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pixelslave -> RE: Female Supremecy problems (4/11/2007 6:52:43 PM)
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To add to what the others have said, being submissive doesn't necessarily mean you give up the right to make any decisions in your life or relationship. Depending upon the Mistress, many things are negotiable and aren't always just "her way or the highway". In my experience, there are many dominant women who are looking for partners, not just men who will blindly follow their instructions. They seek their advice and council and are looking for a man who can make decisions on his own when needed or where expertise is shown. After all, think of the disasters that would befall the household if a Mistress should became quite ill and her sub didn't know how to make decisions on his own! In some relationships, important decisions are made jointly and others are made by subject split in some manner between the two. It all depends upon the relationship and how the two of you have defined it. [&:]
With that said, while many have referred to you as a "bedroom submissive", it's also been my experience, that the more sexually submissive one becomes, the more generally submissive to a partner they also are likely to tend to behave with time. So you may start out as being primarily sexually submissive now, but a wise and intelligent woman, will know how to use that sex drive of yours to motivate or entice you to become more submissive toward her in many other ways as well. [;)] Once you're submissive toward her in the bedroom, you may find it also becomes difficult to turn that mindset off in other parts of your relationship as well.
Best of luck to you in sorting this out for yourself, as only you and your partner can really know and decide how you'd like things to be. [:)]
- pixel
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