psyecat -> new bi trans sub in FL (4/20/2005 7:38:24 PM)
The title really says it all. I'm new to this, but have been a long time admirer. I consider myself a sub, but would be a slave for the right person. It's a long time desire of mine to find a master, but this is the first time that I've really looked. Any tips or cautions would be appreciated! Thanks!
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onceburned -> RE: new bi trans sub in FL (4/20/2005 8:22:46 PM)
Three tips
1. Go Slow... don't do anything rash just yet. You need to learn about safety.
2. Educate yourself.... there is a lot on the internet that is very good for newbies. Here is a good starting point: The WizDomme Newbie Pack If you search the message boards you will find lots of suggestions. Heck, if you read the message boards you will learn a lot too! I recommend it.
3. Attend your local munch - it is a vanilla gathering of local folks in the scene. Often they are held in a restaurant. A munch is a low key, low stress way to meet others in the community which allows you to make yourself known.
Welcome to Collarme! I hope you enjoy your stay here. [:)]
theroebabe -> RE: new bi trans sub in FL (4/22/2005 5:20:25 AM)
Hi and welcome to the forums at CM!
Good luck on the other side of the CM house (personals). Here on the forums we like to discuss life and the lifestyle. Take your time, read and lezarn what you want and need, and most important BE SAFE. try to find local groups nad go out to meet people to munches demos meetings.