myobedience -> RE: Needing your Dom/Master/Mistress? (4/17/2007 6:56:40 AM)
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ORIGINAL: grlneedstolearn Good morning to all, i was wondering, and hoping i'm not hijacking another thread here, about your need to be with your Dom/Master/Mistress? Firstly, I see our relationship as a "dating" situation, in a sense, right now. We are getting to know each other more and finding out more about each other. So no I would not want to be with him 24/7. Specifically this question is geared toward submissives, but slaves are always welcome as well. My question is this: For those who don't have a 24/7 relationship and only see their Master/Dom/Mistress a few times a week, do you feel that after they have left that you need to stay in the room that you last played just to get a "wiff" of their scent? I do like his scent after we part, IF we played. Getting to know someone is NOT all about play. Yes its fantastic, but there is more to a new relationship than play. There are times tho, when I drive home and dont want to bathe and love the scent he left on me and I know he loves the scent of me on him. He has warned me tho, being needy for him is not a healthy choice for me. I must be independent and able to have a solid self esteem without him. Needy to him is not something he wants from me. He wants me to want, not to need. Knowing that in a few days they will be back to play? Or am i just totally abnormal when it comes to this? NOPE !! [:)] Not abnormal to want the feelings you just had to linger .... Just remember ~~ A relationship is NOT based on feelings, but trust and respect. Thank you
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