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subslave01 -> how do i (4/21/2005 6:01:42 AM)

hello
i was wondering how do i approach a Mistress to become her slave?




siamsa24 -> RE: how do i (4/21/2005 6:24:01 AM)

Have you ever dated someone (anyone) before? If so, then you approach them the same way. With politeness, respect, kindness and the desire to get to know them as a person. People that are into BDSM are people too and they deserve to be treated as such.
I would also recomment reading the following threads:
How not to approach a Domina!
How to woo a dominant woman via the internet
10 Steps for making a Good First Impression




subslave01 -> RE: how do i (4/21/2005 6:53:21 AM)

hi siamsa
thank you for your reply and will take your answer on board and look at those sites




masterdarkthorn -> RE: how do i (5/28/2005 10:44:13 AM)

Ask her.




sub4hire -> RE: how do i (5/28/2005 10:45:40 AM)


Go to a munch, get a rubber band and shoot her in the breast. That will definately get your some attention.

Aside from that I'd tend to agree with Siamesa, approach just like any other vanilla setting.




MadameDahlia -> RE: how do i (5/31/2005 5:36:06 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: sub4hire


Go to a munch, get a rubber band and shoot her in the breast. That will definately get your some attention.

Aside from that I'd tend to agree with Siamesa, approach just like any other vanilla setting.



-falls over laughing-
Oh dear...




kc692 -> RE: how do i (5/31/2005 7:35:00 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: MadameDahlia


quote:

ORIGINAL: sub4hire


Go to a munch, get a rubber band and shoot her in the breast. That will definately get your some attention.

Aside from that I'd tend to agree with Siamesa, approach just like any other vanilla setting.



-falls over laughing-
Oh dear...


You better be able to run really fast to get out of the way!!!lmao




GddssBella -> RE: how do i (5/31/2005 7:51:23 AM)

G'morning all:


I dearly wish some folks would use the search function, not just on here, but on the web itself. There is always lots of information to be had. Simply go look for it.
quote:

Have you ever dated someone (anyone) before? If so, then you approach them the same way. With politeness, respect, kindness and the desire to get to know them as a person. People that are into BDSM are people too and they deserve to be treated as such.
Couldn't have said it better myself Siamsa.

"So you want to meet a domme?" - http://www.jaggery.com/meetdomm.htm

"Nice guys essay" - http://www.lauragoodwin.org/niceguys.htm

Remember one thing above all else 01, dommes are people, not a life support for your fetish or need to submit. Treat us as such. Fill out your profile, add some meat to it. Do NOT discuss your fetishes. That can come later ~at the domme's request~. Describe yourself as a person, as a man. Your hobbies, interests, goals, ambitions. Throw a fully clothed (means NO nudity) pic up there so the lady can appreciate whom is seeking her attentions. D/s is about building and establishing trust. Without trust, there can be no power exchange.

Ok, I'm done venting. [;)]



Stay safe, play nice, & share your toys w/ others....


[:D]


Bella




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