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RE: who viewing me = cntact - 4/12/2007 8:12:51 PM   
dcnovice


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ORIGINAL: Smythe


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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

Oh the humiliation

*hands and knees, eyes downcast* Please please please KoM may i missturbate whilst fantasising about all the sweet torture i would welcome from you?

*goes to ogle pics too - secrets out already


mmmmmmmm that will depend on .... *EG*



dude...get a room.

Smythe




LOL! I came close to saying that myself.

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RE: who viewing me = cntact - 4/12/2007 8:12:54 PM   
BRNaughtyAngel


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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

People, you're not that important.  It's a public profile.  People will look at it.  Move on.


But, but, but...... I am too that important. *sniff sniff* 

Ya big bubble burstin' meanie! 



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RE: who viewing me = cntact - 4/12/2007 8:14:14 PM   
dcnovice


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ORIGINAL: ViewingYou

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ORIGINAL: dcnovice

<fast reply>

I'm torn. On the one hand, I find it mildly interesting to see who's looking at me. On the other, I miss being able to perv profiles anonymously. I suppose I could take Aileen's suggestion and create a separate profile for viewing. I wonder if the nick ViewingYou is taken.


I see you.


LOL! That is an adorable avatar.

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RE: who viewing me = cntact - 4/12/2007 8:43:29 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		LOL..I have been viewed by Dom/Dommes,sub/slaves,switches,couples,male/female,transgendered,
homosexual/heterosexual...the whole spectrum...Do I think there is a personal interest..heck no!!...It just shows they ALL have excellent taste!!...LOL....Tempting

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RE: who viewing me = cntact - 4/12/2007 8:46:05 PM   
snappykappy


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RE: who viewing me = cntact - 4/12/2007 8:49:28 PM   
domiguy


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Status: offline 		The only reason I ever view a profile is to see if I hate their profile as much as I do their forum posts or the picture on their avavtar. If you contact me I will kill you.

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RE: who viewing me = cntact - 4/13/2007 10:47:13 AM   
ExSteelAgain


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Status: offline 		Yeah, if you post lots or keep an active journal others will view you. I've checked out most of the posters here, no matter what they are.

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RE: who viewing me = cntact - 4/13/2007 10:55:21 AM   
sambamanslilgirl


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Status: offline 		they look ...i look back sometimes (excluding Dommes and female submissives) just to read the profiles who viewed me. i don't expect anyone to message me though i might get a note or two but if the profile does interest me, i will send a note. knowing that other profiles are viewing mine don't bother me at all - what's posted in my profile and journal is all truth ...i have nothing to hide.

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RE: who viewing me = cntact - 4/13/2007 11:07:29 AM   
MyMasterStephen


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ORIGINAL: patina

I am confused on how to handle the  who viewing me   section.   Do I just ignore those who viewed me or do I send them a message?  I kinda felt like if they had viewed me and did not contact me then i am being pushy  by contacting them.  But on the other hand the guys here seem to wait and let us gals make the first moves. 

One other obseration i have noticed to is that the only guys who seem to participate in the forums are Masters who have had slaves for several years and are secure in their domination.

I would appreciate any feed back on these observations.

patina





I don't think there's anything here that I agree with.

Handle the section however you want.  View their profiles if you want.  Send them a message if you want.  Ignore them if you want.  If they viewed you and didn't contact you, then that's a fair indicator that they're not interested to making contact with them is probably not going to bear any fruit.

Men waiting for women to make the first contact?   That'll be the day!  If I did that, I'd receive no messages at all.  As a man I have to get out there and initiate contact.  Where do you think your avalanche of messages comes from, and why do you think men don't have a similar pile of poo to sort through?

And as to Doms who participate in the forums, I myself have not been in a relationship for 18 months, so perhaps that makes me special?  Sometimes I really hate being special...

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RE: who viewing me = cntact - 4/13/2007 12:35:41 PM   
GoddessDustyGold


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ORIGINAL: domiguy

The only reason I ever view a profile is to see if I hate their profile as much as I do their forum posts or the picture on their avavtar. If you contact me I will kill you.


And here I thought you were admiring Me, domiguy!  *LOL*   Dire warning noted and filed for My future safety! 
I glance at this feature once in a while.  I check it mainly when I have received a heartfelt email stating they have read My profile and think we are perfect for each other, yada, yada...  *Smile*  And then they don't even show up on The "Who's viewing me"...
When I see names from the forums, I am well aware that they probably flipped to My profile to get a better look at who the crazy Lady is.  *Shrug*
I would probably be sad if no one ever looked at My profile for some reason or another.  It's just another feature.  Use it as a way to begin a conversation or not.  I don't.   
 
Edited to wave to snappykappy!

< Message edited by GoddessDustyGold -- 4/13/2007 12:37:34 PM >

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RE: who viewing me = cntact - 4/13/2007 12:46:49 PM   
Satyr6406


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Status: offline 		Personally, I contact just about everyone who views me, be they male, female, dominant, submissive because, in the end, making new friends is never a bad thing, either.
 
Sure not everyone's going to be a match. Hell, I'm an ugly bastid who is really only interested in D/s (on this site, that almost makes me persona non grata). So, my not being a match to a good percentage of people is a foregone conclusion.
 
 
 
 
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RE: who viewing me = cntact - 4/13/2007 12:51:56 PM   
MissyRane


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Status: offline 		heck I loved viewing profiles just reading what people say and so on. It had nothing to do about me being interested in the person or not. But now I never view the persons profile, except I've been so lucky that they've viewed my profile. Otherwise I find it uncomfortable because yeah..I don't feel like signing the guestbook everywhere I go -...hate that button lol

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RE: who viewing me = cntact - 4/13/2007 12:57:03 PM   
Marc2b


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Status: offline 		There are definitely other reasons besides a desire to contact for looking at a profile. If I’m getting into a heated debate on the boards I’ll check out the other person’s profile just to get a better idea of who they are. I’ll also check out profiles of women I think are pretty (sub or dom) for no other reason than I’m a guy and I like looking at pictures of pretty women. Just a few moments ago I was checking out mixielicous’ profile because I really liked her new picture. Also, if I’m on the boards and want to get back to the profiles, sometimes I’ll just click somebody’s picture at random.

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