I want to say I don't just do any pussy that comes along, with that out of the way my and her tastes are high,Many that we meet at leather evens /party's are ready to "GO" at that moment and many that come to visit us are after some emails and phone calls.ALL know what is expect of them on their first visit...bounty
And I don't see anything wrong with that at all. For me, sex is a BIG part of a relationship. However, in order for me to truly submit to a Master, my mind has to submit first. I can pretend to submit sexually for a little while, however that is not what I'm looking for at this time in my life. I guess, I want my cake and eat it too, hehe.
This is the same "reasoning" my high school dates used to dish out, slightly rephrased perhaps, but basically the same. It was a line then, it's a line now!!!
LOL -- i'd tell em don't let the door hit ya on the way out <g>
cheers jimini
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ORIGINAL: notlooking2
Hi all, I'm pretty sure I know the answer to this. However, I would love to hear the opinion of others. Should I be careful with a Dom who wants to have sex on the second date? His reasoning being "So he can get the sexual frustrations out of the way and can concentrate on being a Master".
I haven't read any responses but the OP caught my eye. This is positively great.
"So he can get the sexual frustrations out of the way and can concentrate on being a Master".
First, that's a brilliant come on. If he gets his by using it and the woman falls for it, more power to him. But I have this mental image of a Jekyll and Hyde character who by day is a wonderful Master, completely in control, has his shit together. The hornier he gets he loses all self respect and turns into this drooling fiendish guy who must get some in order to get back to his "normal" persona.
That just cracked me up. To seriously answer the OP though, if you want to sleep with him, go for it. You're a big girl. You should have enough common sense to understand all the possible outcomes of this and whether or not you are prepared to accept them.