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What *all this is to me* - 4/14/2007 2:12:22 PM   
Xeandra


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Status: offline 		I have one point to make.. *all this* is mostly opinions! There is no one way to train, serve ,sub, own ect. BDSM D/S is like ice cream there are thousands perhaps millions of flavors you just have to find the right one. Alright im done that all i had to say just had to get it out.
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RE: What *all this is to me* - 4/14/2007 2:16:53 PM   
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RE: What *all this is to me* - 4/14/2007 2:19:21 PM   
Xeandra


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RE: What *all this is to me* - 4/14/2007 2:30:12 PM   
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RE: What *all this is to me* - 4/14/2007 2:33:54 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Xeandra

I have one point to make.. *all this* is mostly opinions! There is no one way to train, serve ,sub, own ect. BDSM D/S is like ice cream there are thousands perhaps millions of flavors you just have to find the right one. Alright im done that all i had to say just had to get it out.


I am looking forward to introducing you to the slurp method.

Slurp!

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RE: What *all this is to me* - 4/14/2007 3:23:57 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Xeandra

I have one point to make.. *all this* is mostly opinions! There is no one way to train, serve ,sub, own ect. BDSM D/S is like ice cream there are thousands perhaps millions of flavors you just have to find the right one. Alright im done that all i had to say just had to get it out.


Hence my sig

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RE: What *all this is to me* - 4/14/2007 3:45:41 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Xeandra

I have one point to make.. *all this* is mostly opinions! There is no one way to train, serve ,sub, own ect. BDSM D/S is like ice cream there are thousands perhaps millions of flavors you just have to find the right one. Alright im done that all i had to say just had to get it out.


Agreed and you will see people say things to this effect over and over and over again in the threads.


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Hence my sig

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I think it is sad that this has to be repeated all the time by many of us.

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RE: What *all this is to me* - 4/14/2007 7:01:52 PM   
Xeandra


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ORIGINAL: Slavetrainer2007

quote:

ORIGINAL: Xeandra

I have one point to make.. *all this* is mostly opinions! There is no one way to train, serve ,sub, own ect. BDSM D/S is like ice cream there are thousands perhaps millions of flavors you just have to find the right one. Alright im done that all i had to say just had to get it out.


Hence my sig




That is a great signature *smiles

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RE: What *all this is to me* - 4/14/2007 7:34:23 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Xeandra

I have one point to make.. *all this* is mostly opinions! There is no one way to train, serve ,sub, own ect. BDSM D/S is like ice cream there are thousands perhaps millions of flavors you just have to find the right one. Alright im done that all i had to say just had to get it out.


ahh... yep.

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RE: What *all this is to me* - 4/14/2007 8:10:10 PM   
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RE: What *all this is to me* - 4/14/2007 8:39:06 PM   
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RE: What *all this is to me* - 4/14/2007 9:12:48 PM   
minnetar


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Status: offline 		Welcome aboard Xeandra.  As you said all Masters are different and we need to learn their wishes.


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RE: What *all this is to me* - 4/14/2007 9:29:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		Right there with you.  And your comment in the other thread about the hardon for labels and boxes and the like.

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RE: What *all this is to me* - 4/15/2007 5:34:47 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Xeandra

I have one point to make.. *all this* is mostly opinions! There is no one way to train, serve ,sub, own ect. BDSM D/S is like ice cream there are thousands perhaps millions of flavors you just have to find the right one. Alright im done that all i had to say just had to get it out.


That's an opinion too ;)


Seriously, you're very right.

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RE: What *all this is to me* - 4/15/2007 8:03:57 AM   
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Agreed.... and just like in life!

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RE: What *all this is to me* - 4/15/2007 8:22:29 AM   
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Status: offline 		Which doesn't explain the dozens of questions we get that say "Am I the only one? I'm not that weird? Please tell me I'm just like other people!"

To a lot of people, your statement is bad and scary- they don't want it to be "whatever works for you"- they want a One True Way, and they want you to tell them what that Way is ASAP so they can't start fitting in with everyone else.

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RE: What *all this is to me* - 4/15/2007 9:22:25 AM   
Xeandra


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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Which doesn't explain the dozens of questions we get that say "Am I the only one? I'm not that weird? Please tell me I'm just like other people!"

To a lot of people, your statement is bad and scary- they don't want it to be "whatever works for you"- they want a One True Way, and they want you to tell them what that Way is ASAP so they can't start fitting in with everyone else.




thats is quite true they want boxes like *true dom True sub* mainly this thread got started becasue there was a *true sub* that wanted me to *train them proplerly* im my mind yes i could train them but there is no properly unless your for me becasue of the above statment.

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