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Verbal abuse from CollarME members in email - 4/11/2007 8:25:53 AM   
MistressStchWich


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Status: offline 		I recieved an email this morning that the maderator will not allow me to post here; but I do feel the moderator should  want this type of person not only exposed to those of us who are actually here to use the site as it was created to be used; but should also desire to have them removed from membership all together, and so I have something to share with all of you who, like me, are legitimate in our desires to find a partner who is suitable for our preferences and use the site to make respectful and genuine contact.

I find it completely unacceptable that some members of this site can send any rude and abusive email they wish; but those of us who are victimized on this site by them have no right to expose them for the unsavory and undesireables they are.
Sorry if this is not politically correct (but I am not a politician, I'm a tax payer and US citizen) or upsets anyone, especially if it upsets the moderator; but I believe we have a right to know who is using the site to target people they wish to abuse and insult for no reason at all and without any provocation whatsoever.
I did not contact the person who sent me an email telling me I needed a cock in my mouth, IT contacted me, without my request or consent, and I find that to be a violation of my right to live my life without harassment or abuse by narrow minded and mean-spirited and apparently unparented/untrained evil doers.
Any of the rest of you have a dissatisfaction about the number of unsolicited abuses you receive on this site? An inquiring mind would like to know. Any suggestions how to STOP them from abusing us even the first time? We should have an option to prevent it from ever  happening instead of being subjected to it and unable to do anything until after we have been violated. They have a filter for the journal posts that allows me to post vulgarity; but not the word breed .
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I am not understanding the math in this at all....LOL...so why not one to filter out abusive emails?

< Message edited by MistressStchWich -- 4/11/2007 8:40:02 AM >

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RE: Verbal abuse from CollarME members in email - 4/11/2007 8:34:56 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL.

somebody is rude to you on the street, do you take out full pages adverts in the Times?

He's got to be a loser first off, because you come from the KatyLied/Ansel Adams school of photography with your head partially cut off and the rest hiding behind a camera.

Now I will say you have a nice shape and a knockout dress...but I cannot surmise anything about your oral usefulness.

I get tired of the bullshit emails, I should own the fuckin' african coast by now, I was gonna be a prince.

You need to chill, and be the marshmallow grasshopper.

Idiots are ignorable, because I think you came here for something else, don't lose that focus.

Ron 



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RE: Verbal abuse from CollarME members in email - 4/11/2007 8:35:19 AM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		I received one string of abusive emails and I hit block and got on with life.  Not worth spending energy on.

As for exposing people, what's to stop someone from making something up?  What's to stop me from posting all sorts of threads about YOU, whom I do not even know?  Those rules you are upset about are here to protect all of us.  If you don't like an email, block the person and be done with it.

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RE: Verbal abuse from CollarME members in email - 4/11/2007 8:35:43 AM   
sadkitty


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Status: offline 		MIne are Mostly about my size one told me i needed to get of of collar me becauser i was to fat to be a Sub I have many strangers tell me Rude things they are reported and ignored so dont let it get you !
                                                     Hugs Sad Kitty
P.S.you need to watch for scam artist as well! It is a open place with some faults but it is still free so its better then others in that way! 

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RE: Verbal abuse from CollarME members in email - 4/11/2007 8:35:57 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		You have complete and utter control over your mail............it is called the delete button. Beyond that........you can shut off your computer and never have to see any of it again.

The fact remains that this is a relatively new venue and the legal lines are very fuzzy. What one person may see as intollerable another may see as humorous. Policing it is near impossible no matter what angle you are trying to take. Unless you are being threatened with physical injury your best option is to ingore the fools and move on. Why would you give them any power in your life? The very fact that you are upset about their behaviour probably thrills them to no end. Deleting and pretending it never existed is a much better solution.

< Message edited by LaTigresse -- 4/11/2007 8:36:08 AM >

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Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Verbal abuse from CollarME members in email - 4/11/2007 8:44:54 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Jesus, we need to revive that old complaint thread, LT.  To fuckin' icky up in here.

Ron

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RE: Verbal abuse from CollarME members in email - 4/11/2007 8:44:57 AM   
drawntothedark


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From: Arkansas
Status: offline 		The block button is your friend.

Don't let some loser ruffle your feathers. You are giving him a "reaction" by posting this. Don't. Just ignore it.

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RE: Verbal abuse from CollarME members in email - 4/11/2007 8:45:44 AM   
DistantThunder


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Status: offline 		I get these Emails all the time... I have been called basically everything that Webster's can define and a few terms I am certain were made up on the spot. If it is any consolation, bear in mind that the person writing you is a sad, pathetic little piece of slug slime that has no other recourse other than to degrade the Dommes or Mistresses because of  SEVERE issues with inadequacy... and are threatened by anyone who has any real time experience and can only defend themselves by attacking someone with real knowledge and not what they saw on a porn-site.

The thing that disturbs me most, especially when it is directed at the female Dominants is that this an obvious misogynist and there is always the risk that this loser will find someone desperate enough to buy into their B.S.-D.S. which puts the submissive, slave, bottom (Insert title here) at risk of being abused.

Other than that, just send the following Email in response (Feel free to cut and paste)
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Dear Slug Slime,

Your pathos reaks and you must wait until science develops a technique of making your penis larger or your I.Q. expands beyond your foot size before you ever receive a second response and by the way... F**K off...

Sincerely,
The Truly Unimpressed
_________________________________________________________________

Then block them and find people of worth.

