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RE: I'm so proud! My first offer for slavery... - 4/12/2007 8:13:38 PM

servicewithsmile

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Awww....At least your profile pic is entertaining Damien. (grin)

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RE: I'm so proud! My first offer for slavery... - 4/12/2007 8:26:48 PM

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quote:

hmmmmm, interesting debate...

The last 2 people from Collarme I met, I initially sent one line zingers without the intentions of meeting....how does that enter into the mix?

Always,
~curious~

I believe thats the third side of the issue, otherwise referred to as random chance and happenstance

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RE: I'm so proud! My first offer for slavery... - 4/12/2007 9:41:36 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BondageTopJere

quote:

hmmmmm, interesting debate...

The last 2 people from Collarme I met, I initially sent one line zingers without the intentions of meeting....how does that enter into the mix?

Always,
~curious~

I believe thats the third side of the issue, otherwise referred to as random chance and happenstance

Love the word, happenstance!

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RE: I'm so proud! My first offer for slavery... - 4/12/2007 9:43:56 PM

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So, girls.

Do you even have to bother messaging anyone at all? Seems to me you can just pick out guys from your full inbox of messages.

Just once I'd like a girl who isn't 40 to message me and say "hey, you sound like a nice guy, lets chat!".

But with girls. Their profiles are all like, "your messages have to be interesting! It takes alot to get my attention!". High standards! How can I meet them!

For the most part, that's been my experience. It's perfectly fine to expect high standards (it's good to know they won't meet every creep that e-mails them), but it makes it very intimidating for the genuinely nice and interesting guy to approach.

You're almost afraid to blow that first chance and risk having your future e-mails deleted. What if you're not good at first impressions? What if your wit isn't up to par with Monty Python?

curiouslyseeking, I was just about to post the same thing... by happenstance.

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RE: I'm so proud! My first offer for slavery... - 4/13/2007 10:12:23 AM

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ORIGINAL: Fnordstrum
Well I don't tend to send a "first contact" anyway, I tried a while ago on a different site and after getting maybe one or two responses out of all of the messages I sent, well, I figured that it probably wasn't worth trying anymore, then here I figured it would be the same, so yeah.

I can assure you that this is indeed the case. I've lost track of how many messages I've sent, and I always try to make it interesting in someway. I never send one liners. But I hardly ever get replies.

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RE: I'm so proud! My first offer for slavery... - 4/14/2007 4:56:11 PM

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There seems to be a limited number of subs in my area. I've only met one in person(had alot of fun). Sometimes I see a really neat woman, but she lives several states away and has a big Will not Relocate written into the profile.

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RE: I'm so proud! My first offer for slavery... - 4/14/2007 4:59:46 PM

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How come I never get random offers like that? *sighs*

I guess my profile probably makes me out to sound like I might actually know what I'm looking for...lol

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RE: I'm so proud! My first offer for slavery... - 4/14/2007 5:05:23 PM

BeatMeDaily

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is a long drawn out letter better than a 1 liner, you either like his profile and/or pic or not.
Words can come later.

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