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being a dull branch - 4/10/2007 9:13:27 PM   
sublizzie


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Status: offline 		I was having a conversation with a friend about her great-grandmother. She said she was glad her g-grandmother wasn't DULL. I got to thinking about that. When my great-grandchildren start doing their family tree, I wonder if they'll realize how not dull I really am. Or will this part of my life disappear and all they'll know about will be the dull parts of my life?

Anyone else ever wonder if you will be the dull branch in your family tree?
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RE: being a dull branch - 4/10/2007 9:17:29 PM   
MzMia


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Status: offline 		LOL, I will hardly ever be the dull branch.
LMAO, I plan to wear leather mini skirts in my 60's and maybe do online
cam domination from a sunny beach in Florida with a cabanna boy running
to bring me drinks with umbrella's in them, when I retire.
I plan on being the "eccentric one" until the day I die. 
I started becomming "eccentric" in my 30's and each year it just gets fucking better!
Viva la difference!  Life does not have to be taken so seriously, neither does aging.
My mother was one of the funniest people I have ever known at the age of 70,
she used to say "I am Rick James, bitch!" I said mommy where did you get that from?
She is the one that turned me on to the Dave Chappelle show.
Age is just a number and those that remain young at heart-->stay young at heart.

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RE: being a dull branch - 4/10/2007 9:25:22 PM   
servilecat


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Status: offline 		i'm a very good daughter, sister, aunt and cousin, etc... but i don't think i'll make it into the family tree....i'll still be that little black sheep in the pasture or butting my head against the tree.

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RE: being a dull branch - 4/10/2007 9:27:56 PM   
MzMia


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Status: offline 		You will make it into the family tree, you just won't be the dull branch!
I think of myself as the modern version of Auntie Mame!
Auntie Mame - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

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RE: being a dull branch - 4/10/2007 9:34:34 PM   
sambamanslilgirl


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Status: offline 		i think reviewing  and partying with bands 2 to 3 times a week won't make me a dull branch of the family tree especially with growing stash of autographs, souvenirs, and photos i have piled on my desk.  

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RE: being a dull branch - 4/10/2007 9:36:40 PM   
MzMia


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

i think reviewing  and partying with bands 2 to 3 times a week won't make me a dull branch of the family tree especially with growing stash of autographs, souvenirs, and photos i have piled on my desk.  


How about that sambamanslilgirl, how about this? My UM's have still not seen
the pictures of ME bartending from 13 years ago, wait until they get a load of that!
I have to start remembering to say UM! ugh

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RE: being a dull branch - 4/10/2007 9:44:16 PM   
sambamanslilgirl


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Status: offline 		at least my oldest UM will something to share with my grandkids about her experiences on the road with me to tour with a couple of bands or both of them attending their first concerts to see the Rolling Stones and Bare Naked Ladies last fall (had backstage passes for both concerts)

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RE: being a dull branch - 4/10/2007 9:50:01 PM   
MzMia


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Status: offline 		You certainly will NOT be the dull branch!!

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RE: being a dull branch - 4/10/2007 10:21:02 PM   
RowanJ


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Status: offline 		I don't think that any of us will be a dull branch.  Everyone has something to contribute to life; otherwise we wouldn't be here.  But especially those in this community...I think that being dull is one thing we just don't have to worry about.

~Rowan

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RE: being a dull branch - 4/11/2007 2:27:55 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: servilecat

i'm a very good daughter, sister, aunt and cousin, etc... but i don't think i'll make it into the family tree....i'll still be that little black sheep in the pasture or butting my head against the tree.


My ~extended~ family is remote but I know my memory lives on and I will always have a spot on their tree.  But I assume any reference to me will have that large red circle with a line through it as a warning to all the young ones of what not to do.  So Black Sheep or not you do have options........... Make your own Tree!!!

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RE: being a dull branch - 4/11/2007 4:00:50 AM   
sweetstorm


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Status: offline 		Black Sheep I am, yes. But I've also been told that I remind everyone of my extremely eccentric and colorful aunt, who is entirely too lovable. In which case, I just assume that I'll be the Christmas tree decorated branch of the boring family tree.

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RE: being a dull branch - 4/11/2007 4:03:29 AM   
gypsygrl


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Status: offline 		What an interesting question. :)

I don't wonder, I know.  Most my extended family thinks I'm incredibly dull and my grandmother on my father's side thought I was "stunad."

Its true.  I can be very boring. 

