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How do I get into it? - 4/9/2007 1:00:32 PM

kinkymale28sub

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I have so many curiousities about being used by a woman/women for just their pleasure in any way they want. Because of my job and family, I don't exactly want to go parading myself about it either! So where do I meet a woman with similar interests that would use me for her discreet pleasure?

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RE: How do I get into it? - 4/9/2007 1:12:46 PM

KuffedKitten

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I believe being on this site is a start. I understand your concerns as they are natural for many people. I myself know several friends I have that would not understand nor approve of my lifestyle choices. It shouldn't stop you from pursuing your desires however with a family as mentioned I am not exactly promoting cheating either..so it really has to be your choice in the end. My best advice would be honesty in your search and I am sure others more experienced than I could offer even more suggestions. I wish you luck on all you desire.

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RE: How do I get into it? - 4/9/2007 1:16:08 PM

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Check out your local community. Go to google and put in BDSM and the name of the nearest big city. Some groups should pop up. Otherwise, message other people in your city on here and ask if they know anything about your local community.

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RE: How do I get into it? - 4/9/2007 1:42:14 PM

DoctorDubious

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Write a long, detailed, truthful profile here on Collarme.
Tell the truth, even if it's unflattering or
if you are a little embarassed to say what you want ....

If you are lucky enuf to live in a big city,
write an ad every week or so on Craigslist,
and make it a little different each week.

If you are married, tell your wife.

DD

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RE: How do I get into it? - 4/9/2007 1:42:56 PM

kinkymale28sub

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Thankyou for the replies - But it would not be cheating for me, as i'm single and looking for alot of fun!

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