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RE: angry dominants - 7/20/2005 5:23:29 PM

HalloweenWhite

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ORIGINAL: subversiveone

what's worse is when they sic their evil minions on you!
i had a guy actually get an unk female to start harrassing me on IM when i refused to send him a pic!! of course they were ignored but i sooo wanted to put his name on a t-shirt marked arseh*le Dom for sale....
lol

You should have,he and others like him would have thought twice about doing it again. Why do you feel you had to be nice when he clearly wasnt.

. Makes it hard for us who are starting out,I think. And its hard enough.

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RE: angry dominants - 7/20/2005 5:35:47 PM

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ORIGINAL: slaveanwyl

hya

just read this and thought of all those doms i spoke with before Master you start the online bit and the email exchange you move to chat and then calls wow it might be serious , and you say to the dom i am not alone at night i have teenagers i will text to say when to call because i am alone cannot talk to you when children present cannot come online when children present etc etc

and what deos he do ignore you and rings the dam house and son says who is it mum ermmm a friend well you cannot talk now so you say you have people present and now is not good for you well you get the I am the dom you do as i say crap hence ditched dom..

i think there was more than several who threw strops because i would not comply to what ther idea of when and how was

so yes the stroppy to the dam right stupid even the ones who called me at work and would not accept i could not talk

These people who called you at the wrong time all sound to Me like spoiled children who have had their own way for far too long. Dont give them the time of day, tell them where to go. But never give up your search for you One.

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RE: angry dominants - 7/20/2005 6:07:04 PM

jocelyn

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I suppose that my experience as a relative newbie on collarme wasn't unusual. The initial flood of responses, queries, and yes, even blunt commands ran the gamut from beautifully composed letters to one soul who simply said, "hi." I expect that kind of variation in all communities and am comfortable working within the personalities that I find.

I do think, however, that there might be more than a "typical" measure of people here who come from a background of anger or abuse. That's not necessarily a bad thing, and it's important that all of us find home, however each of us defines it. My most recent readings Different Loving, Meet the Authors support that perception.

It's not a bad idea to be a little extra cautious. Those of us who comprise this "place" can be tolerant and inclusive, even as we take extra care to be open to communication from people who can truly meet our needs -

Good luck in your search...

jocelyn

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RE: angry dominants - 7/21/2005 8:00:30 AM

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I'm surprised at how often I'm repeating this statement:

You're a sub, not his sub.

He can ask you to do something, but until you become his sub he should not make demands.

And the temper tantrum afterwards was just special. My view is that if Dominants are going to control their subs/slaves, then they first need to be able to control themselves.

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RE: angry dominants - 7/21/2005 8:12:02 AM

plantlady64

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Hello There,
It seems to me you're talking to Dom's with ego's or attitudes bigger than the USA. I think there are more of these predator types than nice Masters out there to start with.
My advice would be to put those types of E-Mailers on the definite no list and move on. If they are already attacking your self-image, being overly demanding unfairly, and being disgruntled in the first few E-Mails you should see that as warning bells as big as the liberty bell. I would.

Your compatible person will shine through the quagmire for you one day. It's hard to be patient and wait for the right one. Better to be lonely than abused mentally and possibly physically though.

Good Luck,
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