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Punishment Suggestions - 4/12/2007 3:51:40 PM   
koimizu


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Status: offline 		It seems that on the beginning of learning more about the service aspect of D/s, i seem to be stumbling heavily.

Not only did i lock my trainer's keys in his car, i kept his cell charger and forgot to return it or mention it, was late on a return phone call because of a tiny lacking in mathematical skills. (40mins after 5:40 is not 6:30 ><;;).

Well, as such, it was told to me to humbly ask for ideas on how to bring this less than stellar little one back in line from other Dominants.

*tries to look brave*

Any ideas Sirs?


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RE: Punishment Suggestions - 4/12/2007 5:09:32 PM   
koimizu


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Status: offline 		Seriously, i am begging because the less i get the more creative he will be and frankly, that is not someplace i would like ot go just now Sirs.

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RE: Punishment Suggestions - 4/12/2007 5:29:04 PM   
dcnovice


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Status: offline 		You might want to enter punishment in the CM search engine to see what ideas folks have had before. Good luck!

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RE: Punishment Suggestions - 4/12/2007 5:30:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		You might try humilation too (if that's something y'all are into), to see if that yields any ideas. I know there have been threads about it.

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RE: Punishment Suggestions - 4/12/2007 5:37:51 PM   
CandleInTheWind


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im a daddy's little girl submissive type and well truth be told i have been "punished" but once in my entire submissive life  and that was due to a situation i would rather not get into...but   my answer to you is what are your rules and why are you asking us??

we arent there, werent a party to the rules you all established....if all of these things occured at one time...I would humbly beg for forgiveness....also for a clarification of what your duties are....what the expectations are....every Dominant i have ever been invovled with have always been susinct in their rules and expectations....and had i stumbled  i was Talked to...granted my stumblings were little things such as the telephone thing.....if i had a brain fart and missed a phone call time...i was reprimanded and set an alarm to avoid it, I was always forgiven if life got inthe way though.  as far as the phone charger thing...how long did you have it?  did you take it from him or did he leave it there, and you forgot to tell him when you found it ??  Im assuming he is over 21 and is as responsible about that as you.  but that is a spoiled submissive who has always been involved with Dominants that accepted their own responsibilities of behaviors.

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RE: Punishment Suggestions - 4/12/2007 6:44:05 PM   
WiseCracknSadist


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Status: offline 		I like hand cuffs, clothes pins, flexall 454, and a food timer. Handcuff hands behind back, apply flexall to nipples, apply clothes pins as you see fit then set the timer as seen fit. Allow sub to see timer so they know exactly how long they have to endure it. Sit back and enjoy.

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RE: Punishment Suggestions - 4/12/2007 6:56:23 PM   
ayasha


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Status: offline 		one does not know the circumstances surrounding these issues.  Nobody is perfect, but these little things have to  be dealt with in some manner; otherwise larger mistakes will surely be made. 

It is difficult without knowing someone's personality what punishments could be used - what might work on this one might not work on you, and vice versa. 

There may be other answers - have another car key made; purchase a second cell phone charger.  This does not erase mistakes made, but could keep them from being repeated in the future, and isn't that what is wanted? 

When You did not call at the appointed time, He could have said 'you are late' and hung up and ignored you until you learned your lesson about not calling on time. 

Not all punishment has to be painful, there are others that work quite well - kneeling on rice, standing or kneeling in the corner for a period of time while holding a coin to the wall with your nose (lol in your case you could hold his key against the wall with your nose). 

He could take away your cell phone privileges, not allowing you to talk to anyone else except for Him, for a period of time. 

Good luck, one will be interested to hear what is decided. 

Added:  on 4/08/07 you posted in your journal that you had lost a protector?  But you have a Trainer?  and you spent time with a couple while needing some time to heal?  holds head, am confused........

< Message edited by ayasha -- 4/12/2007 7:04:57 PM >

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RE: Punishment Suggestions - 4/12/2007 7:00:02 PM   
Suleiman


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Status: offline 		borrow a page from Dobby's playbook and iron your hands. The look of appalled horror on your trainer's face should be priceless.

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RE: Punishment Suggestions - 4/12/2007 7:17:28 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		I think telling you to go online and do this is pretty much punishment enough- in fact it's usually pretty degrading to have to deal with such immature cyber antics from someone who has to shill ideas from cyber strangers.

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RE: Punishment Suggestions - 4/12/2007 7:18:00 PM   
maybemaybenot


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Status: offline 		My former Dominant would have  addressed this two fold. He was big on essays. The cell phone charger infraction would have had me writing a XXXX word or page essay on techniques to improve my attention to detail or a research paper on short term memory loss.
The phone call one would not have been taken too seriously, if I explained it was a simple math error. But I could see him getting some flash cards and having me practice my math skills. He had a bit of humor in his corrective techniques.

