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Snake -> Runaways do you trust them (4/12/2007 10:35:06 AM)
I was wondering of the thoughts here about them ,to you take them back,,how many times ,,,do you ever get that trust level back again,,,,,do you call them out ,,,,or just walk away ,,,,,any experiences to share?

MsKatHouston -> RE: Runaways do you trust them (4/12/2007 10:37:34 AM)
Nope, gone completely. I don't deal with those who disappear. If someone needs to take a break and has a reason for doing so I feel is valid and can live with, I may consider them in the future when whatever issue was resolved. But a good deal of whether or not I would take someone back has to do with how they handled the separation from the onset. Just disappearing on me would equal no second chance.

Padriag -> RE: Runaways do you trust them (4/12/2007 10:40:44 AM)
That they have given me cause to distrust them is clear. What reason have they given me to now trust them?

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Runaways do you trust them (4/12/2007 10:40:47 AM)
Are they the parent of my offspring? That'd be the only reason I'd have to consider it right away. Otherwise, unless they showed extremely legitimate change and openness, no.

BOUNTYHUNTER -> RE: Runaways do you trust them (4/12/2007 11:02:33 AM)
YES I have one,she has run away from past owners as well as us and always begs forgivness and trys to return,...bounty

thetammyjo -> RE: Runaways do you trust them (4/12/2007 11:09:59 AM)
I'm assuming you mean runaway slaves? What's to run from? The relationship is consensual afterall. If they just up and leave without my permission, I consider that they have ended the relationship. Also broken one of my basic rules about how to end things. There are no second chances then. If they are lucky I won't have donated their stuff to charity before they can pick it up.

MasterFireMaam -> RE: Runaways do you trust them (4/12/2007 11:49:34 AM)
How would you win over a feral cat or dog? If you really want a relationship with them, you'll have to approach it from that angle, in my opinion. That, and you have to be in a place where you don't NEED to have a relationhship with them. The minute you start needing them to fulfill something inside you is the minute they can start to manipulate you. Master Fire

sexyone4you -> RE: Runaways do you trust them (4/12/2007 12:06:33 PM)
Well, I am a runaway. I may be the only one ballsy enough to respond, but I like to lay it out there. I personally tend to "runaway" from emotionally difficult situations. (Beat me til I cry, but I don't like to cry for the "normal" reasons.) I don't go MIA, I tend to have to quickly end a conversation that is intense and minimize interaction for a few days. I am currently under a Master who I told about my problem with this when we first met. He is patient with me, but He doesn't allow me to runaway from these sort of issues. He helps me identify them, face them, and get over them. I have become a better slave and a better person because of His patience and efforts.

SimplyMichael -> RE: Runaways do you trust them (4/12/2007 12:31:55 PM)
Why do you pick women who run away, why do they run away?

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