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RE: Verbal abuse from CollarME members in email - 4/11/2007 8:47:00 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		ummmmmmmmmm----------

reeks.

but yah, what he said.

Ron

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RE: Verbal abuse from CollarME members in email - 4/11/2007 8:51:33 AM   
domiguy


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Status: offline 		I feel horrible about what you have had to endure....I would march right up to Mod11 and demand satisfaction...Or you want your money back!!!!

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RE: Verbal abuse from CollarME members in email - 4/11/2007 8:53:59 AM   
domiguy


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Status: offline 		God, at least now I know where all of the "form letters" telling me to go fuck myself  are coming from...."reaks'" was the give away....

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RE: Verbal abuse from CollarME members in email - 4/11/2007 8:57:35 AM   
LaTigresse


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Jesus, we need to revive that old complaint thread, LT.  To fuckin' icky up in here.

Ron


Where is the lil yeller pup when you need him??


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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Verbal abuse from CollarME members in email - 4/11/2007 8:58:18 AM   
Rule


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressStchWich
the person who sent me an email telling me I needed a cock in my mouth
There are about four million and fifty-four ways in which you might have responded, one of them being to delete and block. Alternatively, you might have applied a touch of humor and thanked him for the compliment and told him that you appreciate his suggestion and that you will consider it in due time - and then blocked him.
 
I gather that you feel righteously indignated, but instead you give the impression of being a whiner who has failed to recognize the weak points of her suggestions for improvement of CM.

< Message edited by Rule -- 4/11/2007 9:02:45 AM >

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RE: Verbal abuse from CollarME members in email - 4/11/2007 9:01:22 AM   
MistressStchWich


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Status: offline 		Of course you are all correct and I very much appreciate the suggestions..the one about turning off my pc...not so much...that would be giving it complete power...not a good solution...I'm thinking more along the lines of slapping its mother....lol and about the idiot on the street, no, I would not place an ad; but I would at least be able to fairly and equally fight back and would have legal recourse if it occurred on the streets of Houston...we have a law engraved in the sidewalk outside the criminal courthouse that quotes the staute...it is illegal for a male person to speak in such a manner to a female person, and we even have a law that says anyone can be arrested for using that language (or any a person finds vulgar) if a complaint is filed or it is overheard by law enforcement...why can we not have the option here of reporting them and having them banned from the site?
But you are correct that I did give it power by being so overwhelmed with the desire to beat it senseless that I have now given it its 15 minutes of fame.
Good thing I am 1000 times better at not getting angry with people I actually know...

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RE: Verbal abuse from CollarME members in email - 4/11/2007 9:01:39 AM   
toservez


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From: All over now in Minnesota
Status: offline 		I will not defend idiots or jerks who write trash, but in terms of reporting them on the other side there is a button that will let you report them for certain specific things. As far as the exposing of the person who I feel is a loser/done something wrong to me is so subjective it is not going to find a legit place anywhere on a legit site.

The sender may be wrong for sending crap but you need to look in the mirror at your actions and behavior getting affected by some stranger sending some random message. Some perspective in life is always a good thing.


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RE: Verbal abuse from CollarME members in email - 4/11/2007 9:04:19 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		What exactly is there to fight back about?  Are you looking for a fight?  Are you looking to become a victim here?

Someone acted like a dork in your general direction.  Why are you reacting to it?

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RE: Verbal abuse from CollarME members in email - 4/11/2007 10:36:07 AM   
badwittlekarma


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Status: offline 		yes many times in fact...i have had many nasty emails saying that im not a true submissive and too bad blowjobs are a hard limit cause i would LOVE to break you..im not a horse i dont need to be broken..its so amazing how many ppl think that just because they have the freedom of speech that they can use it when ever but want the right to privacy when it comes to exposing them..i think its bullshit.

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RE: Verbal abuse from CollarME members in email - 4/11/2007 11:46:51 AM   
domiguy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: badwittlekarma

yes many times in fact...i have had many nasty emails saying that im not a true submissive and too bad blowjobs are a hard limit cause i would LOVE to break you..im not a horse i dont need to be broken..its so amazing how many ppl think that just because they have the freedom of speech that they can use it when ever but want the right to privacy when it comes to exposing them..i think its bullshit.


Yes it is horrible to be on a free site that allows for an exchange of ideas on a forum as well as privately....in my profile I make it very clear that all who respond must "share" in all of my beliefs and provide a "tit' shot or two...Otherwise I know they are full of shit.

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RE: Verbal abuse from CollarME members in email - 4/11/2007 11:51:36 AM   
MstrssPassion


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From: West Palm Beach, FL
Status: offline 		I received an email just like that recently ... that I needed a cock in my mouth

I replied, told him "ahh but then that would prevent you of doing the one & only thing you are good at... why not go suck one now" -- then I hit the old trusty block.

psssstt... you just have to blow stuff like this off

< Message edited by MstrssPassion -- 4/11/2007 11:55:55 AM >

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RE: Verbal abuse from CollarME members in email - 4/11/2007 11:55:17 AM   
jauntyone


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quote:

I received an email just like that recently ... that I needed a cock in my mouth

Greetings
 
I do apologize, but I read this and all I could think of was ...'well, darn it, send them my way because I can think of many many worse things than having my mouth occupied"
 
I am trying hard not to giggle because I know that for some, mail such as this does tend to be a bit frustrating; but at the same time, I just find if quite amusing.
 
I wish you well
 
melissa

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