*shrugs*

There's something about 'boring' that's always fascinated me.  I'm quite sure you can die from it, but thus far, it hasn't proved fatal.  At least not in my case. We'll see what the future holds. :)




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RE: being a dull branch - 4/11/2007 4:13:50 AM   
subsa


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Status: offline 		well in my family even if they knew about the kinkiness i would be hard to be the 'odd' one; we don't have much dullness.  we only have 1 person who is 'normal'.  we each have our own eccentricities.  for example, my brother dressed as a leprauchan for my son's wedding even going as far as dying his hair red; her family was a bit taken aback as was the minister.  my nephew could give the illustrated man a run for his money.  my nieces and nephews often make bets about what color my hair will be at the next family gathering (things like blue, lavender and truely glow in the dark red).  no, there's not many dull branches in my family. 

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RE: being a dull branch - 4/11/2007 4:32:12 AM   
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Status: offline 		MY family just don't know what to think of me, all theses years they have lived their loves wondering when I would break my neck or receive a call that I was dead.I guess my edgeiness and crazy life some how brighten up their dull life.I have always been the one to step off a building base jumping or run a river that was dangerous..A black sheep? no but a topic of a lot of conversations  smile..bounty

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RE: being a dull branch - 4/11/2007 4:49:43 AM   
BeltHerr


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Status: offline 		There is an old saying: 'Act conventionally; then you can do anything you want." And there's wisdom in that.

The most interesting people I have met seemed quite dull in the estimation of the world. The life they really lived was unknown to the public, whose business it was none of anyway. They moved in their quiet, conventional manner in any circle theyt wanted, did what they wanted, answered only to themselves.

That's the life for me!

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RE: being a dull branch - 4/11/2007 5:10:51 AM   
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Status: offline 		There is an old saying: 'Act conventionally; then you can do anything you want." And there's wisdom in that.

The most interesting people I have met seemed quite dull in the estimation of the world. The life they really lived was unknown to the public, whose business it was none of anyway. They moved in their quiet, conventional manner in any circle theyt wanted, did what they wanted, answered only to themselves.

That's the life for me!

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RE: being a dull branch - 4/11/2007 5:30:20 AM   
jauntyone


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Status: offline 		Greetings
 
I do not worry about such things. As long as I do my best everyday, in every sense, and live my life to the codes that I have; if that is being dull, I see nothing wrong in that.
 
I wish you well
 
melissa

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RE: being a dull branch - 4/11/2007 5:33:18 AM   
Twicehappy2x


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Status: offline 		No way will i ever be the dull branch.
 
I will be remembered as the black sheep, the reason nine out of my twelve brothers have tattoos, say fuck a lot, wear ignorant tee shirts and ride Harleys.
 
As for my grandkids, well i was the only grandma to show up on grandparents day in leather boots on a chopper, i taught all my grandkids how to ride starting at two or three, and my grands all have extra grandparents, a few more than normal(poly), so no, i do not think they will ever call me the dull branch.

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RE: being a dull branch - 4/11/2007 6:35:22 AM   
simply4You


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Status: offline 		my father has done a lot of his side of the family's geneology.  It's interesting because there are so many similarities between his sister (my aunt), her younger daughter and myself that its often been the joke that she really gave me up for adoption at birth ;)  This past weekend, the family got together for our grandfathers birthday and we were discussing which kind of Bailey's was best in coffee, which of us cousins were going to have some part of our bodies pierced next and what new shade of red i'm coloring my hair ... my parents just shook their head and walked away.

i've always been the 'black sheep' of the family ... going my own way, doin my own thing but still looking out for everyone else.  i'm still introduced by my brothers friends as 'Preach's' sister ~ my brother was/is the more religious one of us and always has been (he's the Youth Pastor at our church).  Doesn't mean i'm all 'bad', and i know they don't mean it that way, but i have to say that my life so far has been far more interesting, rarely ever dull, to say the least!!

~ simply_me

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RE: being a dull branch - 4/11/2007 7:52:59 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sublizzie

I was having a conversation with a friend about her great-grandmother. She said she was glad her g-grandmother wasn't DULL. I got to thinking about that. When my great-grandchildren start doing their family tree, I wonder if they'll realize how not dull I really am. Or will this part of my life disappear and all they'll know about will be the dull parts of my life?

Anyone else ever wonder if you will be the dull branch in your family tree?


I can say with a fair amount of certainty that I won't want my grandkids talking about the orgies Grandma used to have. I don't think they will think I am dull, cause I've done some pretty interesting stuff that isn't related to BDSM at all. I just don't think I want my family passing on stories of my spankings.

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