                                         mbmbn

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RE: Punishment Suggestions - 4/12/2007 7:20:49 PM   
facinated


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Status: offline 		I think a choice between loosing something that you love or receving something that you hate. However I don’t feel that a bit of absent minded stupidity is such a huge crime.
So probably no horror movies for you for a month. With the possibility of earlier parole if you are particularly pleasing. And a suspended sentence of physical punishment should you offend again within the month.


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RE: Punishment Suggestions - 4/12/2007 7:54:39 PM   
N4SDChastity


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Status: offline 		I think we would need more information on the nature of your relationship, to provide you with anything other than generalities, unless that's all your asking for.  If I "knew" you, knew you, I could devise hundreds of deliciously devious ways to ensure you'd NEVER forget...

In general:
Physical - I'd tie you to your bed, feet pulled back and teid to the same corners as your hands, and bare-handed-spank dat ass, one swat to each cheek for each minute you misjudged the time, making you count the swats (to aid your math skills, of course), then...
Mentally - Leaving you tied, I'd prop my cell phone on your clitty (set on vibrate, of course), while I went to watch my favorite show (or two), calling periodically, to make sure you were paying attention.  OH, and you'd BETTER do your VERY BEST to keep that phone right where I left it, or I'd up the stakes...  Ummm...  SOMEHOW!!!

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RE: Punishment Suggestions - 4/12/2007 8:55:30 PM   
AquaticSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: koimizu

It seems that on the beginning of learning more about the service aspect of D/s, i seem to be stumbling heavily.

Not only did i lock my trainer's keys in his car, i kept his cell charger and forgot to return it or mention it, was late on a return phone call because of a tiny lacking in mathematical skills. (40mins after 5:40 is not 6:30 ><;;).

Well, as such, it was told to me to humbly ask for ideas on how to bring this less than stellar little one back in line from other Dominants.

*tries to look brave*

Any ideas Sirs?



Valyraen has me write grammar rules out.

I know. We are so sexy.

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RE: Punishment Suggestions - 4/12/2007 9:14:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well first you have to read this http://www.collarchat.com/m_790885/tm.htm
 
And then this http://www.collarchat.com/m_840682/mpage_1/key_sexual%252Corientation/tm.htm#840682
 
And this one http://www.collarchat.com/m_835149/tm.htm
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RE: Punishment Suggestions - 4/12/2007 9:16:13 PM   
AquaticSub


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Status: offline 		Troll, you are very cruel. Mmmm.... BBQ!

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RE: Punishment Suggestions - 4/12/2007 9:18:57 PM   
FukinTroll


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RE: Punishment Suggestions - 4/12/2007 9:26:22 PM   
Rose4Mistress


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Status: offline 		oh god not the ass post...no troll, that is far too harsh on the poor thing!

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RE: Punishment Suggestions - 4/12/2007 9:37:44 PM   
koimizu


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Status: offline 		Hmm..had the charger about 2 weeks going on now red and no, we are just starting out so a lot more things have not been ironed out.  However, thank you but he is not my Sir, just Trainer and i do not view those as one in the same at all.  Also, the two of us do wnjoy a bit of mental bantering as well as that aspect of give and take in out interactions and the training regimes themselves. 

So more or less this post as mentioned is a part of the punishment.  A foreplay if you would and entreating for the creative fires of other Sirs or Mentors for their little ones.  You are correct that he is over the age of 21 and i will have to ask forgiveness in poor explanation.  The phonecall was specifically requested and was mistimed even with a set alarm.  Hence why i made the statement that 5:40 and 40 mins later not equaling 6:30.  Either way, it was timed by him and he had to call me back.  Task given, task failed so to speak.

That is largely it.


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RE: Punishment Suggestions - 4/12/2007 9:40:58 PM   
FukinTroll


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Rose4Mistress

oh god not the ass post...no troll, that is far too harsh on the poor thing!


Sometimes we need hard knocks to find the strait and narrow.

Slurp!

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RE: Punishment Suggestions - 4/12/2007 10:07:42 PM   
Slavetrainer2007


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Status: offline 		Hmm typically  how i work is i take what a girl dislikes and use that as punishment. So the punishment for every girl is different. I base which punishment i use on what crime and how often she screws up.

With me it would really depend on the dynamics  of the relationship with that person. Coming here asking for punishment suggestions is  a part of punishment itself.

A fitting punishment to get your head on straight: writing " I will not keep<insert what you call your trainer>  charger for two weeks, again" for 40 minutes.

Tis a simple punishment, but it  a simple screw up and i think fitting to the crime.


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