this happens its so hard to understand it. Especially when your closest friends are vanilla and trying to explain Domme drop to one of them just isnt happening lol. I really do appreciate all the helpful advice and experiences people have shared with me on here.
I think you are quite right when you say it is a cop out excuse. I think if this had happened months ago I would of done the whole head trip thing. I accept responsbilty for witholding his orgasms for a week prior to our play and then teasing him constantly all weekend! lol And I honestly do appreciate that men are just like that sometimes when they cum they get tired. What I wont accept is sudden dismissiveness because he wishes to roll over fart and sleep lol He now knows if he behaves liek that he will have a very unhappy mistress on his hands for a good few days after !!!
Mzmia I love the link you posted
Its all just part of the learing process when things go a bit crazy I guess.
Thanks everyone :)
< Message edited by canupleaseme -- 4/11/2007 3:31:13 AM >
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