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New to the game. - 4/19/2005 8:38:05 PM   
MagicKnight


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Hello all. I'm new here and to the Dom/Sub world for that matter.
Does any one have any hints or pointers as to what a new Dom should look out for and look for?
Now about the whole, Bondage thing, other than what I've seen on the web, I've not done any thing of that sort, you could say I was a virgin as far as all this goes.
I have the desire, and need to be the one in control.
So where should I start? To help you out a little.

I like women (and only women)
I like their softness,
Their smells,
And if it’s the right one, their voice.

I like the idea of telling her to strip, and she does it. Mind you, telling her to strip is not necessarily a prelude to sex.
It is I having her do what I want and how I want it done.
I have a rich fantasy life, role-playing online and all.
The movies I like to watch etc.

I'm weary of it being only in a fantasy role-play, if that makes any sense.
Where should I start? How does one go about getting a submissive/slave female?
I know for a fact they don't grow on trees, or at the very least none of the ones I've seen.
Where I live, women are not what I would call "open" to the Master/Dom sex play themes.
Mind you I've not really gone looking. I'm just looking at what's out there and not seeing what I'm looking for.

Even to myself I think I'm a freak. Here is an example. I like magic
(the kind you might watch on TV.) I like how the magician is in control, which he, and he alone, make the women bend to his will. How he uses the females to his purpose.
(Before you ask, I know that everything the magician does is fake.)
But what is not fake is, he is the show.
And yes I like the idea of the seemingly evil things he does to his assistants.
Now that, that’s been said, am I a freak?

Mostly I'm looking for some one that accepts my oddities, and she herself is willing to get caught up in them with me. I guess that’s the real "trick" to all of this, find some one who is as you are.
Maybe I've come to the wrong place.

My dislikes are, having to share my love with another. I got in a love triangle, and in no time I was shoved out.
NO THANK YOU, I am not going to start that. She will be mind and mine alone.
What is it with Daddy/Dom's? I've read just enough to know I do't want that.
And yes I am very opinionated. With out a strong opinion you would never know where you stood on any subject.

So am I hopeless or is there hope for me? Any advice would be helpful. Thank you.
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RE: New to the game. - 4/20/2005 5:41:32 AM   
theroebabe


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Hi and welcome to the forums at CM!

Here on the forums we love to discuss all aspects of life and the lifestyle! It is also a great place to learn about the lifestyle, so read, read, read since you are new and participate in the discussions.

Everyone hbas their own ways regsrding D/s and BDSM you have to find what suits you. Go to munches and meetings and demos and meet people ask for another Dom/me to be a mentor to you and training on toys you want to learn. Take it slow, be careful and be honorable.



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Roe

People always ask me why I do these things . . .
It's because I can!

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