SusanofO -> RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky (4/15/2007 4:01:30 AM)
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1) Niceness and sincerity get me really, really HOT. At the risk of sounding mudane, someone I am into (or even just a good male friend) calling me, just because they "are concerned, and want to see how I am doing" (if they had some reason to possibly wonder), can practically make me need to take a cold shower. Consideration and caring makes me swoon. Not that I can't take care of myself (I do, and most of the time, just fine. Nor am I a "stalker" type of female, or ultra-lonely). But still, if I've had a hard time about something, and someone has really, really "been there" for me, and tried to help me, I never do seem to be able to forget that - even if I don't see or hear from them for months. It is just something that whenever I think about it, makes me just totally melt. I just sometimes wish men weren't so darned "emotionally independent" Because I'd like a chance to reciprocate, and I would do that (I have, on occasion, too. And not that I wish anyone hard times, I don't), but - whether Dominant or submissive, as a lot, some are just too "together" to let me do that for them, it seems - the bastards! [:D] 2) Hugging really can get me off, too (am I boring, or what?) [:D] 3) **Someone who notices something quirky and unique about me, that I never thought they noticed, and then when I get together with them, they say they find that endearing about me - or else they've brought me some little token gift, because it reminded them of that part of me. That just makes me feel like they really noticed my individuality, and care about the real, true me. 4) **Someone who has some knowledge base about some really obscure area, or else something I know almost nothing about - but that they know all about - for some reason, that really turns me on, as long as they aren't arrogant about it. I am not sure why, I just like that. 5) **Someone who will touch me spontaneously, even if I don't know them well (but it's clear I like them, or that we like eachther) and not be all embarrassed or seemingly hesitant about it. Especially if it's really a gentle or small move - like touching or taking my hand, or touching my hair. 6) Intense eyes. Especially if I catch them looking at me, unexpectedly - and especially if they dont' stare, but also don't look away right away. - Susan
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